Why is the divorce rate in China getting higher and higher?

In my opinion, there are ten main reasons:

One is the improvement of women's political and economic status. In the past, Chinese women were "marrying a chicken and following the chicken, marrying a dog and following the dog", "at home from the father, married from the husband" concept has always occupied the psychology of Chinese women in ancient times, so unless the husband repudiated, the proportion of wives who took the initiative to file for divorce is very few, so in the past, Chinese families are relatively stable, although not living a good life. Therefore, in the past, Chinese families were relatively stable, and although they were not necessarily happy, divorce was rare. Nowadays, with the development of society and the improvement of productive forces, women have made unprecedented progress in study, work and politics, and their social and economic status has never been higher, forming the trend of "half the sky". Women no longer need to depend on men in order to live, and may even be able to live better than men, especially since women are able to take part in the division of labor in all aspects of society, and their economic initiative is no different from that of men, so women can boldly say "no" to men. If a woman feels aggrieved by her husband or believes that he is no longer suitable for her, she can now take the initiative to divorce and pursue a life of her own.

The second is the opening up of sexual attitudes. With the improvement of the status of women in all aspects, coupled with the influence of the Western concept of sex, women's demand for sex is no longer the traditional succession, sex has become a tool for their enjoyment, if her husband's quality of sex is not up to their requirements, they are no longer shy to speak, but to take the initiative to attack, if her husband can not be sexually, they will take the initiative to say Byebye, and now, because of sexual reasons Now, for sexual reasons, women take the initiative to file for divorce cases is an increasingly high trend.

Thirdly, there are more and more opportunities for different men and women to come into contact with each other. In the past, women are mainly at home, and do not go out and contact with outsiders, which is the "female dominated, male dominated" Chinese tradition, now, has long been no such concept, men and women are working outside, living, so that different men and women have more and more opportunities to contact, in the process of contact, different men and women again to recognize, and compare to become a natural, when men and women outside the couple contact. Naturally, when men and women outside the couple contact for a long time, it is possible to fall in love with each other over time, the development of extramarital love, at present, around our lives, extramarital love has become the norm in life, the divorce has become a watertight thing.

Fourth is the growing instability of work. With the socio-economic changes, now the work is more and more unstable, today's work may be in the South, tomorrow but in the North, the work of the geographical instability and work is not fixed, the possibility of couples together is more and more small, some couples only a few times a year or once a year or even a few years once the opportunity to meet, couples live apart has become the norm for the Chinese couples, couples living apart naturally make the The couple's separation naturally makes the couple's feelings indifferent, especially during the period of separation, in the outside world under the various temptations, betrayal of marriage has become more and more normal things, betrayal of marriage naturally end up more towards disintegration.

Fifth is the further increase in income differences. Now, the income difference between people is getting bigger and bigger, some can be extravagant, some are even difficult to protect the basic life, and even the shelter is not, so big difference in income, how can couples stabilize? In the temptation of money, especially in the temptation of the house, couples fall apart more and more to become an objective cause, the divorce rate in big cities is high economic factors is the main reason, and the higher the price of the city the higher the divorce rate.

Sixth, the only child's self-centered personality is an important reason for the divorce of young couples. 80 couples after the divorce rate of more than 50%, there are many reasons, but self-centered personality is one of the important one. 80 after the most for the only child, at home naturally by the parents of the pampered, live "emperor" or "princess". Or "Princess" like life, are used to self-centered, such men and women married, it is difficult to achieve mutual compromise, often a word on the divorce fuse. A word touched on the marriage, a word of disagreement on the divorce this is after 80 after 90 couples flash marriage flash separation of the main reasons.

Seven is the couple's economic or social status changes. Married, couples may be able to tightly united together, but this era, is the era of the market economy, but also the era of change, overnight, some people will be the name of the night, some people will become rich, of course, there will be some people will go bankrupt, reduced to nothing, in addition, in the officialdom, some people will be pleased, gradually become a star in the officialdom, and some people will be disillusioned, demoted, dismissed, dismissed, and even into the classroom, with the social status of couples. Class room, with the change in social and economic status of the couple, the feelings between husband and wife will change, extramarital affairs, one-night stands and so on become possible, divorce is not far from them.

Eight is a highly educated couple pursuing a higher level. From the report we see such a phenomenon, the divorce rate of highly educated couples than the divorce rate of low-education divorce rate is much higher, the reason is that highly educated couples on the pursuit of life has many aspects, both spiritual and economic aspects; both the social status of the aspects of the independent views; especially the pursuit of the future and the pursuit of the future of couples with low education are different ideas, especially in the contact with the crowd is more Relatively wide or the so-called high level, such couples tend to say a small thing in a certain reason, but also to analyze, look at the so-called phenomenon of the essence of such couples tend to be at odds with each other, and ultimately turned against each other, the family disintegrated.

Nine is a utilitarian marriage. Many couples are no feelings, often with a utilitarian, such as the wealth to marry the beauty of the rich old man married to a young wife or a rich woman married to handsome; such as the power to marry the beauty of the older senior officials to marry a young beauty or handsome, such couples can not talk about the feelings, and such a family is mostly a combination of families, would have turned into a series of contradictions, just one party has a huge advantage in attracting the other side, the husband and wife to take what they need, once a party is not advantageous! The family is not a family, either nominal existence, or each go their own way.

Ten is the couple tired. Couples married the first few years or relatively stable, but to a certain number of years, couples to a dangerous period, that is, the so-called "seven-year itch", "ten-year itch", in fact, belongs to a physiological reason, that is, men and women get married itself is a mutual attraction to come together, but in a few years, the marriage of men and women is a mutual attraction to come together, but in a few years, the marriage of men and women is a mutual attraction to come together. Attracted to come together, but after a few years, the two sides know too much, there is no mystery, found that the other side is just so, even if the worship has been demystified, even the sex life can not be interested in, such couples to a tiresome stage, if not grasped well, there is a possibility of disintegration of the family.

So, some people propose that couples married in time phases, that is to say, the marriage certificate has a period, if the two sides think that they still think they are the best together, go to the relevant departments to continue to renew the marriage period, if they can not get along, the expiry of the automatic dissolution of the marriage, ha ha, really thanks to some people want to come up with.

Life is short, but marriage is long, the road of husband and wife, in fact, very uneven, husband and wife to want to "grow old together", in fact, feelings are only part of the reason, the economy, status, fame and other temptations are eroding all the couples in our world, now, how many couples are living happily, how many couples are in the bitter Maintenance, how many couples exist in name only ...... This may only be their own into the siege to know!