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Should I break up with my girlfriend if she doesn't agree to premarital sex?

I am a girl. From the girl's psychological point of view, I think it isn't a question of whether you should break up with your girlfriend, is it a question of whether you respect her enough and love her enough.

"Chastity" is a very important position in the minds of girls, and some boys will have "virgin complex", if your If your girlfriend gives you your first night before marriage, can you guarantee that you will marry her and be responsible for her in the end? If you break up in the middle of your marriage, how is she going to face the fact that she is no longer whole? Will she still find guys who are willing to accept her?

When my boyfriend and I were in love, my parents made it clear to me that I was not allowed to live with them without getting married, and I told my boyfriend straight from my parents' wishes. He listened to me with great respect, we just started living together after the license.

You say you can't control your impulses when you're in love, so how did you solve the problem when you didn't have a girlfriend? If you married your girlfriend in the future, and she prohibited intercourse during pregnancy for the health of the baby, would you still be unable to solve the physical problem because you can't solve the physical problem of her divorce or go out and find someone else to spend money to solve the problem?

Don't give yourself excuses for being selfish, if you put yourself more in your girlfriend's shoes, maybe you'll understand her difficulties. She just said not accepting pre-marital sex, not that she doesn't accept sex, and that it's not okay to have a strong desire to wait until after marriage? If you are just in a hurry and love her enough, then you can get a license with her right away and then not get what you want?

And besides, did you just choose to be with your girlfriend to solve your physical problems? Aren't there any other sparkles in her that you should appreciate?

All in all, as a girl, I think from a girl's psychological point of view, it would be too superficial if, as a boyfriend, you only keep your love for your significant other at the level of sex. Then you'd better break up with your girlfriend in order to be able to solve your physical problems as soon as possible, and never delay her happiness.