China people have always attached importance to family education, and many letters from their families have far-reaching influence. Please list one or two reasons.

Take the letters of Zhuge Liang, Zeng Guofan, Fu Lei, Yan Zhitui and Zhu Bailu as examples:

1, cultivation and determination-the book of commandments

During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang was taken care of by Liu Bei, a politician who was widely circulated and experienced in the world, and wrote a concise and wise letter to his son Zhuge Zhan-a book of commandments.

This 85-word letter from home puts forward the behavior ethics of being a man from "keeping quiet to cultivate one's morality, saving to cultivate one's morality", from "not indifferent to one's ambition, not being quiet to be far away" and "being slow and unpredictable, and being rash and incurable". Finally, through the end of What's the matter again, it expresses the exhortation and care for his son as a father.

Zhuge Liang has been helping Liu Bei to make suggestions and conquer the world since he was a child, and he has never accompanied his children in his life, let alone educated them. This is Zhuge Liang's understanding of life that time is running out for his son, and this letter from home has become a famous saying of self-cultivation for future generations.

2. Diligence and Humility —— A Letter from Zeng Guo Pan Jia

This famous book "Letters from Zeng Guofan" contains nearly 1500 letters written by Zeng Guofan to his family. Zeng Guofan's family letters cover a wide range, which is enough to reflect the high knowledge and attainments of this extremely talented government official. These family letters are classified according to different objects, and all the family letters written to his son are compiled into Zeng Wen's Family Instruction Justice, which expresses Zeng Guofan's earnest teachings and strict requirements for the next generation and also reflects his emphasis on education.

Zeng Guofan not only attaches importance to improving moral cultivation, but also attaches importance to cultivating self-denial and self-cultivation perseverance and character. He repeatedly expressed the attitude of "cautious independence" in his letters from home, and he should always be strict with himself, and he did the same himself.

Zeng Guofan educated his son in his family letter: "All aristocratic children have the same food, clothing and daily life as poor people, and can achieve great things;" If you are contaminated with wealth and habits, it is hard to hope for success. "It can be seen that the father's requirements for his son are quite strict. In fact, this has something to do with Zeng Guofan's own poverty, diligence and prudence. He hopes to cultivate his son's diligence and humility. Zeng Guofan also put forward the concept that "the meaner a child is, the easier it is to grow up" in his family letters, which coincides with the statement that "children are poor" in recent years. The stricter the training of children, the easier it is to grow up and the harder it is to spoil.

3. Mentor and Friend-Letter from Fu Lei

Twelve years of correspondence, twelve years of inculcation, twelve years of deep friendship, twelve years of mentor. "Letters from Fu Lei" is a compilation of letters written by overseas sons in 12. The content is fine and full of energy, which vividly reflects Fu Lei's intention to love his son with his fists.

In his letter, Fu Lei explained his strict teaching as a father to his son, which made him understand a lot of truth about being a man. Fu Lei also talked about the dribs and drabs of life in his letter. Although my son is overseas, he can feel the warmth of his father's love at this time. Fu Lei also taught his learning experience in the letter, much like a bosom friend.

4. "Yan Family Instructions"

The author Yan Zhitui (53 1—59 1) was born in Linyi, Langya, and crossed the river with the Eastern Jin Dynasty. He experienced the Southern and Northern Dynasties and knew the advantages and disadvantages of learning from the South and using it from the North. Throughout the ages, Yan family precepts have been highly respected, and even thought that "ancient and modern family precepts are based on this", which has been published and engraved repeatedly, although it lasted for more than a thousand years.

Yan Zhitui combined his life experience and philosophical knowledge to write a book "Family Instructions of Yan Family" to admonish future generations. The book consists of seven volumes and twenty articles, each of which covers a wide range, but it mainly uses traditional Confucianism to educate children on how to cultivate self-cultivation, keep the family in order, live in the world and study.

He advocates learning and opposes being unlearned; It is believed that learning should focus on reading and attach importance to the knowledge of workers, peasants and soldiers and businessmen. It is unrealistic to advocate "learning is expensive and can do it" and oppose empty talk.

5. Zhu Jiaxun

Zhu Bailu's "Family Instructions of Zhu Zi" can be said to be the most famous family instruction in ancient times, which is widely circulated.

The full text of Zhu Zi's Family Instructions is more than 500 words, which is concise, easy to understand and catchy. Since its publication, it has spread like wildfire and become a well-known classic family instruction in the Qing Dynasty, which still has educational significance.