How can you change your parents' entrenched ideas?

It is possible to change your parents slowly.

Family life over a long period of time always creates an inherent perception. This concept and specific family life together, and in the accumulation of years and years of long life, gradually formed a kind of family education in the concept of education, this family education in the concept of education through several generations of family inheritance, will gradually form a kind of characteristics of the obvious, distinctive style, connotation rich in education concept, that is, for the traditional family education in the concept of education. Compared to school education and social education, family education is unique in that it can be received every day and family members can influence each other. Many families, while inheriting the experience of their predecessors, have unconsciously been infected with some one-sided or fallacious concepts, such as the nature of the tree is straight, learning is useless, earning money is the hard way, the woman's no talent is virtue, and so on.

These concepts are even considered correct in a certain period of time, which is related to the social environment, economic situation, humanistic conditions and so on. economic situation, humanistic conditions and so on are closely related and inseparable. Now the way can only let the mother slowly more accept new things, subtle input modern concepts, you in more with the mother said some outside of the new things and modern people to deal with the problem of the point of view. This way mom will slowly change. If someone around us has a wrong behavior, don't accuse or correct others in public, unless we want to use it as an example to others, then don't do it. You can choose a private occasion and just remind the other person. If the other person is willing to change, he will accept it. If he does not accept it for the time being, there is no need to force him to do so. Unless you have the right to demand immediate correction, penalize him. Even if we have the right, we have to use it carefully.

Perception has become an important factor that cannot be ignored. Parents' perceptions and attitudes are critical. Concepts such as one's own interests are paramount, the strength of the strong and not strong to speak with bills, and it is okay to tell occasional falsehoods are incorrect, and these daily life? Seemingly unnoticeable problems, really if you get a concrete life, will give the child so that is the way to do things, resulting in the wrong bias and absurd understanding. The traditional concept of family education has been formed, the need is now parents according to their own family situation, according to the actual situation of the child to make corrections and adjustments, one step at a time, solid, steady, strong, and do a good job of children's family education in the concept of family education change.