Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Traditional festivals - The father passed away children to observe filial piety for a few years ah!

The father passed away children to observe filial piety for a few years ah!

Filial son filial piety for three years, three years during the period of not posting couplets, not firecrackers, not wearing red, not wearing green, refused to bad hobbies.

Precautions:

One, the wake, plain and dignified, not wear jewelry, men can not wear office pants, women can not wear skirts, not cloaked hair, not thick makeup, especially not slippers, exposed toes, is the summer wake must insist on patience.

Second, the wake, no gossip, especially descendants can not for the deceased funeral matters in the hearth quarrel. Even if the descendants have great grievances, they should let the deceased walk the last leg of his life decently, and then solve the problem.

Three, the wake, not in the hut men and women ambiguous, not in the hut, the spirit of the hall, filial piety room in the occurrence of any lewd behavior, or else the light bad luck constantly, the heavy exhaustion of human death, the blood of the horizontal death.

Father died children mourning rules are as follows:

1, hot mourning period taboo visit friends and relatives, especially to participate in the happy event

immediate family members died within one hundred days, the best at home to keep filial piety, unless it must be, do not go out to travel, visit friends and relatives, etc., so as not to bring their own sadness breath to others. In particular, it is best not to participate in weddings, openings, celebrations of the birth of small children and other happy events.

2, during the mourning period, children avoid wearing red and green

During the mourning period, the ancient children pay attention to the mourning, 100 days to wear white mourning clothes; 100 days later, wear black, blue and other dark-colored clothes to mourning, avoid wearing red and green, heavy makeup. Modern society, although because of working life and other reasons, many friends do not wear so long mourning clothes, and wear "filial piety" instead of the word; however, still can not wear red with green.