At the instigation of his mother, the man insisted on the "AA system" after marriage. Six years later, did the mother and son regret it?

The AA system is believed to be familiar to everyone. Sometimes friends or colleagues will choose AA system, because it is not easy for everyone to make money, and no one is embarrassed to treat them. Therefore, the AA system is the best way, it doesn't hurt feelings, and everyone is very happy to get together. But the AA system between husband and wife is still rare. Basically, many families. The money earned by two people is spent together, or the woman takes care of the family. The man makes money outside and then gives it to his wife. Most of life is like this. The mother urged her son and daughter-in-law to live in AA system, and the son agreed, but the daughter-in-law had no choice but to agree. Six years have passed, and both mother and son regret it.

Before marriage, both of them were basically AA.

Xiaowen and Xiao Liu met in a job after graduating from college. At that time, the two had a good impression as soon as they met. Later, they left contact information and gradually developed into boyfriend and girlfriend. Maybe it's because everyone's life is relatively independent, so whether it's eating, shopping or watching movies, it's basically the same, for example, this time you invite me to dinner, and next time I go to the movies, it's basically the same, but it's not very detailed. This kind of life makes two people happy together, because at least there is not too much pressure on each other, because at that time everyone just worked and it was not easy to make money, so many couples chose this way.

After marriage, because of her mother-in-law's encouragement, she started a thorough AA system.

Needless to say, this relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a bit subtle. Perhaps the mother-in-law is distressed by her son's hard work and doesn't want her daughter-in-law to spend more money. In this case, the mother-in-law urged her son to do AA system. Perhaps it's because the way they used to get along with each other was a little AA, so it hasn't changed much for them. Xiaowen readily accepted. After that, the AA system for two people became very detailed. For example, the electricity bill is 100, which must be 50 per person. Anyway, even a few cents will be clear when calculating.

With children, couples are still AA.

Xiaowen was pregnant and gave birth to twins. It was originally a very happy thing, but during her pregnancy, Xiaowen had no income and no job. At this time, her husband was still in AA system with him, and everything at home had expenses. Xiaowen was very angry when her husband came to ask for money. Later, Xiaowen suggested that, in that case, we should also bring children with AA system, and then give one of them to her husband and mother-in-law. As a result, the two of them had a hard time with the children and were as busy as a bee. The mother and son regretted taking AA's baby and went to consult Xiaowen, but Xiaowen refused on the grounds that she had to go to work to make money. Mother and son were completely dumbfounded and didn't know what to do.