Why do girls want to be rich and boys want to be poor?

Recently, a "fashionable" concept of parenting has become popular among parents, that is, girls should be well-off and boys should be poor. "Abundant support" means that parents should often take their daughters to various occasions to broaden her horizons and increase her experience. In this way, when their daughters reach the age of sixty, they will not be easily tempted by the vanity and prosperity of the world. If a girl has never seen the world, it is easy to be attracted by a little petty profit, leading to an irreparable tragedy in her life; Boys, on the other hand, have to be trained by their parents as hard-working people since childhood. "Poor support" refers to the material restrictions on children, and you can't give anything you want. Because for men, only by not being afraid of the harsh living environment and adapting to the cruel social competition can they really work hard to create their own sky and shoulder the responsibilities of society and family.

What's wrong with girls having money?

The phrase "girls have money" was first heard by the shopkeeper in a small shop selling clothes. I think it makes sense. I especially like to buy beautiful clothes for my daughter. Whenever she appears beautifully in the crowd, she will be praised by all sides. Amid praise, my daughter is becoming more and more confident and generous. Most importantly, she has her own aesthetics and even knows the skills of matching clothes. In addition, in terms of educational input, we chose piano, Go, Latin dance and tennis to cultivate her aristocratic temperament. Under our careful training, our daughter is sensible, elegant and considerate, and is very popular.

We certainly don't want her to be lazy in raising children, but let her develop good personal cultivation through rich life, so that she will not be easily swallowed up by flashy society in the future. We know in our hearts that everything should be measured. If children are allowed to be extravagant and wasteful, they will eventually get hurt. Mama pengpeng.

Girls are too rich to support.

It is an insult to women to raise girls well. Don't girls need to work hard for their future lives? In fact, children who grow up in superior environment are more susceptible to temptation, because they can't suffer a little, and they will easily retreat when they encounter a little difficulty. Therefore, in the cultivation of children, men and women should be treated equally, so that they can learn to struggle, and struggle is the true love for children. Mama piggy

Having money doesn't mean spending money.

I agree with Fu Zhu's view of "broadening one's horizons and increasing one's experience". All men, women and children should enjoy such treatment, but "well-informed and independent" does not necessarily depend on the support of money. Think about how many parents were able to take their children in and out of high-end places when we were young, and get familiar with all kinds of upper-class manners. But aren't we living well now and not being swallowed up by the world of flowers and flowers? Therefore, the correct understanding of rich support should be: within the scope of parents' ability, let children contact different levels of life as much as possible, instead of spending a lot of money endlessly to artificially create a so-called "rich support" environment. Xiaoyu mama

Be a spiritual aristocrat

Whether poor or rich, parents' original intention is to enable their children to cope with all kinds of tests that may be encountered in future life. However, vanity is not rich or poor. What matters is not what environment you grew up in, but what attitude you have towards the environment. Excellent quality needs the polishing of years, and the growth of the soul needs the experience of life. It is certainly desirable to increase your experience and broaden your horizons, but the true meaning of life is not to infiltrate it, but to enrich your mind while walking in the world of mortals.

Let children read more books and distinguish between right and wrong while mastering knowledge; Tell him the truth of being a man and set an example; Cultivate his various interests and let him pursue something in the spiritual world; Take him to enjoy the colorful scenery and taste the wonderful and suffering of life at the same time; Encourage him to bravely experience the storm and learn to face life through personal experience ... If a child holds wealth in his hand, his mind will not be barren and his pursuit of spirit will not be captured by superficial vanity. The same scenery, the difference is our attitude towards things. Therefore, it is the best choice to train boys and girls to become spiritual aristocrats.