A Case Study of Successful Family Education

Family is the most basic cell of society and the first place to live. The physical quality, psychological quality and social quality level of family members are the basis of social development. The construction of social civilization is based on the construction of family civilization, so the level of family education needs to be improved. The following is a successful family education case I have compiled for you to share.

A case study of successful family education 1

In America, two families have produced eight generations of children. The ancestor of a family is the kingdom of Ghana Sese, a well-respected and famous philosopher in Connecticut 200 years ago. Edward. Because he attaches great importance to the education of his children, it has been handed down from generation to generation. Among his eight generations of descendants, there are 1 vice president, 1 diplomat, 13 university presidents, 103 university professors, 60 doctors and more than 20 members of parliament? . For two centuries, no one has been detained, arrested or sentenced. The ancestor of another family is Max of new york in 200? Rick, a notorious gambler and alcoholic, runs a casino and is indifferent to his children's education. Among their eight generations of descendants, there were seven murderers, 65 thieves and 324 beggars, and as many as 400 people died prematurely or were disabled because of binge drinking.

The history of these two families for eight generations tells us that the family is the first child? School? Parents are the first child? Teacher? The subtle influence of family education will directly affect the formation of children's moral quality, law and discipline concept and outlook on life. What we want to discuss in particular is the enlightenment of successful family education to people.

First, pay attention to teaching children to be human.

The essence of traditional family education in China is to teach children to be human beings. China's family rules, family training, and family model of family education in past dynasties all focused on educating children to be human beings. Historically, loving fathers and loving mothers have been praised by the world for teaching their children to be human.

In the mid-Northern Song Dynasty, Bao Zheng paid special attention to moral education for future generations in view of social corruption at that time. In his later years, please ask masons to set up family instructions? Future generations, officials, are not allowed to belong to their own families when committing crimes. After they die, they are not allowed to be buried in a big house, not to obey my will, and not to be my son's grandson. ? Carved on the monument, the monument will be erected on the east wall of the hall for future generations to observe and strictly abide by.

In his later years, Emperor Taizong had a premonition that he was running out of time, so he conscientiously summed up the ruling experience of various dynasties in history, especially the Sui Dynasty, and made Twelve Articles of Fan, which was passed on to Prince Li Zhi. He said to Li Zhi:? The method of self-cultivation and the way of governing the country are all said in this book, and I don't need to say other last words. ? Taizong also warned:? Building a country is difficult to succeed, but easy to destroy; It is more difficult to keep a stable throne, but it is easy to lose it. You must cherish it and be careful! ?

The ancients not only regarded Lide as the focus of family education, but also required their children to have the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement. Wang Dan, the prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, never gave up farmland and houses all his life, saying: Children and grandchildren should strive for self-improvement, why land and houses are needed, and the struggle for money is unjust! ? Guan Banqiao, a painter in Qing Dynasty, had a son at the age of 52, but he was strict with his son. Put forward? First, be reasonable and be a good person?

Principles of family education. Before he died, he left his son a suicide note: dripping his own sweat, eating his own food, doing his own thing, relying on the sky, the ground and the ancestors, not a hero. ?

Plato, a famous educator and philosopher in ancient Greece, famously said: Where a person is guided by his education since childhood, he can decide where he will go in the future. ? He advocates educating teenagers through stories, poems, plays, history, speeches and technical music. Cultivate the soul? . He thinks that the content of stories and poems should cultivate teenagers? Gentle and brave? Can it be developed? The virtue of self-discipline? . 17th century British thinker John? Locke (1632? 1704) Advocacy for teenagers? Gentleman education? He attaches great importance to moral education. He said:? I think among all the qualities of a gentleman, virtue is the first and the most indispensable. ? As can be seen from the quotations, family education at all times and in all countries focuses on educating children to be human beings, which is also one of the most important experiences of successful family education.

Second, pay attention to words and deeds.

Parents' words and deeds are the necessary conditions for the success of family education. Lin Zexu's father Lin Binri was a teacher at that time. Half hungry and half cold, can you hold it? Life, but is it ok for poor villagers and neighbors? Seeing people in a hurry is still at home. Although I was poor again and again, I was still buried by the disease. I didn't try my best to solve it and forgot that it was empty. . When Lin Zexu was a teenager, he saw his father give all the rice in his family to Sanbolin Ce Tian, whose family was starving. His father also told him in advance: When uncle comes, he must say that he has no food. ? Lin Binri? Don't make a mistake, don't take a penny? . Once, a local tyrant tried to bribe Lin Binri with money, but he refused. Another time, a rich family wanted to ask Lin Binri to be a tutor. Lin Binri thought of this man's misdeeds in the village and refused. His father's words and deeds have a far-reaching influence on Lin Zexu. Later, he paid attention to the sufferings of the people in officialdom, and his style was honest and upright, and he did not associate with corrupt officials. This is certainly not accidental.

Tolstoy said: All education, or 99.9% of education, is attributed to the correctness and perfection of role models and parents' own lives. ? Mrs Steiner made it very clear that children are the shadows of their parents. In order to cultivate children's moral quality, parents should be cautious in their behavior and should set an example for their children everywhere. Children's good behavior or bad behavior is the result of parents' education. ?

