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Won't choose picture books for your baby? Baby does not love to read? This may be helpful to you

Many parents have such doubts: the book bought a lot, how the child simply do not read ah? The child's attention is not focused, reading is not fixed ah!

In fact, to make children love reading should be mainly from two aspects: what books to read, how to read

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Many parents may consider when buying a book that it can help their child develop what abilities, whether it is a bestseller, and how much knowledge the child can learn from it.

In fact, the influence of books on children is subtle, and we don't have to be utilitarian in selecting books for our children

. I suggest that parents should follow the following principles when selecting books and picture books:

When children have the ability to make their own choices, parents should give their children the right to choose. Parents can choose some books and then let the child choose the ones he or she is interested in

. For those who are too young to make their own choices, parents can buy some classic books first and then make further purchases based on their own observations of their children's preferences.

For children under 6 years old, the fun and interactivity of books are very important

, such as point reading books, three-dimensional books, hole books, flip books, audio books and so on are more attractive to babies.

For older children who have the ability to understand a full story, you can choose books with more storytelling

. Reading to a child who is not able to understand a book at his or her own age will, of course, also reduce the child's interest in reading.

Many of the storybooks and early childhood books on the market have crude drawings and colorful collages that are not aesthetically pleasing, and are even in the style of early postcards, which is really not recommended.

Good reading books are supposed to help develop good aesthetics in children.

As a mother of two who is passionate about reading picture books to her children, I counted the picture books in my house and made a classification, and then picked out a few of my children's favorites from each category to represent them, which I would like to recommend to you here!

The following are the seven types of picture books and book lists recommended by WoGoMom for 2-5 year olds:

This type of picture book is mainly to lead the baby to understand his family, understand the importance of family, learn to express his love for his family, and learn to cherish the precious emotions between relatives.

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Guess How Much I Love You: Winner of many children's book awards around the world, and recommended by People's Daily, teaches adults and children to express their love.

"The Best Dad in the World": tells the warm story of the father and son of the bear, letting the dad really become a hero in the eyes of the child.

My Mommy, My Daddy: Created by British master painter Anthony Browne, the super-imaginative book embodies the omnipotence of mommy and daddy with extremely vivid paintings.

"Grandpa Must Have a Way": a heartwarming picture book story transformed from a folk tale, selected and recommended by the Ministry of Education of China as a national excellent reading book for young children.

The "Butt-head": created by Japanese master painter Tatsuya Miyanishi, the story reflects the love and care for his sister as a "butt-head" from the perspective of an older brother, as well as the deep love between brother and sister in a family with two children.

These picture books help children recognize the things around them and the objective aspects of the world, equipping them with common sense and enriching their knowledge base.

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"Busy Wheels Series": 12 kinds of vehicles such as excavators, fire engines, racing cars, tractors, ambulances, police cars and so on are the main characters, and each of them is accompanied by a small animal narrator, with lovely painting style and easy to understand, so that children can learn knowledge easily.

"Awesome, Our Occupations": Created by a famous Italian illustrator, the book depicts 30 specific occupations in 7 major occupational fields, which is very rich in content, with a large open book for easy reading.

"Viruses Around Us": a set of easy-to-understand interesting science popularization picture books, the content is very vivid, so that children can understand the virus, an object we can't see or smell, not only scientific perspective, but also humanistic scrutiny.

"Going to Africa to See Animals": International Hans Christian Andersen Award winner and Japanese master of natural science picture books, Tatsuyoshi Matsuoka, created the picture to choose the angle of high-altitude diagonal front view, 124 kinds of wildlife in a panoramic view of the life of the hundred vividly presented.

The Twenty-Four Seasons Written for Children: In the form of a picture book suitable for children, the book perfectly combines traditional festivals, art, and literature, and features a young boy, Chengcheng, his grandpa, grandma, and other family members as protagonists, and integrates the life story into the natural science and culture of the festivals.

Funny Capitals of the World: Children can follow the footsteps of the young protagonists, Adodo and White Bear, as they travel around the world to 27 unique capitals on six continents, visiting the landmarks and attractions of the capital cities, and experiencing the local folklore and cultural traditions.

