Essay The Poignant Love Story of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu 450 Words

The way of love confession in Dream of Red Mansions is characterized by a full Chinese culture. Baoyu's confession is three words: "Don't worry about it!" This is much richer and deeper than the "I love you" often said by men and women in love in the West. It contains determination, oath, declaration, trust and responsibility. "I love you", is a party to the other side of the emotional tendency of a single expression; "you can rest assured", is the dissolution of the two sides together with the generalization of the emotions of love. "I love you" emotional weight is relatively light and general, "don't worry" emotional weight is heavy and sincere. "I love you" may be a momentary display of emotion, "don't worry" is a lifelong vow of unchanging heart. The Dream of Red Mansions is a treasure trove of love in China. ...... If modern people are not familiar with the Dream of Red Mansions, the symbols of their love language will seem monotonous and not elegant enough. If you do not read and understand Jia Baoyu, you will not know what it means to be considerate to the women you love. Without understanding Lin Daiyu, one cannot understand the complex psychology of women in love. The existence of the fourth party factor in the love story of Bao Dai is mostly ignored by researchers. I hold a positive attitude. This "fourth party" is not someone else, is the status, identity and beauty and hairpin Dai has the same competitive strength of Shi Xiangyun. On the face, Lin Daiyu's beauty is superb. Wang Xifeng said that all the maids compared to, "are not as good as Qingwen," but Mrs. Wang's eyes of Qingwen, "eyebrows and eyes and some like your sister Lin. The reader can imagine how movingly beautiful Daiyu's eyes are. Daiyu's body is also beyond the ordinary beauty, "action like a weak willow wind", a sentence has been thought over half carry. But Baochai also beauty does not let people. Obviously, her snow-white plump body, revealing an emotional beauty. So Bao Yu first saw, was stunned. She is also good at taking care of her body, taking cold incense pills, which can increase body heat and avoid bloated clothes. Mr. Chen Yinke testified that Baochai's move and European noblewomen for the same take. The love story in Dream of Red Mansions, love and knowledge, spirit and flesh, love and sex, love and marriage, happen to be separated rather than united. Most of the marriages in Dream of the Red Chamber are failures, cripples, and especially few are united with love. In traditional Chinese society, the feeling of love between a man and a woman, the separation of marriage and love, is enough to become a "pain". The love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, according to the introduction of the book, has a past life cause. This is the traditional social interpretation of the love story of the cliché. The brilliant part of "Dream of the Red Chamber" is to attack the cliché, but with a new creation. The author introduces a very marvelous story of "returning tears". It is said that on the bank of the Western Spirit River by the Three Lives Stone, there is a Jiangzhu Grass, because of the attentive Shen Ying attendant, every day with nectar watering, as a result of this grass has become a person, and is a daughter body. It so happened that the attendant of Shen Ying had moved his mortal heart and wanted to experience on earth. The police fantasy fairy knows that Jiang Zhu has not been able to repay Shen Ying's irrigation grace, the heart is very uncomfortable, so they asked for advice on Jiang Zhu. Jiang Zhu said: "He is the favor of manna, I do not have this water to return. Since he is a human being in the next life, I will also be a human being in the next life, but I can repay him with all the tears in my life." This narration is the dialog between a monk and a monk that appears repeatedly in the book. Listening to the monk, the Taoist said, "I have never heard of the saying of returning tears." Therefore, he thought that this story must be different from the previous moonlight stories. The monk said of course it is different, especially the previous stories have never written "the true feelings of children". This is our understanding of the "Dream of the Red Chamber" book is very important words, it tells us that the characteristics of the love story of Bao Dai, is written "children's true feelings".

"Jiangzhu grass" three words are particularly intriguing. Lip Yan Zhai said: "think about the word Jiang Zhu, is not blood tears?" And grass, is a metaphor for the thin life of the daughter. The dream of the red chamber 》 the first preset jiangzhu nymphs return tears to the god Ying waiter mythological story, both ambush jia baoyu lin daiyu love story of the past life, and suggests that this is not an ordinary love story, but a love tragedy full of blood and tears, heroine tragedy destiny of the lingering misery can be imagined.

