What do contemporary older men "contend" for as husbands?

There are more men than women, social pressure and sky-high bride price. If the man marries the woman, he will face a series of problems such as bride price, wedding banquet, car and room. Older men who are not married now are mainly post-90 s, and may face unsatisfactory jobs every day. A chicken feather's life in one place may only be enough for themselves and their families, and their parents are old, which will not help them much. In today's society, few people can say that they are independent. If they buy a house in full, they will basically have a mortgage, and the car is also a big expense, not to mention the sky-high bride price of "one in a million", "six pounds six" and "eight pounds eight" in some places. In addition, today's society is not as discriminatory as before, men and women are equal, and it doesn't matter whether children take their father's surname or their mother's surname. This has led to the "competition" of elderly men for husbands.