These picture books are designed to help babies form good living habits, master basic self-care skills, and get ready for kindergarten, as well as to help babies know how to discipline and regulate their own behavior in their daily lives.

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"Crackling Series": Japanese cartoonist Yoko Sasaki, compiled and drawn with interesting stories to teach babies basic life knowledge, the National Early Childhood Readers Selection Committee recommended, hands-on and brain, in line with the psychology of the reading of the young children.

"I don't pee my pants anymore": German children's book list bestseller, so that children can learn to use the toilet on their own, sitting on the toilet by themselves to boo and hmmm, without reminding other people also don't pee their pants.

Penny, Stop Watching TV: American well-known cartoonist Glenn McCoy created, the book does not have any persuasion, only a small master of the loyal puppy Barkley, for Penny to repair the TV "advice". This makes Penny unknowingly realize the excitement of the outside world and gradually get rid of her TV addiction.

"What's Happening on Tooth Street", a best-selling book in Germany for 20 years, helps children learn about the science of teeth in an interesting story and develop the habit of brushing their teeth every day.

"A Good Way to Get Up": still a children's book from Germany, it tells the story of a little sleeping mouse who doesn't want to get up. He uses all kinds of tricks, but he still won't get up. This book contains a variety of ways to wake up, parents can learn to let the child no longer have "get up".

"I love kindergarten": France's famous children's book artist, a number of international children's book award winner Serge Block classic works, kindergarten entrance psychological preparation must read picture books, perennial bestseller list in France.

This kind of picture book aims to guide children to learn how to manage their own emotions, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, accept their own bad emotions, and know how to adjust their depression, timidity, irritability and other bad emotions.

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The Magic of the Heart of the Hand: a Japanese kindergarten regular book about three-year-old Yumi going to kindergarten, with a very cozy drawing style, which lets the child be happy and be himself in kindergarten, and eliminates the baby's separation anxiety when he enters the kindergarten.

My Mom Went to Work: The Independent's top ten children's book authors of the year, Keith Gray, the double winner of the Red House Children's Book Award and the Nottingham Children's Book Award, and New York Times bestselling author David Milgram have teamed up to create a book that helps children overcome separation anxiety.

There's a Clear Sky Above the Dark Clouds: A children's picture book on emotion management and character development written by child psychologists from the American Psychological Association and drawn by a professional illustrator, allowing children to learn to detach their emotions and forgive others.

I Feel Great: One of the picture books in the My Feelings series, this set of picture books was used as a tool to help children overcome their fears and regain confidence and courage after the 9/11 attacks in the United States. The book emphasizes that every child is unique and should be respected for his or her idiosyncrasies.

"Rob is Angry": Created by Mireille Alonso, a well-known French children's book creator, the book tells the story of Rob who is angry because his father criticizes him, and teaches children how to find a way to resolve and vent their emotions in the face of mom and dad's criticism.

David, No: Winner of the Caddyshack Silver Medal, an American Library Association Goodreads Recommendation of the Year, and a New York Times Good Picture Book of the Year, Mom always says "No!" to David. But when David really makes a mistake and gets hurt, she still gives him a loving hug. Mom's embrace is always a warm harbor for a child.

These picture books help children recognize the changes and problems that come with growing up, such as how to get along with friends, how to overcome difficulties, and how to see themselves correctly, etc. These picture books help to cultivate babies' good character and correct values.

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"Different Carmela": This series of picture books tells the adventure story of Carmela, the mother hen, and her sons and daughters, Carmelito and Carmen, and it has been a bestseller of 47 million books in China since it was introduced to China from France in 2006, and it is very popular among children.

"The Hungry Caterpillar": a picture book recommended by almost everyone and a bestseller worldwide. For young babies, it is recommended to buy the three-dimensional hole version, more interesting. The picture book tells the story of a cute and gluttonous caterpillar who eventually turns into a beautiful butterfly.

