The new year to go to whose home to celebrate the New Year?

We ushered in the year 2022, will soon be the Spring Festival, there are some just married friends, not yet experienced, asked Xiaohou New Year's Day we in the end to go to whose family New Year's Day, is the man's home New Year's Day or the woman's home New Year's Day, it seems that many people have defaulted to the New Year's Day, if you have to follow the male side of the male side of the family to the male side of the New Year's Day, today Xiaohou said to say to everyone.

Just married newcomers, should be the theory of the first time into the two families over the New Year, generally speaking, most of them are to go to the man's home in the New Year, because in the traditional sense, the woman is married out of the door, after the door must be in the man's home in the first year of the New Year, which is also said to symbolize that your family after the family, because you have decided that this is your home.

But this does not mean that after the New Year does not go back to your home, wait until the second or third day of the New Year, the male party to take the New Year's Eve to go to the woman's home to pay homage to the New Year, you can also plug some red envelopes, symbolizing the harmony of the two families, get along with the good, as for the New Year's Eve gift, Xiaohou suggests that we bring some supplements or practical things.

There are readers, married for more than two years, even married longer couples, this situation, then who should go to New Year's Eve, Xiaohou suggests that couples can discuss, after all, married for a certain period of time, go to who is not over the New Year's Eve, such as today's women want to accompany the family, then go to the women's New Year's Eve, which is not mandatory, we are all together is to be happy.

In short, no matter whose home for New Year's Eve, we are all to happy reunion, local customs will be different

New Year's Eve back to whoever "is consumed by their feelings of the" minefield "in fact, both sides are using the ineffective communication, resulting in a The relationship is strained and problems cannot be solved properly. In the ineffective communication between husband and wife, the position is more important than the consideration of emotions, evaluation of character is more important than rational communication. Pre-set negative perceptions of your partner, emphasize your own position and needs, and realize your "love" by asking the other person to obey you, i.e., if you obey me, give up your own position and needs, and satisfy my position and needs, that is a manifestation of your love for me, or else you don't love me, or there is something wrong with your character! --you are selfish, you are heartless, you are unreasonable. Such a mode of thinking, the results also happen to fulfill the inner negative evaluation of the partner, self-prophecy is realized, the possibility of effective communication between the two sides is also cut off, communication is blocked, emotions and dissatisfaction gradually accumulated, the formation of a vicious circle. Not only the "back to who's home for New Year's Eve", a lot of small things can become a relationship with the trigger of conflict.