My husband said his life was ruined by me! I feel that now his heart is full of resentment and hatred for me and Niu Niu (3 years old). I don't know how to solve it

I suggest Baidu watch the video of Traditional Culture Public Welfare Forum and watch more about it, and your mood will gradually calm down. Everything has a causal cycle, and it is fate that the child is born to his parents' house, so he can't come. There is a pair of couplets, which is very interesting: "husband and wife are predestined friends, good and bad, but they don't get together;" Children are debts, debt collection and debt repayment, no debts come. "Why do children come to your home to be reborn? Buddhists talk about four kinds of relationships: repaying kindness, complaining, collecting debts and paying off debts.

Children come to your home to be reborn. According to Buddhist scriptures, there are four kinds of karma. Without karma, they wouldn't come to your house. Buddha said these four kinds of karma: repay kindness, complain, collect debts and pay off debts. If he returns the favor, this is the dutiful son and grandson. If you kill him, favor becomes resentment and hatred, and this matter will be in trouble; If you complain, add more complaints to your complaints, and you will be in big trouble next time; If you kill a debt collector, you owe him not only money, but also life. He came to pay his debts. He came with good intentions. You killed him, and it turned into resentment. Cause and effect pass through three realms, and then there is no end. These words are not believed by young people nowadays, whether you believe it or not, it is a fact; It's not that there is no retribution if you don't believe it. You believe in karma, you don't believe in karma, and karma can't escape. Buddhists often say that "all laws are empty, cause and effect are not empty", cause and effect cycle is not empty, cause and effect continuity is not empty, and cause and effect transformation is not empty. This is a fact.

In addition, there is an old saying for you: if you don't do it right, you must ask for more happiness. Always look for reasons from yourself and reflect on yourself. I hope this answer is helpful to you and I wish you happiness!