In the rural area of Loudi, Hunan Province, when guests come to the home, women can not eat at the same table! What do you think?

In the rural area of Loudi, Hunan Province, when the family guests, women can not eat at the same table, what do you think? We are also like this here, the previous legacy of the habit, but also because of feudal thinking, look down on women, the status of women is low, women have made sacrifices for the family. There is also because of the poor, because there is no food, when there are guests first let the guests eat full, no guests, usually eat to let the men eat full, eat full good to earn money to support the family, the women at home to eat a little pussy, eat some leftovers, can fill the stomach on the line. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it.

From ancient times to the present, the inheritance of one generation to the present. With the increase in productivity, the problem of the people's food and clothing is completely solved, and the way this woman eats has also changed. Because not to worry about food, everything is available. So now, after the family guests, rural women after cooking, but also together on the table to eat. Some simply go to a restaurant, ask for a few dishes and eat together. We are here now on this situation.

In fact, the first meal is not good. Our village before, there is a family, I do not know is Xin grain (that is, with poison mixed with the grain seed, not planted the rest), peeled to cook, first let the man ate, ate too much, the woman ate some of the leftovers, the results of the man was poisoned too deep, did not save, others eat less spit out on the matter, the male ate more than spit it out, when the back also did not respond to not take it seriously, did not go to the hospital, and the results of the reaction to the The man didn't go to the hospital because he didn't react. In the past, life has not been rich for a long time, and women have developed the habit of keeping house, which has been inherited from generation to generation. Now that women are able to hold up half the sky, society and customs are changing, so it's time to change. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it," he said.

Don't say in your Hunan Loudi countryside, home guests, women can not eat at the same table, I'm in the Chongqing metropolitan area, the family guests, often did not eat on the table, because one has to do things, the other can not sit down, and occasionally there is a position, my husband called me and the children on the table to eat, and I do not want to, directly refused, because I feel that they said I did not understand, can not say, plus I don't like to be lively ...... I think as long as there are usually no guests, your mother-in-law and your husband let you on the table to eat, good for you, then occasionally come to the guests, do not go to the table to eat, there is nothing wrong, you understand, respect the customs on the line ...... I see you Don't think too much, come to the guests of the woman does not go to the table to eat, does not necessarily mean that the woman does not have the status of the expression, in fact, this also has the advantage, will not get into trouble, the woman on the table, sometimes the men drink wine will make jokes, get it bad will argue or even fight, life this kind of thing also happened, so the guests came, not on the table to eat there is no... ...

This phenomenon is a local custom and a continuation of the feudal idea that men are superior to women and should be changed to give women the respect they deserve. ok!