Frog Frogger's Growth Story: This is a set of psychological education storybook that helps children's spiritual growth, and the representative work of Maxwell Hughes, the winner of the International Hans Christian Andersen Award, and the world's awards to get soft. The main character, Froggy, seems ugly at first glance, but my daughter and I love him! Each book has a great storyline!

The Earthworm's Diary: The book shows the wonderful world of earthworms through the journals of little earthworms, and conveys scientific knowledge about living things and the earth; it helps children to develop an optimistic and positive attitude. The book was selected for the New York Times Children's Book List.

Peter Rabbit: The author of this series of stories is a British woman writer and illustrator, Beatrix Potter, who created Peter Rabbit to comfort a sick child. The stories of Peter Rabbit are very warm and funny, which helps to develop children's interest in story reading.

Piggy Peach: The household name Piggy Peach, in addition to the cartoon, there are also picture books Oh! Paige's story is full of love and childlike innocence, and also conveys the concept of British education. My daughter always watch animation in combination with picture books, and watch all the original English version, which is also very helpful for the child's English enlightenment.

This kind of picture book mainly guides children to recognize their own bodies, understand the difference between boys and girls, learn to protect themselves and respect others, and can guide children to initially perceive the meaning of life.

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Don't Touch Me: won the Benjamin Franklin Parenting Award, is the "teaching material" for many families and schools to educate children about sex. The book tells the story of a mom who teaches her child Jimmy how to protect himself and refuse inappropriate touching.

My Precious Body and My Brother is a Boy: The best-selling classic Korean picture books of the past eighteen years explain the differences between men's and women's bodies as well as the reproduction of life to children, so that they can develop a sense of self-protection and stay away from aggression from a young age. The series of picture books are drawn in a clean and refreshing, warm and delicate style that matches the child's level of comprehension and makes both parents and children feel no embarrassment.

"Little Willie Goes Forward": Little Willie is a sperm who trains to swim every day, hoping to swim the fastest so as to win the grand prize: an egg! The book helps parents answer their children's questions about sex from a very interesting perspective and with a child's mind.

The Story of the Penis: This picture book is in the same series as The Story of the Breast, and both come from the same Japanese author. The series of picture books use gentle pictures and tender language to tell children the difference between boys and girls and the origin of life.

Our Bodies: This physiological primer from France, which won several awards from Global Science's popular science children's book list, allows children to learn interesting facts about the human body. The link I've attached for you is a superb quality 3d three-dimensional flip book, which is very entertaining and kids will love it!

This kind of picture books helps to develop young children's imagination and creativity, leading children to explore the unknown world and discover the beauty and wonder of the world.

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"100-story house": from Japan's vertical open picture book, in Japan is very best-selling, very imaginative! Let your child see who lives on each floor of these 100-story houses and what marvelous stories they have!

The Incredible Journey: Another set of picture books that has won various awards, the New York Times Picture Book of the Year, and China's top 100 children's books. The book tells the story of a little girl who has a magical red paintbrush, with which everything she draws can be made real. This is the beginning of the little girl's incredible journey!

My Pet Train: Caddick Award-winning illustrator John Rocco's brand-new book takes a train as a pet, and teaches a child how to track down, find, and tame his own train, which is very childlike and fun.

Shana Fantasy Story Series: This is a set of fantasy fairy tale series of illustrated books, the story basically comes from the author's personal experience in childhood. The characters in the book are very lovely and friendly, and it is easy to lead children into the beautiful world of imagination.

The Secret of the Seabed: A Caddyshack Gold Medal-winning picture book, it tells a story that combines the real world and the surreal world with two different time and space images, and the plot is very intriguing.

"My Little Shadow": the enlightenment picture book of thousands of children in the United Kingdom to recognize the light and shadow, the classic children's work of Robert Louis Stevenson, a great master of the British literary world. Observe with a child's eyes, and tell with a child's mouth what their shadow looks like in their own eyes.

Many parents ask their children to love reading, but they themselves have never accompanied their children to read a single book, and they never read books themselves, so how can their children bring up reading interest and cultivate good reading habits?

