Why did you pay attention to "seven-year-old men and women sitting in different seats" before, and avoided suspicion since childhood, but now you have no scruples?

"Seven-year-old men and women are not at the same table" is from The Book of Rites? Internal rules. The Book of Rites is a miscellaneous compilation of Confucianism, which contains rich historical materials of Confucianism and is a must-read book for ancient scholars.

Book of rites? Naize has a saying: "The son is edible, teach his right hand. The only people who can talk are men and women. Male skin, female silk. Number and name of six-year teaching experience. For seven years, men and women are not at the same table and don't eat. Eight years in and out of the door, impromptu diet, must be followed by the elderly, can be taught. A few days of nine-year teaching. Ten years later, I will go abroad to study books, learn tactics, and wear clothes and pants. At the beginning of the ceremony, I went to Shuai Shuai. I will learn young manners every day. Please forgive me. Ten have three years to study music ... ten have five years and get married at the age of twenty; There is a reason, 23 years of marriage. If you hire a wife, you will be a concubine if you run away. Every woman worships her right hand. " It's for the difference between men and women in ancient times.

The ancients believed that the core of the relationship between men and women was prevention, not prevention. The complete statement is: "Men and women guard against it." In modern times, influenced by western culture, women gradually gained equality and respect. In addition, with the social unrest brought about by China's reform, opening up and modernization, more women have entered the public sector to take part in labor or receive education. However, the traditional concept of gender still has a profound impact on female college students. It did not get rid of the traditional model of "male host and female guest", which bound and restricted the adult success of girls. Only by reflecting on the harm caused by traditional gender culture to both sexes, and at the same time improving girls' self-awareness and making efforts can we promote real gender equality and harmony.

Therefore, I used to pay attention to "seven-year-old men and women are different seats", and I have avoided suspicion since I was a child. Now I have no scruples. It should be the development of humanism, the embodiment of human rights equality and the requirement of social open development.