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How to fill in this format to send a wedding day book to the woman's home

Writing Format:

The first line of the double happiness word (囍);

第二行写眷姻弟某某偕室某氏端肃之子于归,鹊桥代嫁;

第三行写两姓聯姻,百年好合;

第四行写谨选,某年某月为令媛于归的佳期;

The fifth line says, "I am honored to present to you, Your Excellency, a certain government, a certain Junta, a certain dresser, a certain honor."

The sixth line says, "We love each other, and it is good for the family."

The seventh line says, "In a certain year and a certain month and on a certain day, the original name is in the worship."

The eighth line says, "We grow old together, and we will always be together.

Marriage to send the day writing sample

Wedding family xxx ton head to worship

Da De Wang xxx old in-laws Mr. His Excellency ambidextrous

Hope our door xxx male

Junmen xxx female

tie the knot as a husband and wife

Eternally wear the centennial

A.D. 20xx year xx month xx day (lunar calendar xx year xx month xx day) auspicious day

get on and off the car facing ** combing face ** big auspicious

bridesmaids belong to the x big auspicious 忌 xxxxxx

wedding family xxx and then Dun head

x House in-laws xxx brother to learn:

this is when my son xxx and your love xxx knot dating raccoon with the period of time The matter, by both sides of the eight characters together, Qiankun conjugation.

This is scheduled for the xx year xx month xx in xxx hotel for xxx and xxx held a wedding, hope that the in-laws of the adults out of the pro, should be the sky is auspicious.

Your brother in law, the white repair family worship

20xx xx month xx

Tradition

Ancient women are often "born in the bosom of the people do not know, is ugly ugly ugly no one knows". After the matchmaker, the man often put forward the request to take a look. This is the male side in the matchmaker's side dish to the female family for the first visit to the activities, called "look pro". It is also known as "matchmaking".

The date of the matchmaking is pre-determined by the matchmaker and notified to both men and women, so both sides have to get ready. The man has to prepare a little gift according to the hobbies of the woman's parents; the woman has to clean the courtyard and prepare to receive guests. As a party, both men and women should dress up as elegantly as possible, and have some splendor, in order to give each other a good "first impression".

Looking at the relatives is a key part of the success of the marriage, especially the men, especially to be treated with caution. Although the gift is nothing more than cigarettes, wine and snacks and so on, and do not care about the number and value of high, and must be to their liking, do not offend each other's parents' taboos; dress to be generous into the time; speech and behavior to be modest and courteous.

Anciently when looking at relatives, the man can only be created by the matchmaker to sneak a look at the girl, modern different, men and women can directly meet, talk. Both sides have the opportunity to have a preliminary understanding of each other.

China is a country of "propriety and justice," which emphasizes subtlety. The result of seeing the bride is often not directly confessed, but with a variety of hints to show. Many places are in the man after the door, the woman's parents first pour a cup of hot tea to the young man, the young man looked at the girl feel favorably, the cup of tea to drink a mouthful of dry.

Then the girl's parents with the girl to discuss, such as agreeing to marry, stay with the male and the matchmaker dinner, do not agree to let the male party to leave to go home, some parents and even the matchmaker will be the male party to bring the gift away.

Some areas, in addition to seeing the marriage, there is also the "family" custom. "Tsa family" is actually also look at the family, is the male party led by the matchmaker to the female party has seen the girl, the woman's parents on the marriage of the tentative position, and then led by the matchmaker, back to the side of the male family. Qiyang area is known as "see when". See when, the male parents should first offer a fragrant tea, and then talk to the women's parents.

Women's parents by looking at the men's home and talk to the men's parents, if the marriage is recognized, the tea will be drunk, the men's parents immediately to "in-laws", and hospitality to guests. Otherwise, the female parents should get up and leave, the male should not be forced to stay guests.