Family Story

① Gratitude for parents short story axiom full collection

Life is impermanent, wealth is impermanent, old age and death is even more impermanent, just because life is short, we have to cherish the present, and learn to treat the people and things around us with gratitude.

Two travelers in the desert have been walking for many days, in their thirst, they met a camel driving the old man, the old man gave them each half a bowl of water. When the two men were faced with the same half bowl of water, one of them complained that the water was too little to quench his thirst and threw it away; the other knew that the half bowl of water was not enough to quench his thirst, but he thought to himself, "God has left me this half bowl of water, it is really a gift, and with this feeling of thanksgiving, he drank the half bowl of water. As a result, the former died in the desert because he was picky about this half-bowl of water, and the latter finally managed to get out of the desert because he drank this half-bowl of water.

This story tells us that people who are grateful for their lives can survive even the greatest disasters. If you are thankful for your life, you can turn it into a blessing, and if you complain about your life, you can turn it into a blessing.

Legend has it that the abbot of a monastery set up a special rule for the monastery: at the end of each year, the monks in the monastery have to face the abbot to say how they felt during the year, but only allowed to say two words. At the end of the first year, the abbot asked a new young monk, "What are your feelings this year?" The young monk replied, "The bed is hard." At the end of the second year, the abbot again asked the little monk, "What have you felt this year?" The little monk replied, "Bad food." At the end of the third year, before this little monk could wait for the abbot to ask him, he took the initiative to approach the abbot and said, "Farewell." The abbot looked at the little monk's faraway back and said to himself, "There is a devil in your heart, it is difficult to achieve the right result, it is a pity! Pity!"

What the abbot meant by "devil" was the endless complaints in the monk's mind. This little monk is only thinking about what he wants, but never thought about what others have given him.

In real life, there are many people like the little monk. They are not accustomed to this and that is not as good as they would like, grievances, grumbling, always feel that others owe him, society owes him, and never feel what others and society do to his life. Their hearts will only produce complaints, not gratitude. A philosopher once said: the world's greatest tragedy and misfortune is a person who says boldly, "No one has given me anything."

Each of us should understand that the whole of life is interdependent, and each thing depends on every other thing. Whether it is the upbringing of parents, the teachings of teachers, the love of a spouse, the service of others, the generosity of nature ...... a person is immersed in a sea of favors ever since he or she has been given life. A person who truly understands this truth will be grateful for the blessings of nature, will be grateful for the parental upbringing, will be grateful for the stability of society, will be grateful for the sweetness of food, will be grateful for the warmth of clothing, will be grateful for the flowers, plants, fish and insects, will be grateful for the suffering and adversity, and will not forget to be thankful even for their own enemies. Because the real prompted us to succeed, make us become resourceful and brave, open-minded, is not favorable and smooth, but those who can often put us to death blows, setbacks and oppositions.

A short story insight: gratitude is the nutrients that nourish life. With the mood of gratitude, man and man, man and nature, man and society will become more harmonious, more intimate. We ourselves will become happy and healthy because of the existence of this gratitude

② home education in the story of the axiom

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Parents must read: three small stories refractive home education axiom home education is the most important part of the child's growth, the world's parents are eager to give their children the best tutelage, but more or less have taken the wrong approach. The following three educational stories are simple but profound, revealing

