Parents' education and role models are absolutely influential. How big is the responsibility of parents?

There is a good saying: "Parents are the first teachers of children". This sentence illustrates the early education and absolute influence of parents on their children. Therefore, in the education and growth of children, parents have great responsibilities.

From the birth of a child to babbling, and then to toddlers, parents' care and education are all the time, so children's living habits, joys and sorrows are influenced by their parents. Grow up. After two weeks, the child slowly learned to communicate with others and had no mapping of his parents' thoughts and behaviors.

When children go to school, apart from teachers, parents spend the most time with their children, the cultivation of moral character, the formation of world outlook and perfect independent personality, how to be kind to others, how to be patriotic and help others, and so on. I can say that children are the trigger of parents, and parents have a great and far-reaching influence on children's education.

Therefore, educating children is the first responsibility of our parents. Don't depend on the teacher for everything. We should set an example for our children from an early age and tell them how to behave. What kind of person are you? Let's grow up with our children!

Parents play a very important role in educating their children.

In China's juvenile reformatory (formerly known as juvenile reformatory), all the juveniles aged 65,438+04 but under 65,438+08 receive education and reform, and most of the factors that lead them to commit crimes come from their families.

It is true that parents are children's first teachers. Children are influenced by their parents since childhood, and their personality basically comes from their parents' genes. If parents can't transmit positive energy to their children, school education alone is not enough.

If parents are kind, knowledgeable and caring, their words and deeds will inevitably leave a deep imprint on their children. If parents are extremely selfish and unreasonable, children will be more or less infected by them, become self-centered and enter the ranks of "Xiong Haizi".

I taught a fourth-grade primary school student. He was very naughty and often bullied other students, so I contacted his parents. His mother said that my children are sensible at home. How did he get into trouble at school? The other children must have made the mistake first. Other students proved that her child was wrong, and she ignored it at all. Imagine having such parents to protect him. Can the child not make mistakes?

Some parents are too commercialized and full of money. They only meet the needs of children materially, but they are seriously lacking in educating children to be human beings, which leads to the wrong idea that everything can be settled with money. In this respect, Li Tianyi should be a good example.

Influenced by bad social atmosphere, young parents nowadays regard marriage as a child's play, and divorce regardless of whether their children live or die, which leads to an increase in the proportion of single-parent families, and children can't get complete love in the family, which has long formed a sensitive, suspicious, withdrawn and willful character, which is extremely unfavorable to the growth of children. There is a family in my village group. Originally, my son was smart and got good grades, but his parents quarreled in front of their children for three days.

The mother ran away from home in a rage, the father drank and played cards all day, and often took his son into the chess room on holidays, regardless of his children's study. Soon, the child's study plummeted, and the class teacher went to visit the child's father and told him what it was like to study. Going out to work is a big deal. Can such a father educate his children well?

I like studying and answering questions. In order to answer the questions raised by my pen pal, I consulted various materials and discussed them with my classmates and friends. I come to the following conclusion, hoping to help everyone.

Parents' words and deeds are the best role models for children.

Are you qualified to be a parent?

What are the obligations and responsibilities of parents to their children?

Article 21 of the Marriage Law stipulates that parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children. Minors or children who cannot live independently have the right to ask their parents to pay alimony when their parents fail to perform their alimony obligations.

Children who cannot live independently refer to children who are still receiving high school education or below, or who have lost or not completely lost their ability to work.

Parenting refers to parents' material and economic support and care for their children, such as paying their living expenses and education expenses, and taking care of their children in life. Education refers to the all-round cultivation of children in ideology, morality and studies.

To sum up, parents are the legal guardians of their children and have an unshirkable responsibility for their upbringing and education.

Parents should take care of their children spiritually, materially and economically, which is the basic guarantee for their survival and growth. Without this guarantee, children cannot grow up healthily.

As parents, if they bring their children into this world, they fail to educate them well and fulfill their parents' responsibilities, then they are dereliction of duty. When children grow up, they complain that their parents have not fulfilled their responsibilities. At this time, parents really have nothing to say. Therefore, raising children does not teach anyone wrong, and children are ignorant. In the end, it can only be the fault of parents.