"Parent-child *** reading" is the most important method of reading!

Parents should read the picture books with their children, read them emotionally, with exaggerated tone of voice and facial expression, and lead the children into the scenes in the picture books, like a small drama with the children***. When the child is familiar with a book or a story, parents can guide the child to look at the picture book to tell the story and give the child praise and encouragement.

Parent-child *** reading is a very beautiful thing, this stage is also very short, the child grows up will no longer need to accompany the parents, parents should cherish this process ah.

My daughter's biggest hobby is listening to her mother's picture books. Whenever she is doing something, as long as I say, "Mom, let's read a picture book to you," she will happily run over to me! Even if the first second is still crying, the next second will wipe the tears, quickly go to pick a favorite take over to let me tell her. Parent-child **** reading is a daily routine for my daughter and me!

Parents can sit down with their children and read their own books,

Setting an example for children to read

; of course, you can also read the same book with your child, and then communicate with your child from the perspective of a friend, discussing their own problems, exchanging different points of view, and so on.

To give your child a reading task and to force him to read without asking him what he is reading and what he is getting out of it will only depress his interest in reading.

In 1999, the United States carried out a "reading education assistance dog program", so that

"companion dog"

accompanied the child to read. The study concluded that

reading to a dog can increase a child's interest in reading and even improve socialization

. In Italy, a follow-up experiment was also conducted, and the results of the study proved that

reading to a dog not only doesn't last a minute, but also promotes children's persistence in reading

. In many countries, schools and libraries are equipped with "companion dogs".

Trained dogs are quiet, gentle, and very good listeners, allowing children to let go of anxiety, trust, and be reassured. They don't correct the child's mistakes, accuse the child of small actions, or interfere with what the child reads,

They create an atmosphere of understanding and acceptance for the child

, allowing the child to feel relaxed and confident.

Many families in our country are not in a position to have a dog, we can actually replace the dog with other pets, such as cats, small fish, turtles, hamsters, rabbits, etc. The effect is the same. Even a stuffed animal or a robot will do, as long as it is one that the child likes and has a gentle temperament.

I think, for parents, the real inspiration from the "companion dog" should be that we as parents learn to listen to our children, respect our children, not to judge our children, not to blame our children, and to give our children more patience and support, so that our children can really experience the joy of reading!

Many parents spend a lot of money to take their children to various interest classes, but forget that reading should be the most important interest of the children.

Chinese children don't read as much as their counterparts in Europe and the United States. I hope that with the right guidance from parents, more and more children will love to read, and more and more good books will be read by children! Three-year-old babies do not want to go to kindergarten how to enlighten

6 suggestions for parents:

1, think differently, to understand and accept the child's feelings and emotions, rather than rushing to solve the problem by comforting, cajoling and forcing. When we understand the child's feelings, accept the child's emotions, when we show more patience, you will find that those problems you thought were no longer problems, the child can face and solve them by themselves. On the contrary, we comfort, we cajole, we force, will only make the child feel unappreciated, will be more anxious.

When my son started kindergarten, he also cried and refused to go, and I can especially understand him. I remembered that I only went to kindergarten for one year when I was a kid, older than him, but I was always crying when I went too. Once I saw my mom in the classroom window walking across the highway outside, crying and screaming to go to her mom, and was yanked tightly by the teacher, and then watched her walk away, devastated. So I'm especially understanding of my son and tell him about these things.

He said it turned out that his mom also cried when she went to school when he was a kid, and he also worried that his mom wouldn't pick him up, and he also missed his mom. He cried for two days, then on the third day he got used to it and went to school in the morning and happily said goodbye to me and went off to play.

Psychologist Dr. Erica. D., writes in The Quality Parenting Guide:

When you face any educational challenge, start with empathy and focus on understanding your child. This approach works very well.

2. Adults in the home start by putting away their own anxieties and having a good mindset. It is inevitable that children will leave us and go to school. Parents and children of a separation that is supposed to be gradual, is a sighting. We want our children to be independent, to be able to leave us, to make new friends, to learn new things, to adapt to new environments. So going to school is both a challenge and a growth for your child. It's good to experience and grow, too.