several principles that should be followed in home education. The first one is about the fact that the child's parents are not the only ones who have been in the same boat for a long time. Story 1 Do not give children easily, that is not respect for children The poor scene of Rwanda may be for the general public can only imagine, volunteer A got off the truck, saw a thin bones, clothes, black boy ran toward them, the boy rarely see such a big truck. At once, Volunteer A was moved to compassion, and turned to get the items from the truck and walked toward the boy. "What are you doing?" Volunteer B yelled, "Put it down!" Volunteer A froze. He didn't know what was going on, aren't we here to do charity work? Volunteer B leaned down toward the little boy, "Hello, we've come from far away and have a lot of stuff in the car, can you help us move it down? We'll pay for it." The little boy hesitated where he was, when a number of other children came running up to him and Volunteer B said the same thing to them again. One child then tried to carry a bucket of cookies down from the car. Volunteer B picked up a quilt and a bucket of cookies and handed them to him, saying, "Thank you very much, here's your reward, would the others like to help?" The other children swarmed in with great energy and it wasn't long before the unloading was complete and Volunteer B gave each child a handful of relief items. Volunteer B gave each child a share of the relief goods. At that moment, another child came and was very disappointed to see that there was no more goods on the truck to help carry. Volunteer B said to him, "Look, everyone is tired, can you sing a song for us? Your song will make us happy!" The child sang a local song, and as usual, Volunteer B gave him an item as well, "Thank you, your singing is wonderful." Volunteer A looked at these thoughtfully. In the evening, Volunteer B said to him, "I'm sorry, I apologize for my attitude this morning, I shouldn't have spoken to you so loudly. But you know what? It's not the fault of the children here to be stuck in poverty, but it's your fault if they think that poverty can be a means of earning a living for nothing and therefore become even more impoverished because you give them things so easily!" It was an unusual day from Volunteer A. Inspiration Since I have been engaged in homeschooling, many parents have asked me the same question - "What if my child can't think independently?" Whenever this happens, I will also ask parents, "When your child can't do his homework and asks you about it, how do you solve the problem?" Most of the parents would quickly answer, "Tell him the answer." I would then ask the parents, "Did you give your child the opportunity to think independently? Have you guided your child to think independently?" In fact, family education is also like volunteers giving relief to poor children in Rwanda. Even if those things are given to them free of charge, they should be allowed to get them through their own labor within their ability, rather than giving them easily. I've also had parents tell me that they had money set aside for their kids to buy a house before they even went to college, and then they said that their kids weren't motivated. I said, you even have a big thing like a house ready for the child, the child still need to be motivated to do what ah?!

Story 2 "quiet" down will have "results" There is a carpenter, in his own yard work, his business is very good, every day from morning to night, the yard saw sound and hammer sound into a piece of ground piled up shavings, piled up sawdust. The ground was full of shavings and piles of sawdust. One night, this carpenter stood on a very high platform and pulled a big saw with his apprentice, sawing a big tree. The watch was a valuable item at that time. The carpenter rushed down to look for it. But there were too many shavings on the ground and he couldn't find it. At that time, it was night, and many of his apprentices came over with lanterns to help him look for the watch, and we all searched together, but we could not find the small watch. Carpenter look, there is no way, forget it, do not look for, lock the door, wait for tomorrow's dawn and then look for it. The carpenter packed up and got ready for bed. After a while, his little son ran over: "Dad, look, look, I found the watch!" The carpenter was surprised, "How could you find a tiny watch when so many of us adults, with lanterns, couldn't find one?" The child said, "You all left, and I was playing in the yard by myself. No one was working, and the yard was quiet. I suddenly heard the sound of tick, tick, tick, tick, I followed the sound and found the watch as soon as I picked it up." Revelation Is it common for some parents to be impatient for quick success and quick profit, to rush to the duck's nest to climb up the ladder, and to follow blindly without using their brains in home education? These phenomena are becoming more and more prominent among some parents, forming a terrible social trend. However, the child's growth is a "flowering", education of children must be quiet, like the child looking for a watch, will move the "brain", only "quiet" down to get the desired "results". Only when he is "quiet" can he get the "result" he wants. In October, 1920, Singh, an Indian missionary, found two girls in the jungles of Calcutta, India, who had been nursed by wolves. The older girl was about 8 years old and the younger about 1 1/2 years old. It is assumed that they were brought to the cave by a mother wolf when they were about half a year old. Singh named them Kamala for the older one and Amala for the younger one. When they were taken into the orphanage, they had all the habits of the beasts, and could not stand on their feet, but walked on all fours. They were afraid of daylight, and in the sun their eyes opened only a narrow slit, and they blinked constantly. They are accustomed to see in the dark. They often sleep during the day, and are active at night. Every night at about 10 o'clock, 1 o'clock, and 3 o'clock they make shrill, strange noises which are neither human nor animal. They are completely ignorant of language and do not utter human syllables. The two of them often curl up in an animal-like manner and do not want to be approached by others. They will not use their hands to hold things, eat things really wolfishly, drink water also licked with their tongues just like wolves. When eating, if someone or an animal approaches, they whimper to scare people. When they are hot in the sun, they open their mouths, stick out their tongues, and pant like dogs. They refused to bathe or wear clothes, and defecated everywhere. When they were taken into the orphanage, Mr. and Mrs. Singh were exceptionally fond of them, and patiently reared and educated them. On the whole, the younger Amara developed a little faster than the older Kamala. After two months in the orphanage, she began to say "bhoo" when she was thirsty and showed an early interest in the activities of the other children. Sadly, Amala died less than a year after entering the institution. It took Kamala 25 months to say her first word "ma" and 4 years later a **** only learned 6 words, which increased to 45 words after 7 years, and had uttered sentences made up of 3 words. It was more than 16 months after admission to the hospital before Kamala could walk on her knees, 2 years and 8 months before she could stand on two feet, and more than 5 years before she could walk on two feet but crawl on all fours when running fast. Kamala lived until she was 17 years old. But she never really learned to speak until she died, and had the intelligence of a three- or four-year-old.

