How to evaluate the online conversation between female doctor of Peking University and Japanese sexologist Ueno Thousand Mounds?

The video of three married female doctors from Peking University who became attached to Ueno Thousand Tombs became an instant hit. However, most netizens in the comment area are furious. Obviously invited such a powerful feminist master, but the video makes people feel chest tightness and shortness of breath. Let me analyze this obstacle from a subconscious point of view.

Answer first, the sense of separation between body and mind.

First, the title of the video is anything, as long as you live freely. That is, the state of life that the three of them want but dare not.

Second, I'm looking for the author of Yan Nv and the feminist leader Ueno Chizuko. That is, three wise old people who are on the road to women's freedom.

Thirdly, we should discuss the deeper core and significance of feminism and how to avoid misunderstanding, that is, how to reach the secret of freedom.

Fourth, but the question is, are you not married because you were hurt by a man? Is it impossible for you to get married because the conditions are not allowed? Is love talking or not talking? You are a perfect match, and married women are flawed in your opinion? It's like I'm using my marriage to seek Ueno's approval, instead of really discussing women's freedom. Ueno also made it clear that he just didn't want to get married, not that he was not interested in men. The implication is that getting married or not is not a constraint on her. But they still take marriage as the premise and keep throwing out all kinds of questions. Ueno teacher himself is complaining. You teenage girls seem to be asking me for love advice.

To tell the truth, this part is quite like three married elders persuading an unmarried young man. Instead of really discussing what different women really need. This phenomenon is actually a hurdle we will encounter on the road of self-exploration, that is, the separation of body and mind. My brain knows that the goal is freedom, and my ears hear the guidance of wisdom. But my subconscious and cognition can't understand this guidance. So my words and deeds are still the opposite of freedom. This is why this video triggered a sense of separation in everyone's heart. One is that you are obviously intellectual, but there is no corresponding height. A feeling that technology is not integrated into personality and that knowledge and practice are inconsistent. Because, like many people, marriage is more of a defense against all kinds of anxiety. Such as age anxiety, death anxiety and self-worth anxiety. Instead of getting happiness and freedom through marriage. And this can only be achieved through constant self-exploration. Only when you face your real problems can you get real freedom.

Finally, regarding the nature of women's rights, you must distinguish that women's rights are not equal to unmarried infertility. Doesn't mean you're not in love, doesn't mean you're not interested in men. Doesn't mean every detail has to be absolutely fair. It is not that all forms of overlapping buff are formal and correct, but a kind of thinking that is free from any traditional female shackles. A kind of free and easy that is not defined by any label.