The child is easily influenced by us, he is already anxious enough, we are worried about all kinds of worry all kinds of comfort, but it is to create more anxiety for him; on the contrary, if we can show some relaxation, but also will ease the child's anxiety.

The first ten days of kindergarten is best transported by parents, do not let the old man of the family, because they will see the child crying, they will also cry, they are more anxious than the child, which will make the child see will only cry more, more inseparable.

3. Read some relevant picture books to your child, so that he or she can understand what kindergarten life is like in advance, and feel the beauty of going to school. This will give them a mental preparation and it will be easier for them to adapt than if they don't have any preparation. This is something that I y felt in my son. All those picture books I read to him made him look forward to kindergarten life with anticipation and longing. Although there were times of anxiety and crying, he soon fell in love with the school, the children and the teachers. The three years of kindergarten life went smoothly and left a lot of good things behind. Recommended a few very good picture books

The Day of Kindergarten: through a variety of animal babies to kindergarten scenarios, their humorous interpretation so that children can easily understand what the kindergarten is like, to ease the tension and anxiety, ready to enter the school. This book is rated as the most child-friendly kindergarten entrance preparation picture book.

Baby Loves Kindergarten (Hardcover 4 books): This is both a kindergarten book and a habit book, helping children to develop good habits after entering kindergarten and adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible. So many games, so many little friends to play together, is also very attractive to the child oh.

"I'm the Best in Kindergarten": a book written by a famous Canadian head teacher with 20 years of teaching career, a book written for children to experience the wonderful time in kindergarten.

Hello, Kindergarten: The author of this book is a famous illustrator of kindergarten picture books in Korea, which is loved by children and mothers. This picture book is characterized by super cute drawings and wild imaginations that make children look forward to kindergarten.

"I Love Kindergarten": a must-read picture book for psychological preparation for kindergarten entrance, a best-selling master classic picture book in France for more than ten years, also known to mothers because of Sun Li's recommendation.

4, just started a period of time, be sure to pick up the child on time. This point please be sure to pay attention to. Many children do not want to go to kindergarten one of the special worry is that mom and dad do not pick up their own, do not want their own. We have to tell him that after school you can see, we have to do what we say, so that the child can rest assured. Even if it's okay to be late or to go to daycare later, don't put it off in the beginning. Arriving a few minutes late may seem okay, but it will make your child become more anxious. Whether or not he or she is able to adjust well at the beginning and make a good impression will have an impact on his or her kindergarten life in the future.

5. Don't always have a hundred thousand questions about your child's kindergarten life. Do not ask the child as soon as the school is over how to live in kindergarten ah, eat full ah, there is no bullying you ah, the teacher is good ah, this is obviously our own school, the teacher, the child's classmates, the child's own lack of confidence, feel that to go here the child is to suffer, feel that the child must not be adapted to the child will certainly feel that will not want to go even more. About the kindergarten life unless the child himself wants to tell you, do not ask.

If your child tells you that the school doesn't have enough to eat, that the teachers are mean, or that the kids are bullying him, etc., don't jump to conclusions, and don't show your anxiety and fretting in front of your child, which makes it seem as if you are doing a solid job of making the school bad. For the child, this is his first time to leave the family to an unfamiliar collective, would have been afraid of uneasiness, some of the normal behavior of other people will let the child misinterpretation, and so many children, the teacher yells a little, speak louder, the children can touch each other which is normal, it is the child's opportunity to learn and grow. What we need to do is not to question, not anxiety, but to guide the child to correctly understand these.

6, in the family focus on the child's independence. One of the reasons why children have difficulty adapting is that they are away from their loved ones, cannot take care of themselves, cannot fulfill the basic requirements of their teachers, do not want to follow the rules, and will not get along with children. If we can develop these abilities in our children's daily lives, so that they have these skills and good habits, enrollment will not be so difficult, and it will be much easier to adapt to kindergarten life.

What are some good children's picture books?

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