Traditional Meeting Parents

Which parent should be decided first according to the specific situation of both men and women and local customs. The woman sees the man's parents first, especially the girls, and pays special attention to the question of how long to see their parents. When a girl in love determines that she is now positioned as a partner who can walk hand in hand for life, she hopes to take her to meet her parents. In most cases, the man meets the woman's parents first. On the one hand, the traditional custom in China has always said that "Mao's son-in-law meets his mother-in-law"; on the other hand, it is also respectful and sincere to meet her parents first.

Why does the man want to see the woman's parents first?

1, domestic traditional customs

China has attached great importance to etiquette since ancient times. In China, there has always been a saying that "Mao's son-in-law meets his mother-in-law", while most families in China are more traditional, so it is better for the man to meet her parents first.

2. Pay attention to that woman

Usually, meeting parents means that the two have further developed and decided to work together for life in the future. Then, since the man is eager for success, he needs to show sincerity. The parents who met the woman for the first time also fully expressed their respect for them.

What should the man pay attention to when he meets his parents?

1, dressed appropriately.

Of course, when you meet your parents for the first time, you should keep a good image. You don't have to wear a straight suit, but you must dress generously, cleanly and neatly, giving people a refreshing feeling.

2. Pay attention to preparing gifts

When you meet your parents for the first time, you must prepare some gifts, not too extravagant or too shabby, which will easily leave a bad impression on people. You can explore the bottom with your girlfriend first, see the preferences of your future in-laws, and then buy gifts that can please your parents.

Step 3 behave politely

When you meet the woman's parents, you must know how to read, understand feelings, behave gracefully and cultivate, speak modestly and respect your elders, don't be too formal and don't play around.

4. Answer questions sincerely.

When I meet the woman's parents for the first time, I will be asked many questions about myself. When answering questions, be clear and detailed, don't hide, don't lie. Many times, they are experienced people who can tell at a glance whether they are lying.