Third, pay attention to educational methods.

There is a song "Children's Song" circulating abroad: children who grow up in picky learn to be harsh; Children who grow up in hostility learn to fight; Children who grow up laughing learn to be shy; Children who grow up in humiliation learn to feel guilty; Children who grow up in tolerance learn to be patient; Encourage growing children to learn to be confident. ? this

The first nursery rhyme is full of philosophy, which shows that parents' educational thoughts, attitudes and methods are closely related to children's physical and mental development.

American child psychologist James? Bi Bo Cook made a survey of more than 65,438+0,300 competent parents, and he came to the conclusion that to be a competent parent, we should strive to do the following:

1, like and often close to children, loving and gentle, strictly qualified;

2. Care about children's thoughts and learning, and be willing to help children solve some difficulties in study and life;

3. Be good at communicating with children and exchanging thoughts and feelings;

4. Is there a clear family? Routine? Let the children have rules to follow;

5. Respect children's hobbies;

6. Put forward reasonable goals and requirements for children according to their level;

7. Committed to creating a harmonious and happy family atmosphere.

Traditional family education in China attaches great importance to educational methods. Mr. Lu Xun once pointed out: If someone clearly recorded the history and China's methods of educating children in books, and let people know how our ancients and even us were edified, then his achievements would not be lost. ?

We can give some examples. For example, Yan Zhitui said in "Yan Family Instructions": When parents are dignified and kind, children are timid and filial. ? Propose here? Kindness and moderation, strictness and dignity? Principles and methods of education. Cai huangyan said:? Every child has had those more hateful things, and the mother needs to hide them, but the father doesn't know. If the industry knows, then solve it. So did the loving mother who lost many children. ? It is pointed out here that parents' inconsistency in their children's education will lead to the failure of family education, and families will fail.

Successful family education has inspired us more than the above three points. The establishment of the socialist market economy and the great changes in society have put forward many new topics and added many new contents to family education. Parents can't be competent to educate their children by relying solely on old experience. They should learn some knowledge about pedagogy, psychology and sociology. The Update Report on Family Education Concept jointly organized by the Ministry of Education, the All-China Women's Federation and the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League is an urgent task on how to really educate children, get out of the misunderstanding of family education, solve problems and contradictions in family education practice, and help parents establish a correct new concept of family education that meets the requirements of the times. The scientific teaching experience of parents who have successfully raised their children may inspire you and find what you need.

Case analysis of successful family education II

Educating children is a very important and complicated matter, a great undertaking and a long and inconclusive work. Different parents have different educational methods. The following are my personal views on educating children.

1. Love children, respect children and be their bosom friends.

In life, we should respect children, treat them equally, establish a relationship of mutual trust and form close friends with them. Only in this way can we win their trust. Parents should love their children, maybe you will say that this truth is simple enough. What parents don't love their children? However, some parents' love cannot be accepted and recognized by their children. Often give the naughty son a cordial hug, a shallow smile, a persuasive guidance and a small gift, which will make the child naturally feel the love given by his parents.

It also strengthens his trust in his parents, so our parents should use love to cultivate their children's good behavior habits.

2. The premise of good communication between parents and children is listening.

Parents should put down their lofty posture, learn to communicate with their children on an equal footing, and calm down and listen to everything their children have to say. Even if you are busy and tired at this time, you should listen attentively and ask your children from time to time. Is there anything interesting in school? Are you satisfied with your performance in class? Did your smiling face increase again today? Whenever I ask my son this question, he is always excited to report everything to me. When he expresses his views on things, I will respect his opinions, discuss with him and give him enough confidence and self-confidence. I think it is very important to cultivate children's character. Listening is an art as well as a kind of learning.

3. Encourage children to dare to meet challenges

Today's era is an era of fierce competition, so

We should cultivate children's sense of competition from an early age and dare to meet challenges. In study, I often encourage my son to say: You are great, you are really smart, and you can answer such a difficult knowledge correctly. My mother worships you very much. He was very happy to hear this, which also aroused his enthusiasm for learning. I kept cheering him on when he was in trouble. At this time, I will work hard with my child and infect him with practical actions, which also achieves the purpose of moral education.

Fourth, educate children to face setbacks correctly.

People will inevitably encounter setbacks in their lives. Suffering is a great wealth of life. Misfortune and frustration can make people sink, and can also cast a strong will and achieve a full life. Suffering is a good teacher in life. He can teach children to learn to treat all problems with gratitude and positive attitude, and bravely participate in social competition.

Verbs (abbreviation of verb) cultivate children's adaptability.

In practice, we use our intelligence and other factors to control ourselves according to the ever-changing objective situation.

Self-remoulding. The ability to realize the unity of subjective and objective, so as to ensure the normal conduct of practical activities has been the basic ability of survival since ancient times. In today's era of rapid changes and fierce competition in human society, people need stronger adaptability. Whoever has strong adaptability can survive and develop better and walk down the other side of success.

6. Reading with children

Parents and children can get happiness and satisfaction from reading together, feel love and warmth, and sometimes even become interested in the book itself.