Revelation The story of the discovery and death of the two wolf children in India illustrates that - everything has its own seasonal characteristics, and missing the season is very remedial and improvement. The child is even more so, a child is absolutely no two 1 year old age. 3-12 years old is the best season for children to carry out family education, this period of time, the formation of good habits will be very difficult to change, as we teach children from the child a few months on the shouting of "dad", "mom", once the child learns to shout "dad", "mom", "mom", "mom", "mom", "mom", "mom", "mom", "mom" and so on. "Once a child learns to call "dad" and "mom" and grows to be two or three years old, he or she will want to call someone else "dad", Once the child learns to call "father" and "mother" and grows to the age of two or three, the child will not agree to call others "father" and "mother" because the child has already formed the habit. If the child is allowed to develop good moral, intellectual and physical habits at an early age, the growth in the future will be smooth and easy. However, if this time the family education problem, the future of the child's effort is like a boat against the current, very difficult, and sometimes ineffective.

③ small story axiomatic collection (true story)

1, Kong Rong let the pear

Kong Rong as a child, smart, quick-witted, skillful answer, everyone praised him as a child prodigy. 4 years old, he has been able to recite a lot of poems and songs, and know the etiquette, his parents very much like him. One day, his father's friend brought a plate of pears for Kong Rong's brothers to eat.

His father told Kong Rong to share the pears, and Kong Rong picked the smallest one and gave the rest to his brothers in order of seniority. Kong Rong said, "I am young, I should eat the smallest pear, the big pear should be given to my brothers."

His father was very surprised and asked, "So your brother is younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "Because the younger brother is smaller than me, I should also give way to him." This story tells people that they should observe public order and morality in all things, and these are common sense morals that should be known at a young age.

2. The Mouse on the Pagoda

A mouse wandering around made its home on the top of the pagoda.

Life in the stupa is truly blissful, as it is able to traverse between the various levels at will and enjoy the rich offerings. It even enjoys the privilege of others can not imagine, those unknown secrets, it can chew at will; people dare not look at the Buddha, it can be free to leisure, when the rise, and even in the head of the Buddha to leave some excrement.

Whenever good men and women burn incense and kowtow, the mouse always looked at the intoxicating smoke, slowly rising, it jerked its nose, and secretly laughed in his heart: "Ridiculous human beings, the knees are so soft, said kneeling on the knees!"

One day, a hungry wildcat broke in, and it grabbed the mouse as soon as it could.

"You can't eat me! You should bow down to me! I represent Buddha!" The noble captive protested.

"People kneel to you only because of the position you occupy, not because of you!"

The wildcat sneered, and then it broke the mouse in half like a hamburger.

Moral: In life, many people have complacent times, to think objectively, when others are respectful of you, because of your own personality, knowledge, grace, or because of your temporary position.

3. The Emperor's New Clothes

A lavish and foolish king only cared about changing his clothes every day, and one day the kingdom came to two liars, who claimed that they could make a magical dress, which could only be seen by the sages and could not be seen by the fools.

