Etiquette common sense-instrument etiquette

Instrument etiquette and etiquette inheritance of Chinese virtue

3. etiquette (2) etiquette

A dignified sitting posture. The basic essentials of a good sitting posture: smile, eyes looking up, mouth slightly closed, chin slightly closed; Stand up straight, stand tall and stand naturally. Don't stick the table in front, back against the chair. Shoulders flat, arms naturally bent on knees or chairs or sofas; Knees together, don't separate your legs, don't cross in front, or put them in front of each other. Keep your chin and neck unchanged when standing. When sitting and talking, your upper body and legs should turn to each other at the same time and look directly at the speaker.

3. etiquette (2) etiquette

When a lady sits down in a skirt, she can fold the skirt with the back of her hand to avoid the bottom of the skirt? Gone? . After sitting, put your legs together, lean on one side, palm down, left palm on your leg, and right palm on your left palm. This sitting posture is more elegant. When a man sits, his feet can be flat on the ground, his knees are separated by about one palm, and his hands are placed on his left and right knees respectively. In social situations, whether sitting in a chair or sofa, don't fill it. Sitting in two-thirds of the chairs shows respect and respect for each other.

Taboo: Bend over and shake your legs. Especially ladies, don't walk on stilts with your legs apart? Jiro? .

3. etiquette (2) etiquette

A chic walking posture. Basic essentials: calm, steady and straight.

Both men and women should avoid shaking their heads, shaking their shoulders, twisting their arms and splaying their feet when walking. Don't bow your head or mop the floor with your feet. The more you twist your body, the more frivolous it becomes.

Elegant squat posture. Generally, there are three ways to take low-level articles: semi-squatting, high and low, and crossing. No matter what kind of squat posture, don't pout. This is a very unsightly action.

Third, the instrument etiquette (3) bad behavior

Improper use of mobile phone

Chew gum in public.

Pick your nose or ears in public.

Shake your legs in public.

Clear your throat or spit loudly.

Yawn in public

Littering casually

Take off your shoes in front of others.

Third, the instrument etiquette (4) expression

Expressions can reflect people's feelings and mentality, mainly in eyes, smiles and so on. In social activities, we should understand and grasp the expression, and strive to make our expression warm, friendly, relaxed and natural. In this way, you can make your social life easier and contribute to success.

Eyes: Eyes are the first element of facial expression. A pair of eyes can convey different emotions and information such as joy, anger, sadness and joy.

Third, the instrument etiquette (4) expression

Polite and educated people will pay attention to controlling their eyes and show different meanings in front of different objects. For example, in front of elders and superiors, eyes should be respectful and modest; Facing the younger generation or subordinates, you should be gentle and kind, and in front of friends, your eyes should be full of enthusiasm. Especially avoid some rude or frivolous eyes, such as glance left and right, carelessness, winking, focusing on the other person's body, using contemptuous or contemptuous eyes, etc.

Smile: This is the most attractive and valuable facial expression. ? With a three-point smile, politeness has arrived first? .

Conversation etiquette

(1) Greeting: It is an informal conversation with mutual greetings when two parties meet.

Greeting type: generally polite greetings, such as? Good morning? 、? Hello? 、? Happy holidays? Influenced by foreign words, etc. , a new greeting popular in recent decades; What do you often say when you meet for the first time? Nice to meet you! Nice to meet you! ? 、? Nice to meet you? ; Is there a greeting to show concern? How have you been recently? These kind words do not show that they really want to know the specific situation of the other party, but often just express the friendly attitude of the speaker, and the listener takes it as the beginning of the conversation without detailed explanation.