Two, at first sight

"Dream of Red Mansions" love story of the male and female protagonists, the official appearance is in the third, but before the second are introduced in different ways. First introduced is Lin Daiyu. It is said that she is the daughter of the new salt class Lin Ruhai, when she was five years old, her father hired the dismissed governor Jia Yucun as a guest of honor, to teach her to read. At the age of six, her mother Jia died. The book says: "This girl student years and young, and the body is extremely weak." Daiyu's family life, her sick and weak characteristics, are introduced. The introduction of Jia Baoyu is through the speech of the antique merchant Leng Zixing.

"Leng Zixing speech Rongguo House" is "Dream of Red Mansions" in the big back, both the introduction of the family, lineage, lintel, but also the introduction of the main characters. For Jia Baoyu, first of all, Baoyu's birth is a "strange thing", "strange thing", because when he was born, his mouth took down a piece of colorful crystal jade. Then it is a year old when "catch week", specializing in catching those fat powder hairpin ring, is the father of Jia Zheng was furious, said the future must be a wine and sex. And to the age of seven or eight years old, actually said: "daughter is water made flesh and blood, man is mud made flesh and blood." There is no one under the sun who can say such a thing. Even the orator Leng Zixing said, "There is no doubt that he will be a lecher in the future". But Jia Yucun has a different high opinion, he said this is the two gas "wrestling with hair" and the birth of the third gas born of the people, they can not become a gentleman, nor will they become a great evil, but the cleverness of the spirit of 10,000 people in the 10,000 people, and the evil and unsympathetic attitude, but also in the 10,000 people under the very special characters.

Bao Dai before the meeting, the author so first introduced the two people's life, history, character traits.

The third time, Lin Daiyu came to the Jiafu. Naturally, she first met her grandmother, Mrs. Shi, and cried a lot. And then the mother of the Jia family introduced one by one all kinds of characters. Great-uncle Mrs. Xing, second aunt Mrs. Wang, Zhu sister-in-law Li Dandy is the first set; Jia three sisters Yingchun, Tanchun, Shichun is the second set; extraordinary Wang Xifeng is the third set; the fourth set is to see Jia Pi, Jia political two maternal uncle. But see so many people, is not to see Baoyu. Mrs. Wang said: "I am not assured of the most one, I have a sin root of the child, is the family of the 'devil of the world ', today to the temple to go to the wish, has not yet returned. You will know when you see him tonight. You only ignore him in the future, you sisters do not dare to mess with him." These words instead of Daiyu said confused. Until after dinner, Mrs. Wang, Wang Xifeng, Li dandy, etc. are dispersed, Jia mother and Lin Daiyu talk ─ ─

A word is not yet finished, only to hear a burst of footsteps outside, the maid came in and laughed: "Baoyu came !" Daiyu heart is wondering: "this Baoyu, I do not know what kind of a lazy character, ignorant child?" --- not to see that stupid thing also. I was thinking, suddenly saw the maid did not finish the words, has come in a young man.

The book goes on to describe in great detail the attire, dress, and facial expression of Baoyu. Then wrote:

Daiyu see, will eat a big surprise, the heart thought: "good strange, like there have seen in general, how familiar to so !"

And Jia Baoyu saw Daiyu, also said: "This sister I have seen." Jia mother said: "But again is nonsense, and you have never seen him ?" Baoyu said: "Although I have never seen him, but I look at the face of good, even if the heart is an old acquaintance, today only as a long goodbye reunion, is not impossible." Jia mother said: "better, better, if so, more harmonious." This is the book on the treasure Dai meet the description. Highlighting the two people have a destiny in a previous life, a meeting like a good friend.

In fact, this is the world all true love of the general case. The so-called fate of the "fate", is that the two met, another cause. That is, at first sight, there is no sense of strangeness at all. Originally a new acquaintance, but thought it was an old acquaintance. The marvelous nature of love in this, the so-called love at first sight, also this.