Can a married daughter spend the New Year at her parents' home?

According to traditional customs, the answer is to go back to her husband's house. According to the custom, "the married daughter is the spilled water", and the married daughter belongs to her husband's family. Therefore, at the beginning of the new year, families are reunited, and the married daughter will also spend the New Year at her husband's house.

According to today's new thinking, the answer is to go back anywhere. With the popularization of science education, fewer and fewer people are willing to believe these ugly superstitions.

The married daughter is the daughter-in-law of her husband's family, and the son-in-law is her mother's half-son. In Hot Blood, the affection between mother and daughter will not be cut off because of a "spilled water".

Whether you can go back to your mother's house for the New Year depends on the old customs in various places. As far as most rural areas in Guangxi are concerned, married daughters cannot go home for the New Year. First, because of the old customs and superstitions, and second, considering the in-laws, the daughter will have her own family after marriage, so she should still live in her in-laws' house.

However, in addition to special festivals such as the first day, New Year's Eve and the fifteenth day, daughters can still go back to their parents' homes. And I must go back, because I have a good wish for the couple, that is, the couple will visit their relatives for the first time after marriage, and the relatives will return a considerable red envelope, wishing the couple an early start.

Regardless of the old customs, you can:

1, the bride's family and her husband's family are neighbors or upstairs and downstairs. The two families have a reunion dinner together and spend New Year's Eve together. Eat at my parents' house this year and at my husband's house next year. More than a dozen people prepared and celebrated the New Year's Eve together, making a scene, and the family was happy.

2. If the two families are close, spend the New Year's Eve at her husband's house and the second day at her parents' house. The son-in-law took his father-in-law and his family home for the New Year, and the neighbors were full of envy. The family is in a hurry and their hearts are warm.

3. If the bride's family is far away from her husband's family across provinces or cities, you can consider staying in one family for one year, so that both families will not fall behind.

Wherever we go for the Spring Festival, it's all about family ties. Young people work hard outside for a year, but also for their families to live a better life. After a hard year away from home, you should go home and recharge your batteries in this safe haven to prepare for the struggle in the coming year. The married daughter is the daughter-in-law of her husband's family, and the son-in-law is the son of her mother's family, so she stays at home wherever she goes.