What are the family rules?

As a cultural category, family precepts in the history of China are the embodiment of social ideology in the family field and family relations. Family training culture is an important part of China traditional culture. Traditional family instructions are rich in content, consistent with Confucianism, blood, rank, harmony and closure. They are not only the product of traditional patriarchal society in China, but also a constantly changing cultural system. The traditional family training culture should be critically inherited, and its essence can be used for reference and utilization in today's socialist spiritual civilization construction.

Family precepts are words used by parents to admonish their children to manage their families in the traditional patriarchal society. Generally speaking, the origin of family precepts was gradually formed and developed with the establishment of patriarchal clan system after the emergence of clan organization, a blood entity with the same surname and subordinate clan, which was closely related to the social nature of ancient China. To understand family precepts is inseparable from the understanding of families and clans, which are both family precepts.

Four-character classics of family rules and family instructions

Advocating morality, respecting the old and loving the young, equality between men and women, civility and courtesy, courtesy and good neighborliness.

Family education is strict and harmless, and children are arrogant and deceitful, willing to pay and smiling.

Trying to design is not a marriage between men and women in Yongchang and Shunyi, let alone a ceremony.

Late marriage, good family education, self-interest, strictness, self-discipline, family development advocating science and breaking superstition.

Always learn the strategy of revitalizing the family, manage the family diligently and save money to start a business.

To win, make money with wisdom, be optimistic, make a fortune, be lazy, be extravagant and lose.

Caring for others and being kind to yourself is a good way to teach children and inspectors to become talents, and to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

Combine work and rest, grow up healthily, spoil children, corrupt family business, and love each other forever.

Family harmony, unity and mutual assistance, understanding, communication, mutual trust, prosperity and hard work.

Less friction, tolerance, patience, more care, care, consideration, humor, adjustment and frankness.

Accumulate virtue, do good and help others, be prepared for danger in times of peace, abide by the law, lead an honest and clean life, and be happy and warm.

The responsibility of parents is not to pave the way for their children, but to guide them. Family rules and family precepts can play such a role. The following is a foreign parent's family guidance to his son:

1, watch the sunrise at least once a year.

2. Tip the waiter more at breakfast.

3. Say "thank you" and "please" more.

4. Be willing to praise others.

5. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.

6. Be charitable.

7. Live within your means.

8. Make new friends and don't forget old ones.

9. Be brave in admitting mistakes and apologizing.

10, read the Bible frequently.

1 1, learn to listen.

12, wisdom and courage.

13, don't be materialistic.

14, don't make a move when you are full of energy.

15. behave gracefully and look confident.

16, don't talk about important things in the street, be careful "walls have ears".

17, don't pay each other's labor first.

18, in order to win a battle, I would rather lose a battle.

19, no rap, no road news.

20. Beware of those who have nothing.

2 1, prepare for the best and prepare for the worst before difficulties.

22. Don't easily promise what you can't do, but learn to refuse frankly and politely.

23. Don't expect everything in life to be fair.

24. Don't underestimate the role of forgiveness.

25. Don't slam the door and run away because the husband and wife quarrel.

26. If you are seriously ill, seek medical advice from at least three people.

27. Pay attention to furniture and clothing. If you want to use it for more than five years, buy the best you can afford.

28. Face the reality bravely and get into life, because looking back, people are more sorry for what they didn't do.

29. New and noble ideas that can change the world come from originality.

30. A timely director should not delay.

3 1, dare to admit ignorance.

32. Write down what you must do before you die, carry it with you and compare it from time to time.

This family instruction is not just for children. It may be helpful for you to compare it yourself.

Might as well try.

Very good! Wait until the child is older! I had it when I was young, so I don't need to write it now. I don't know how to read it yet. . .

Thank you, Scarber.

I hope it is useful to everyone.

We are a single-parent family and have no long-term planning. It is not easy to do the following, so it is very simple:

To everyone (mother, children, nanny): fair, open and just, sincere and sincere.

Mother: be more patient and more concerned; Less partiality, less worry (easier said than done! )

Child: Do your own thing and restrain yourself before asking others (no rules, no Fiona Fang).

Nanny: Do your job well and leave the rest alone (not much, no gossip).

I see. Do your best!

It's too difficult to understand. It's complicated enough. I don't like it. It better be simple and clear. When my son is old and sensible, I will make family rules with him, and everyone will abide by them and supervise each other. Wouldn't it be better?

Easier said than done!