What are the shortcomings of men?

What are the shortcomings of men? There is no shortage of gold, and no one is perfect. Everyone must have advantages and disadvantages. Men and women are born different, especially in personality and life. What are the shortcomings of men?

What are the shortcomings of men? 1 1, lewd.

Desire is everyone's nature, born with it. But don't use this nature as an excuse to have an affair with others and steal others outside. Once it happens, the consequences are unimaginable. A man with a knife on his head must control himself. Don't always think with his lower body. Just think about something in your mind. Don't take them seriously, otherwise it will easily lead to breakup and marriage breakdown. Women want their men to be single-minded and don't want a third party in love.

2. Smoking and drinking are regardless of occasion.

It is understandable that men like smoking and drinking or smoking and drinking for entertainment. But smoking and drinking on any occasion are endless, which makes women particularly annoying. Especially drunkenness makes women feel fear and insecurity. Never do anything like drunk driving or hitting people after drinking.

3, stingy

Buy buy buys double eleven, buy buy buys double twelve, and buy buy buys birthday presents. On important days, men must be generous, don't be stingy, buy things for women, even if you have no money, but buy her some small gifts. What a woman sometimes wants is not necessarily how rich and expensive she is, but maybe as long as you simply care about her. Be natural and graceful in front of friends. Don't haggle over every ounce there and pull a long face.

4. Idle around and do nothing.

Men can't idle around all day and do nothing. Even if you are unemployed, don't be idle. Learn to constantly improve yourself and work hard. As a man, you must have a sense of responsibility and care about your lover and your family. A man should be the pillar of a blue sky for his family.

5. Domestic violence

I remember a saying: The most extreme violence in this world is war and killing, and domestic violence is the most common and hidden one. It affects thousands of families, and the victims are often women, children and unarmed old people.

Indeed, no matter what the contradiction is, never use violence to solve the problem. Violence is by no means the antidote to the world. As the saying goes, a gentleman talks but doesn't do it. We should face each other with reason and broad mind.

6. Lying

A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Lying is as sad as swearing. We should be honest with the woman we love. However, sometimes white lies can be told, which can add more interest to life.

7. mutual disrespect

Don't complain that others don't respect you, ask yourself whether you respect others first. We should learn to respect others, especially the woman we love. If we don't even respect our lover, let alone respect others.

In public, don't say that your woman is cheap, mean and bitchy. We should learn to appreciate and accept others, and don't do things that hurt others' personality.

8. No motivation

If you are studying, you have no motivation and lose the motivation to study, what will happen to your studies? If you are working, have no self-motivation and lose the motivation to move forward, what will your promotion space be like?

Learn to set goals for yourself, go forward bravely, make persistent efforts when encountering setbacks, and stick to the end, and life will become more and more exciting.

A man with no ambition makes a woman see no hope for the future. We should be self-motivated, don't give up, and take our beloved woman to the other side of happiness.

What are the shortcomings of men? 2. disrespect.

Respect is a very beautiful quality, and words about respect can be seen everywhere. Men in China have worshipped power and wealth since ancient times, and they naturally flatter those who have the right and wealth. Even if it's not that serious, at least it's flattery. It should also be from China, Bai Yang, with obsequiousness in his bones.

No wonder men with thousands of years' history in China have vividly educated generation after generation. Power and financial resources represent the right to speak, status and glory. In the government, in the company, in the school, as long as there are people, there is flattery.

As long as people have a flattering attitude, they will not have a good face, which is also a strange circle layer by layer. If you fall in love with someone who is psychologically unbalanced, it will be transferred to those who think that they are not as good as themselves. The word "respect" is more on paper. In fact, there is no concept of equality for all. Therefore, this face change from top to bottom makes China men have no truly happy people.

Second, the virgin complex.

This complex is simply speechless. They have a strange thinking that a woman is either a virgin or a big loss. In their words, just thinking that this woman has had another man makes them more disgusting than eating flies. What they value is a film, which is more important than a woman's personality, quality, accomplishment, culture, tacit understanding and so on.

But for them, marrying an ugly virgin is harder than killing them. And how many women they have had is insignificant and unreasonable. Men with virgin complex are suffering from their own pain and deserve to live in suspicion and anxiety.

