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Family education of "stepping on one and holding one"
Our family is compound, with a preference for boys, a tiger mother and a cat father, depression, ridicule and encouragement. Particularly prominent is the "step on one and hug one" type. I, my sister, my brother and my younger brother, needless to say, the average boy will be given preferential treatment in the family, and his educational model is patriarchal and encouraging.
As the old saying goes, the boss hurts the third, and there is a doormat in the middle. But my sister is an exception. Maybe it's because of the old saying that my mother has a special preference for my sister. The way of education embodied in my sister is encouragement, a little doting, or "coaxing".
The way of education embodied in me is to suppress and ridicule, and I am the object of "stepping on one and holding one" being trampled on.
When my sister and I have similar grades, in my mother's words: I study hard and get good grades, but my sister doesn't study "smart" and gets good grades. When I help my mother with housework, my mother dislikes everything. With the help of my sister, my painting style changed suddenly. My sister is very clever and can do it quickly and well. The point is, I often help, and once I don't help, my mother will be sarcastic. My sister often doesn't help, but occasionally my mother will boast and show off. Even more hurtful, my mother said that my sister will definitely be more promising than me in the future.
By this kind of "trampled" education, I have always been a self-abased and flattering character.
Being born in a family has a great influence on children.
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