Is there a sentence that subverts your traditional cognition?

Most people go through tasks and customs clearance one by one according to the established rules of the game in society, and only a few people can live according to their own rules of the game. This sentence has a great influence on me and changed my rigid concept. Most people get married at the right age, and when they have children, they are often the right one in the eyes of others. If they live according to other people's ideas, they will eventually lose themselves. So the goal I set for myself is not to be interfered by others, and I can make a decision when to choose marriage.