What are the advantages and disadvantages of family education in China and the United States?

Family education in China: more material, less time. Some people think that the so-called family education is to enroll children in various extracurricular classes, invite the best teachers for them, and cultivate their various specialties. But they seldom have time to chat with their children and play games together. I don't know that an important principle of family education is "parent-child" interaction. Family education without parents' personal participation actually exists in name only. It is very important for a person to value IQ more than EQ IQ, EQ and financial quotient. But family education is mainly aimed at the cultivation of children's emotional intelligence. Every word and deed and every move of parents in daily life will become the first object for children to imitate. Imitation is the first and most skilled learning method for children. Therefore, parents should set an example. Instead of telling their children how to do it, it is better to show them. Most people are not sure what they really like and what they are suitable for before 18 years old. Before that, the knowledge we have learned not only lays our knowledge foundation, but also plays an important role in exploring suitable learning methods and developing good study habits in combination with practice. Scores can't accurately test whether we have learned the correct learning methods. America: Putting respect for children first American parents believe that children need more respect than nutrition and knowledge. Because they are an independent individual from the day they were born. When talking to children, American parents never stand on it, but communicate with their children equally. American parents don't answer "He doesn't want to eat" and "He doesn't want to eat" to their children in advance like most parents in China. On the contrary, it depends on the children. Of course, this does not mean that all children's needs have been met. Parents usually explain and explain what the host does not provide and what the child wants.

America: Give children a chance to fail. When children grow up, it is inevitable that they will fail. If the child is young, China's parents will laugh it off, try to help him get rid of the problem, or simply let the child give up. British parents don't think so. Mike's son Charlie is 10 years old this year. The little boy can not only take care of his daily life, repair the water pipes and appliances at home, but also repair the car. In China, this knowledge may not be understood by young men in their twenties. The first time Charlie did something was when he was 2 years old. He watched Mike do the dishes curiously. So Mike carried Charlie to the pool. Charlie jumped into the pool at once and began to work. This is washing dishes, and it is also equivalent to taking a bath. The clothes and trousers are all wet, and the bowl is not cleaned, but one of them is broken.