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Who are the children who have left the traditional education?

I believe many people are watching the TV series Little Joy. Because I've been chasing this TV series, too. We all know that Joe has always wanted to go to Nantah. But her mother really wants to keep her in Beijing.

Because of his mother's incomprehension and this strong maternal love, Joe got depressed. Joe arrived in Shenzhen. She thought that she would be happy when she arrived in Shenzhen. But this is not the case. And what I saw this morning, her parents chased Shenzhen. Joe ran away as soon as he saw his parents. In fact, Song Qian and Qiao Weidong have no idea what their daughter is thinking. Now they only judge their daughter's thoughts according to their own subjective wishes. Until Joe stood on the platform and prepared to jump into the sea, he still couldn't figure it out. Qiao Yingzi said that Song Qian always thinks for himself.

So from this perspective, in fact, parents have a great influence on their children. Some parents have a strong subjective consciousness and decide their children's thoughts entirely by their own consciousness. So this will lead to stress in the child's heart and will be very depressed. But most parents don't realize this situation, and even keep saying that I am doing it for your own good. Then kidnapping the child will make the child subconsciously feel indebted, think that I owe my parents, and think that my parents really do it for me.

Therefore, I think parents should listen to their children's ideas more, actively communicate with them, and don't rely on their own subjective ideas to decide their children's ideas. This kind of education will ruin their children. In fact, Joe is a typical example. It would be a tragedy if Qiao Weidong didn't hug Joe at the moment when he jumped into the sea.