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Ten shortcomings of men

Gold is not enough, no one is perfect, and everyone will have some shortcomings. When men and women get along, they will always find each other's shortcomings, some will cause quarrels between the two sides, and some will cause the two sides to break up. Let's take a look at the ten shortcomings that women can't tolerate men the most.

1. lascivious

Desire is everyone's nature, born with it. But don't use this nature as an excuse to have an affair with others and steal others outside. Once it happens, the consequences are unimaginable. A man with a knife on his head must control himself. Don't always think with his lower body. Just think about something in your mind. Don't take them seriously, otherwise it will easily lead to breakup and marriage breakdown. Women want their men to be single-minded and don't want a third party in love.

2. Smoking and drinking are regardless of occasion.

It is understandable that men like smoking and drinking or smoking and drinking for entertainment. But smoking and drinking on any occasion are endless, which makes women particularly annoying. Especially drunkenness makes women feel fear and insecurity. Never do anything like drunk driving or hitting people after drinking.

stingy

Buy buy buys double eleven, buy buy buys double twelve, and buy buy buys birthday presents. On important days, men must be generous, don't be stingy, buy things for women, even if you have no money, but buy her some small gifts. What a woman sometimes wants is not necessarily how rich and expensive she is, but maybe as long as you simply care about her. Be natural and graceful in front of friends. Don't haggle over every ounce there and pull a long face.

4. Idle around and do nothing.

Men can't idle around all day and do nothing. Even if you are unemployed, don't be idle. Learn to constantly improve yourself and work hard. As a man, you must have a sense of responsibility and care about your lover and your family. A man should be the pillar of a blue sky for his family.

5. Domestic violence

I remember a saying: The most extreme violence in this world is war and killing, and domestic violence is the most common and hidden one. It affects thousands of families, and the victims are often women, children and unarmed old people.

Indeed, no matter what the contradiction is, never use violence to solve the problem. Violence is by no means the antidote to the world. As the saying goes, a gentleman talks but doesn't do it. We should face each other with reason and broad mind.

tell a lie

A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Lying is as sad as swearing. We should be honest with the woman we love. However, sometimes white lies can be told, which can add more interest to life.

Disrespect each other

Don't complain that others don't respect you, ask yourself whether you respect others first. We should learn to respect others, especially the woman we love. If we don't even respect our lover, let alone respect others.

In public, don't say that your woman is cheap, mean and bitchy. We should learn to appreciate and accept others, and don't do things that hurt others' personality.

8. No motivation

If you are studying, you have no motivation and lose the motivation to study, what will happen to your studies? If you are working, have no self-motivation and lose the motivation to move forward, what will your promotion space be like?

Learn to set goals for yourself, go forward bravely, make persistent efforts when encountering setbacks, and stick to the end, and life will become more and more exciting.

A man with no ambition makes a woman see no hope for the future. We should be self-motivated, don't give up, and take our beloved woman to the other side of happiness.