If the father is not kind, then the son is unfilial; If a brother is not a friend, then a brother is disrespectful; If the husband is unfair, the woman will be unhappy.

—— Beiqi Yan Zhitui

As the saying goes, "parents are unkind and don't blame their children for being unfilial." This seems a bit contrary to human relations. From the Confucian point of view, even if parents are not kind, they should be filial, but what people often need is psychological balance. The human heart is like a balance. If it is tilted, there will always be problems.

I once knew a family where parents complained that their son was not filial to him and called him a baiwenhang. The son said that his parents were unkind, and of course they were unfilial. This kind of thing can be found everywhere.

Parents are always children's first teachers. Since parents have brought their children into this world, they should try their best to educate their children well, accompany them through some difficulties in life and encourage them to face all kinds of things bravely. Blood is thicker than water!

Parents are children's first teachers, and family environment is particularly important for children's growth. Therefore, as parents, we should spend more time with our children and let them feel the warmth of family and the happiness of being loved. At the same time, it is necessary to educate children to be polite and let them know how to honor the elderly. In addition, while imparting knowledge, read with children to satisfy their curiosity. As parents, we have an unshirkable responsibility in educating our children. Don't think that when they grow up, they can just give it to the teacher.

Children's education is a lifelong problem, and parents play a very important role in their education. In fact, parents are the best role models and teachers for children, and their words and deeds have had a great influence on children.

Parents are children's mirrors, and children are their shadows. Parents draw a blank sheet of paper and tell them how to treat their children. Parents give their children not only life, but also sound personality. Food, clothing, housing and transportation are the most basic guarantee. Children's growth is inseparable from the correct guidance and education of parents, and often parents' casual language actions will affect children. There is no need to emphasize anything, because your words and deeds have a subtle influence on children. Parents should create a warm and normal family environment to ensure their children's physical and mental health. The recent case of Wu's mother-killing is all some kind of love for children's growth. Single parents have done a lot, often ignoring their psychological counseling, so parents must not be paranoid. Your words and deeds hurt their children like a knife, so I have always been.

It can be said that parents' education will affect children's life, even more than the influence of teachers, especially for immature children who grew up under the influence of parents. Parents' words and deeds will be imitated and put into action by children, and parents are also the best teachers for children.

A good teacher may influence children for three to five years, but the influence of parents is lifelong!

The child is not the teacher's, but the parents'. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Everything parents say and do affects their children's growth.

Your child is just one of the teacher's n students, and educating your child is only part of the teacher's job.

But you are different. Children are the only one for you. Educating children will always be your most important career.

Because no matter how good and responsible the teacher is, he can't do it:

1, the teacher can't guarantee your child's good conduct.

Teachers can't give your children good habits.

The teacher can't give your child a book.

Teachers can't help you to cultivate children's will.

Teachers can't give your children long-term happiness.

Please cherish every day when your child is with you!

What children need when they grow up is companionship and encouragement.

The work left behind may be made up by working overtime; And the laziness you stole from your children will become the deepest regret, which will make you regret it, but you can't recover it.

Parents are fully responsible for educating their children to become adults. Parents are adults and providers of children's material needs, and they have an absolute advantage. There is something wrong with the child. Parents have problems.

A child is born a blank sheet of paper, and his growth is greatly influenced by his parents' words and deeds, especially the family environment. Both children and adults must be trained, and it is adults who constantly imitate thousands of human behaviors in children. It usually takes 25-30 years for children to grow into adults.

The way parents talk to their children is the way children talk in the future. The attitude of parents towards their children is the attitude of children towards you in the future.

On the way of educating children, we can't accept their way of speaking, their behavior patterns and their attitude towards us. We only want our children to be ignorant and ungrateful. The truth lies in their parents themselves.

Due to the knowledge background of traditional education and culture, what parents do is natural, and they all act because they love their children. In fact, we sometimes hurt children in the name of loving them, but parents don't know it. Relations are getting worse and worse, and tragedies are constantly being staged. ...

The so-called love that our parents give their children is not necessarily love, because the existence of love is determined by the loved one, not how much love you think is love, but how much the loved one receives and feels. ...

Personally, I feel encouraged by you.