Seven. Learn tolerance and patience.

Tolerance is a beautiful scenery. A person who can tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others is indeed a noble person. Such a person is a beautiful scenery on earth. Tolerance is an ability. Man is a half-devil. Forgiving people who hurt themselves is not a kind of tolerance.

Simply put, our heart is like a container. When there is more and more love, hatred will be squeezed out. Only by constantly filling our hearts with love and nourishing our hearts with care can hatred have no place. Tolerance requires not only a broad mind, but also a high degree of wisdom.

Eight. Allow children to protect themselves when things happen.

Defense is also a right. What do some parents like? Be obedient? Children, what parents say, children do. Once the child is found to have done something wrong, he will scold and beat the child. Not allowing children to defend themselves will not only convince them, but also encourage a kind of resistance and lay a bad root for lying and shirking responsibility. The child's defense itself is a process of orderly use of language, and it is also a process of communication between parents. If parents can consciously find some questions to argue with their children, children's thinking ability and oral ability can be well trained.

9. Avoid taking children's grades too seriously.

As parents, don't stare at children's grades all day, be a barometer of children's grades. Children are in high spirits when they get high marks, but they are disheartened when they get low marks. It will make children feel nervous, scared and unwilling to study all day. Parents should pay attention to the cultivation of children's morality, creativity and learning ability, so that children can support themselves even if they don't go to college in the future.

10. There are no children with poor education, only parents who don't understand education.

Parents always love to educate their children into kites, let them fly high, and the end of the rope will not leave their hands. However, children are willing to be a bird, eager to fly, and the home is warm, which will always be the first stop for children to practice flying, not the flying sky, nor can they be locked in Xiaotian all their lives. Parents' hands are not used to tie their children's hands and feet, but to hone their wings.

XI。 Be good at discovering and cultivating children's interests.

? Interest is the best teacher? Only from the interests,

In order to let children enjoy learning, there is a strange phenomenon in society, that is, at a very young age, most children have to learn a lot of knowledge, and many parents don't think about how their children learn. It seems that the more they learn, the closer they get to success, regardless of whether children want to learn or not, resulting in a waste of money, experience and innocent happy time. Therefore, I hope that parents can grasp their children's interests from their daily lives and learn and guide them.

Case analysis of successful family education 3

When the children were in the fourth grade, the school held it? I love my hometown? A series of competitions, including composition, painting, speech and so on. My daughter won the first prize in the grade group in the composition competition. She is a strong child. After returning home, she recited the manuscript in front of the mirror every day, ready to take part in the next speech contest. The spirit of the child is commendable, but the level of her recitation and speech is really flattering.

One day when she came home from school, she pouted and said to me with an unhappy face. Mom, I really don't understand why the teacher invited Xu Ying to take part in the speech contest instead of me. ?

? Xu Ying's reading and speaking ability is higher than yours. Last parents' open day, parents admired her very much. ? I said. ? But the content of her speech is my award-winning article! ?

? What does it matter? ?

? It is unfair to be able to write your own manuscript. ? The child said angrily.

? It seems that you have a lot of complaints. Why?

I know, she has vented enough, maybe she will feel better. The child listed many reasons, and I was racking my brains to think: how should I explain to her when she finished? Finally, I said this: Mom thinks your teacher is really good. She found your writing advantage and Xu Ying's recitation advantage. You both won the prize in the competition, which deserves congratulations. What else is unpleasant? You are the best screenwriter award and Xu Ying is the best actor award. ?

? Mom, which is better, a screenwriter or an actor?

? Both are good, but the tasks they undertake are different. Screenwriters create behind the scenes, and their works are displayed by actors' performances. Actors should show their superb acting skills through the works of screenwriters, and no one can do without them, but mom thinks you are more suitable to be a screenwriter. ? Seeing my daughter's face completely elongated, I added: people have different talents and different division of labor. We should find our own advantages and show them to the fullest. Such people are the cleverest. We should also see the advantages of others, appreciate them sincerely and be good at win-win cooperation. ? The child nodded puzzled.

The next day, just the movie channel? Good movie has an appointment? The column is "The Sound of Music", which I intend to show my daughter. Although it was late at night after watching the movie, we continued to discuss the screenwriter, heroine and director of the movie.

The child said:? Mom, the story of this movie is very good and the actors are very vivid. ? I immediately said: Aren't you, Xu Ying and the teacher all the same?

? Mom, I was so stupid yesterday. ? The daughter smiled innocently.

[Expert analysis]

Aggressive children often want to do everything and get the first place; But children always have their own advantages. Only when you do something can you do something wrong, give full play to your specialties, and let go? What did you do? Do better. Parents must analyze their children's specific situation when educating them to pursue their goals. After all, children are not all-rounders At the same time, we should pay attention to cultivating children's sense of cooperation and let them understand that anyone should learn to cooperate; A good spirit of cooperation is an essential quality for modern people to succeed. Are you alone? Type A people will be eliminated by modern society.

The child's heart is very simple, and he has developed good habits since childhood. Only the correct education of parents can prevent children from becoming too utilitarian.

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