How does it feel to be a qualified parent by inheriting a good family style?

Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang. My parents have always taught me and my brothers and sisters to grow up "filial piety, diligence, integrity, kindness and frugality".

My father likes reading ancient books. Before we entered the school, he often told us stories such as "Incense lasts for a long time, which can warm the seats", "Kong Rong makes pears", "Bao Qingtian is diligent and eager to learn" and "Chen Ping, who assisted Liu Bang, endured humiliation and worked hard". Let's learn the nutrition of growth from the story. It also taught us that boys can't have long hair like boys, and girls can't dye their hair like girls, which makes people uncomfortable. Be honest, don't be a chicken thief, and tell us the story of being a thief and stealing melons. We are told to "have good thoughts, accumulate virtue and do good deeds;" Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance; Be careful when you give it, and don't forget when you receive it. " Although I didn't fully understand the true meaning of these words at that time, I think there is always nothing wrong with kindness. My father also said to us, "You can't be rich for three generations, but you can't be poor for three generations. Everything should be frugal, remember that bitter experience should be sweet, not extravagant. In life, you can't compete with others for food and clothing Wear old clothes. It doesn't matter. You can wear it when it is mended and washed. You can't compete with others to wear famous brands, so that vanity grows quietly in your heart. Be careful about your diet, and those who are satisfied will always be happy. "Hard work and plain living is also a virtue. "

We are also deeply influenced by our parents' behaviors and words. In the growing years, we have already fixed these excellent family styles in our hearts.

Now, I am a parent myself. Influenced by a good family style, I copied it to educate my children. Whenever I get together with my children and parents, I always massage the old people, and the children learn from me, scrambling to rub their shoulders and pinch their arms, making the old people laugh. (www.fwsir.com) When there is something delicious, it is always given to the elderly first. If you are at the dinner table, let the old man sit in the chair even if there is no stranger at home to eat. When eating vegetables, children can't pick up the dishes in the bowl and eat what dishes. I will help the children with food with a spoon on the table. If the old man doesn't eat first, my children and I won't move chopsticks first. If the old man drinks some wine first, I will take the ladle from the pot when I help the child to fill the rice first, and I can't grandly fill the rice from the middle of the pot. This is disrespectful to the elders, and the rice in the pot cools quickly. Old people will be hard and tasteless when they eat it.

Filial piety comes first. I did a good job and played a subtle role in refracting children.

In the middle of the twelfth lunar month last year, my friends and I found an authentic Xinjiang jujube in a supply and marketing supermarket in Shaoxing. It is very big, super soft, seedless and very suitable for the elderly. So we bought some and prepared to take them back to our hometown. Old people on both sides sent several bags, and our children also tasted some. When I gave the dates to the children, Rui Xin only ate one. She said with praise, "This is the first time I have eaten such delicious dates, and it is huge, and there is an independent single package in the big bag. How cool it would be if I took them back to my grandparents (children used to call them grandparents)! Mom, I won't eat my share. Tasting delicious food is enough. I want to stay and give it away. " After that, I really packed the fresh-keeping bag. When my sister saw this, she wished her sister would give her a fresh-keeping bag and keep it as a gift. Although this is a small matter, I saw the sun through the dripping water, and I clearly felt the golden filial piety in the children's hearts. My face can't help but be filled with a happy smile, and my heart is full of regret. Example is greater than words! !

Children thrive with mature positive energy under a good family style. Along the way, "the line remains the same, the fragrance lasts for a long time", and the children slowly show the convergence of these good family styles. If every family has a good family style, it is like "every family is dying." If the excellent family style is passed down like the relay race of the Olympic Games, then the world will be full of spring, warmth, singing and laughing, and the whole universe will become more peaceful and harmonious! !