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How do shy girls treat their feelings? Won't you be very involved?

Hello, my friend! Some girls you just met feel that her personality is like sunshine, and it is warm and comfortable to talk to her! But after a long time, I didn't feel that way after getting along. On the contrary, when some girls first met, they looked dull and shy, and they didn't know how to express themselves! But after getting along, I found it was like a cup of bitter coffee!

In fact, in the eyes of our boys, there are two kinds of girls; One is outgoing, cheerful, unrestrained, and can get along with others quickly wherever he goes. The other is reserved, quiet and shy. I didn't blend in so quickly on various occasions! On the contrary, such girls will have social phobia. I don't even like socializing!

Of course, introverted girls are generally slower than extroverted girls. They are not very good at expressing themselves! They pay more attention to feelings and love over time!

My buddy is generous, generous, enthusiastic, has very good working ability and likes to go out to play! This guy chased a girl for more than three years before the girl agreed to be his girlfriend!

"That's right", that girl belongs to the introverted slow-heating type! Quiet, not very talkative, looks like a good girl! At first, the Lord often teased him; "So a sister also let you chase for more than three years? I don't think so. Your looks are average. You are tall and handsome. As for you? "

The buddy immediately defended: "My girlfriend is good. Although she doesn't like to express herself, she is more willing to pay and take care of others' feelings! I rushed to this point, I think it is worth it! "Later, it was true that the two of them got married. Marriage is still loving after marriage, and it is better than before! This makes the answer very envious! Then answer the question and share with you the characteristics of introverted girls! How to catch her heart

Characteristics of introverted girls;

1, slow down!

For extroverted girls, they prefer publicity, excitement and adventure! And introverted girls prefer stability, stability and feeling. So for introverted girls; Love at first sight is almost rare, they are more long-term companionship and long-term love.

If you like an introverted girl and want to catch up with her in a short time and confess to her, you will hear her say, "Are we moving too fast?" Or "I just like you, not to the extent of love." This is the slow-heating girl. They treat love more rationally and comprehensively! At the same time, I have a strong sense of self-protection and will not casually start a relationship with you! Once you open it carefully, then you are the happy person!

2, willing to pay, think of others!

Introverted girls are more thoughtful because they don't like to communicate with people. She will be better at observing, thinking and understanding each other! We see that many girls sometimes can't express themselves in words, but they will pay with actions! I care about you occasionally, and I am willing to do a lot of things for you together, and I won't say anything after I finish. Willing to be your solid backing!

3, serious feelings, more single-minded!

Answer the Lord met an introverted sister, and occasionally went out to eat with the Lord before having a boyfriend. But after having a boyfriend, she seldom goes out to eat alone with the answer! Even if she comes out, she will bring her boyfriend! For introverted girls, answering the Lord also feels helpless! And they have less emotional experience and are more single-minded! Once identified, it will "stick to it"!

For introverted girls, no matter how they treat love or life, they always hold a serious and single-minded attitude! You must be a very happy person when you can really walk into their hearts! So how do we go after this kind of girl?

Here the Lord gives the following suggestions;

1, can't rush, prematurely exposed the sense of demand.

Different personalities have different characteristics. For introverted girls, don't attract girls by pursuing extroversion and extroversion!

Because they are inherently insecure! Pay attention to feelings and have a serious attitude. Once you are too eager, the other person will mistakenly think that you are just playing with her. For introverted girls, there is almost no such thing as "playing with feelings"! So try not to expose your sense of need. Build more mutual trust! Girls are not stupid. If you talk to her every day, you will naturally understand your good intentions over time!

2. Don't talk big.

Some introverted girls are slow to heat up and pay more attention to image! If you appear grandiose in front of them, your words are exaggerated and exciting, and yellow language attacks your speech. Then most people will think that you are unreliable and not serious! What you want to show her more is your maturity, stability, love and responsibility. Then after a long time of getting along and companionship, they will naturally be attracted to you!

? In short, if an introverted girl wants to be a "protracted war", you need to spend more time contacting her and getting to know her, so that you can really enter her heart! Have patience! ~ you can't catch up without patience

So, my friend, when you meet such a girl, you should seize the opportunity! ! ~? (_-) If you like it, please adopt it! ? (^_-)~