Help with engagement customs in Linyi Junan, Shandong Province

Specifically what part of Junan ah, ten miles of different customs. Generally speaking, two days before the engagement to buy some bedding, and each two people's clothes to buy a few. Then it is to invite your family to go to the relatives and friends, usually women, more than ten people. Before leaving one person a cigarette. This is roughly all! Before the engagement, the man's parents will not go to the woman's home, only to get married when they go to the woman's home to ask for face stickers (that is, your birth date, used to measure the date of marriage). It seems that there is no such thing as a marriage proposal in Jounan, my daughter-in-law is also a foreigner, the marriage is also a lot of different places, we are just to the woman's home according to the woman's customs, in the man's home according to the man's customs.