How to get along with a traditional Chinese type of mother?

Every time a little bit of their own thinking, behavior in front of the mother, it is best to have other people's comments, such as participating in activities, hobbies, and even buy clothes aesthetic (I do not know the age of the subject, I'm a college student, then I will share with my mother is my college anecdotes, club activities, published articles, handmade, etc.), so that the mother to understand their own, and will be deeper communication to lay a better foundation! I think that if something is not particularly difficult to understand, it will be a good foundation for deeper communication. I don't think there are certain things you should ask your mom to change if they are not unbearable. For some things, such as health habits, you should talk to your mom about them, but if you can't, you should have a serious talk with your mom, and make it clear that it's because you love your mom that you will protect her and change her less good habits. When you express yourself, you should also express that your mom's understanding is important to you.