When the traditional blind date gradually became popular, why did you find that the nature of blind date became worse?

Blind date, commonly known as meeting, is also called meeting, meeting, etc. Generally speaking, it refers to a form in which men and women meet under the matchmaking of an introducer when it comes to marriage, because they are still single.

As a traditional wedding etiquette, blind date has been gradually ignored and despised by people because of the prevalence of free love in a certain period of time.

However, in recent years, there are more and more leftover men and women. In order to solve this problem, blind date, a traditional folk custom, has attracted more and more attention and become popular!

However, when the traditional blind date became popular again, I found that the nature of blind date had deteriorated!

Compared with now, the previous blind date method seems a little simpler, but the probability of success is great!

Usually, the introducer will say a few simple words in the middle according to the general situation of both men and women, and through a simple meeting, the two people will get in touch. At that time, blind date was not as complicated as it is now. Most people will study a suitable match! There are not so many wild desires on both sides of the blind date. As long as you feel the same way, choose each other. When the mutual requirements between two people are no longer so demanding, it is easy to combine.

Now it seems that the blind date at that time, although a little too simple, contained a kind of simplicity. Two simple people can live a good life together!

Compared with the past, the ways of blind date now are various and varied. Although there are more and more ways of blind date (such as online blind date, telephone blind date, dinner blind date and so on). ), the probability of success is getting smaller and smaller!

It stands to reason that with more and more blind date ways, the probability of blind date success should be increasing! So, why is this situation getting smaller and smaller? In my opinion, the main reason is that people's concept of blind date has changed, becoming more complicated and powerful!

For example, nowadays, blind date between men and women no longer focuses solely on the feelings of both sides, but mostly on whether you have a car or not. Do you have a room? How is your career? What is the salary? And so on, all aspects with material as the core! Even the once pure campus love will go their separate ways because the material conditions are not up to standard, not to mention the love after entering the society!

Gradually, we find that more and more blind dates are like talking about business again and again! Then, since we are talking about business, we can take money as the center and benefit as the guide.

If your material conditions are not up to standard, then the chances of going to the blind date market are very small, even if you can appear in the blind date market, you are not welcome! Because dating you is like talking business with you. No money to earn, no profit to earn!

If you have excellent material conditions, you are very popular in the blind date market and can be sought after by people. Because the other party knows that dating you is just like talking about business, there is money to be earned and benefits to be made! The initiative is in your own hands, it depends on how you choose!

The current blind date market is so cruel and realistic! When the nature of blind date changes, the success rate of blind date decreases. There is no denying that there will still be beauty in this world because of blind date, but the probability of our meeting is getting smaller and smaller!

Think about it carefully, the more complicated you are, the higher your requirements are, the harder it is to achieve and the harder it is to get! Blind date is like this, so is life?