Third, too selfish, too self-righteous, too violent.

China has always given birth to sons, and any son is much more precious. In the past agricultural era, the son was the labor force, which ensured that the family forces would not be bullied. Just like a family with a son, the daughter always has to marry and pour water.

Not to mention the only child now, almost all the people who are most concerned and loved are sons, and they are also the sons' greatest hopes. I have been used to being a center since I was a child, and I have been used to being a center with myself when I grow up. They will like cats and dogs and care about cars and computers, but they often turn a blind eye to the people around them.

Besides being selfish, you are self-righteous. You always seem to know something. If you don't agree with them, you will often jump up and doubt them, as if they were questioning the truth. There are also ignorance, naivety, geographical discrimination, gender discrimination, work discrimination, rich-poor discrimination and so on.

What are the shortcomings of men? 3 1, stingy.

Being stingy is a man's taboo. It is also a shortcoming that I absolutely don't have. If childhood has taught me the most important thing, it is that stingy people can never make friends. A stingy person may be able to save money, but he is counting on money to live.

It's best not to let him meet when he wants to ask someone out. Men are more disgusting when they are stingy. A man can't give his friends, relatives and lovers around him a basic satisfaction and wealth, a comfortable mind, and haggle over everything. It's no different from impotence, but it lacks male elements.

2. There are no seeds.

Just because a man sees a woman doesn't mean everyone has to conquer. You should at least know when to have sex. There are too many obscene men in this world, which makes girls full of precautions, as if boys have bad motives. My basic point of view is that boys should be generous, say whatever they want, be honest and have nothing to say.

This is the biggest feature that distinguishes a wretched man. A boy chasing a girl is to dare to confess, not to say that there is nothing to hide, but to pour it all out. This is an atmosphere, a magnanimity and a mind. Even women dare not chase, dare not admit the man they like, and have no guts. Should be extinct.

3, no manners.

A man needs dignity to be manly. Wretched men love to turn against each other and care. Look at so many boys going in and out of the tower. Few of them know how to let the girls go first, how to hold the door for them, how to get in and out of the elevator, how to squeeze, and how to keep rushing to reborn. What is this? It's called being rude and ill-bred.

Such a man is unreliable in talking and doing things. As soon as he opens his mouth, he doesn't have to think about anything. He doesn't know what to say and what not to say. This is the lack of * * * ability.

Can't understand other people's feelings and take care of everyone's face. I don't even understand decency, and I can't expect him to be considerate and delicate, and can take care of everyone in a small place. To put it bluntly, it is selfish to be raised as a child. Everything is self-centered. Listen, girl. Don't expect him to change. Dogs can't change and eat shit. Just wait for Lacrimosa every day.

4. Do not introspect.

If a person wants to succeed, he needs to reflect on his behavior all the time. An introspective person can appreciate his emotions and psychology, and he is bound to understand others from their perspective. Introspective people will not have particularly bad shortcomings, such as the above shortcomings, which can be controlled.

A wretched man is a man who lacks such feedback to himself, and others are too lazy to take care of a self-centered deaf man. Once a man does not introspect, all the mistakes are others' and all the responsibilities are pushed clean. Don't expect him to feel the pain of those who love him one day. Go to die early.

5. Complain and be cynical.

When I am under pressure, I am also a complainer, and I have to express some critical views on everything. Most of the time, when I feel uncomfortable, I say. On the one hand, personality, on the other hand, poor pressure-bearing ability. I feel that boys should complain less and dare to express their opinions among the rules.

But not in a complaining tone. A person who attacks all kinds of phenomena all day gives people the feeling that time is dark. The future is bleak. It seems that everything is unfair, and everyone is playing his own game. There have been such people for a long time. It's easy to be narrow-minded, so it's better to get rid of it early.

6, unkempt appearance

I can't stand men with shiny faces, greasy hair and fragrant body all day, but men can't be too informal. Even the basic cleanliness can't be done, unkempt and untidy, which is a big disrespect for people. It also fully shows that life cannot take care of itself. I'm too lazy to talk about it.

7, pay attention to words and deeds

One can't scold everything. A man with grace, temperament and gentlemanly demeanor will not say nothing and use foul language to express his inner excitement.