Learn about Dong people's marriage customs together.

For getting married, many girls fantasize about how they will get married in the future and what kind of person they choose. Including everything in the future. There are also many things to pay attention to when getting married. Next, I will take you to the Dong culture to learn about the marriage customs of the Dong people.

Most Dong marriages are concluded by matchmakers after men and women have a love foundation. Dong people don't avoid the same surname when choosing a spouse, but they can't get married in the same family. There are customs of "marriage between aunts and cousins" and "marriage between aunts and cousins is forbidden".

Dong people's marriage, whether it's free love or others' marriage, has to be decided by the man who asks the matchmaker to go to the woman's house and get the consent of the woman's parents. There are also some young people who abandon the ancient rule of "parents' orders, the words of the media agreement" and freely combine. After marriage, they apologize to the woman's parents and recognize their relatives, and some even break with their families. Dong people's weddings in Liping, Congjiang and Rongjiang counties are simple. On the evening of the wedding reception, the "bride-in-law" carries a lantern and carries a bed cover to take the bride to Lang's house.

when the bride comes in, the whole family evades. After the bride entered the door, she sat on a new stool by the fireplace, and a respected old man read the wedding words and wished the newlyweds well. Then, the bride began to make a cooking ceremony, indicating that she was the housewife from now on. Slaughter only one or two ducks and have a family dinner.

at most, a dozen friends and relatives are invited. The bride in the neighboring village will return immediately after dinner, and the new daughter-in-law from other villages will return immediately after staying for three days, depending on the feelings and age of the husband and wife. Older people who have a good relationship can settle down in their husband's house in a year or so, and those who are young can only live with their husband in two or three years or even seven or eight years.