How to understand positive discipline? What are its characteristics?

Positive discipline originates from the teaching of love and is characterized by respect, acceptance and companionship. Occasionally chatting with friends, parents always complain that their children are disobedient, "they don't listen to anything" and "they are disobedient when they fight and scold". Every time this happens, I feel sorry for their children. Children are like angels. No child is born to make his parents angry. Parents complain that their children are not sensible and obedient, but they never consider whether to respect their children, whether to know them, and whether to consider the problem from their perspective.

Why are some children obedient, some children communicative and some children cheating? This fact has a lot to do with their parents. If a child wants to be a seed, he needs sunshine, air and water to sprout, blossom and bear fruit, but the most basic soil is very important.

When we were children, we must have some regrets in our childhood. But there are also positive parts. Looking back on the road we have traveled, you will find that we have learned a lot. As parents, we are not perfect, we make mistakes and there is nothing we can do. So accept yourself, accept growth, and give up the desire for perfect parents and perfect children.

Children are sensitive and fragile and need the protection and companionship of their parents. Companionship is not simply around, perfunctory. Such companionship can't achieve positive results. A child's heart can perceive everything. Maybe children can't express it when they are young, but they know whether their parents really care or take care of their children with love and tolerance.

Children's childhood is short, but childhood has a great influence on children. In the childhood accompanied by parents, this kind of happiness will become the wealth of children's life. In China's traditional educational philosophy, parents and children are never equal, and bondage and even abuse can be seen everywhere. On the other hand, it is not important to love children too much, because after beating and scolding children, parents will feel at ease if they give their children unlimited love.

Every child is a mirror of his parents. Only when we face the child face to face can we see your child's face. Only when we smile can we see your child's smile. To change children, we should practice it ourselves and start with positive discipline.