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Do you care about the form of the wedding scene?

The wedding in my mind is not so luxurious and grand, but the most traditional way. As long as two people really love each other, there is no need to care too much about the face project. Save money, worry and be simple.

I can accept a simple wedding, but I can't accept a wedding without atmosphere. Especially for us brides, the most important sense of ritual in life has passed, and there will inevitably be regrets in our hearts.

For example, in Guizhou, a couple got married, didn't wear a wedding dress, didn't arrange the wedding scene, and put two tables of banquets. They were considered shabby by netizens and thought it was an engagement scene. In this rural wedding scene, the bride and groom get married according to local wedding customs. If it weren't for their worship of Gao Tang and his wife, people really thought they were engaged or celebrating their birthday, because their clothes and venue layout were too shabby.

The bride and groom don't wear wedding dresses, but wear ordinary household clothes to hold the ceremony. The bride just holds the flowers and puts on the crown, which is nothing like a "bride". The groom is also dressed in sportswear, as if he had just come to worship Gao Tang and left, and neither of them wore makeup.

Moreover, there was no joyful atmosphere at the scene, no red letter "Xi" was posted, and no decorations such as red lanterns and balloons were arranged. Only two tables of guests are eating, and the scene is very deserted. I can't accept it for whatever reason. This is not the kind of wedding I want. I'm really disappointed.