The liars demanded a lot of treasure, and kept claiming that the dress was so expensive and brilliant that the officials who were sent there could not see it, but in order to cover up their "stupidity", they all said they could see the dress, and the king did the same, and finally wore the invisible "dress" on the streets of the kingdom. "The king, too, finally parades through the streets in this invisible garment, and one of the children says, "He's not wearing anything!" .

Through a stupid emperor was fooled by two liars, put on an invisible - in fact, there is no new clothes, *** naked parade ceremony of the scandalous drama, a profound revelation of the emperor's mediocrity and the size of the official hypocrisy, treachery, stupidity of the ugly nature. Commend the selfless and fearless, dare to expose the false innocence of the childish heart.

4. Sima Guang smashed the cylinder

Sima Guang was seven years old when he was as steady as a grown-up, heard the teacher explain the "Spring and Autumn Annals of the Zuo", loved it very much, and then after school for his family to tell him what he had learned, he immediately understood the connotation of the "Spring and Autumn Annals of the Zuo", and from then on, he couldn't put a book in his hand, and even to the point of forgetting about the hunger and thirst, the degree of coldness and heat.

Once, he was playing with his buddies in the backyard, and a child climbed up to the vat to play, and lost his footing and fell into the water in the vat. Other children saw something happened, give him up to run, Sima Guang but in a hurry, from the ground to pick up a large stone, vigorously to the water tank hit. The water gushed out, and the child was saved.

5, the horse is lost

There is a person who is good at guessing the lucky and lucky mastery of the art of living near the border of the place. Once, his horse ran away to the place where the Hu people lived for no reason. People came to comfort him for this. But the old man said, "How is this not a blessing?" After a few months, the lost horse returned with many of the hu-man's fine horses. People came to congratulate him.

The old man said again, "How is this not a calamity?" The fortune-teller's family had many good horses, and his son, who loved to ride, ended up falling off his horse and breaking his leg. People came to console him.

The old man said, "How is this not a good thing?" After a year, the Hu invaded the border fortress in force, and able-bodied men were conscripted to fight. There were many deaths in the neighborhood of the border fortress. Only Sehwong's son was exempted from the conscription because of his lame leg, and father and son together preserved their lives.

④ Family education short story axiom full set of 300

The problem you raised is related to the majority of parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve the problem of family education of young people and children. Here, we sincerely recommend that you watch the excellent Chinese traditional culture education large-scale public welfare forum documentary series "Sage Education Changes Destiny", which has many legendary stories about family education, there are big people small stories, small people big stories. So that we can sense the truth of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help children to improve the healthy growth and academic performance, to recognize the disaster accident occurs because of why, can do good luck to avoid bad luck, the truth is not false! There must be the answers you need, and it is indeed a rare classic program on family education! This program has many wonderful examples of analysis, to discuss the solution to the child's education of all kinds of methods, really one of the best, one-on-one homeschool teacher and our children, but also a very good homeschool network resources, and is completely free, to improve the child's academic performance is of great help. Life, children and even adults are prone to lack of perseverance, stingy, rebellious disobedience, Internet addiction, strong dependence, lack of concentration and other problems, these are not from a simple method or measure can be fundamentally corrected from the education, into a filial obedient children, but we need to comprehensive and systematic family education, from the root of the start in order to treat the symptoms and cure the root cause. In this movie, there are a lot of experts, teachers, parents personally, with their unique experience to the public, revealing that the parents' educational concepts will have a direct impact on the child's family education, so it is recommended that parents and children watch it together, and from a young age to accept the family will affect the child's life, from which you will be able to get unexpected results!

The movie has a classic cautionary tale: people can be taught well! Good people are taught, bad people are also taught! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that!

However, we are currently facing a variety of realities: a serious lack of social integrity! A variety of media exaggerated rendering, misdirection, children growing up in the environment is constantly being damaged and tainted, to do a good job of family education how easy it is! Parents are becoming more and more difficult to be parents, to be honest, many parents do not know how to be a parent, the child was born into this world, a lot of responsibility for education are shifted to the school and society, but parents are the child's first teacher, a lot of developmental experience needs to be taught by parents, shirking the responsibility of how to educate the child well? The first time I've seen this, I've seen a lot of people who have been in the same boat for a long time!

And we do children's often can not understand the parents' hearts and true experience, only to their own convenience and enjoyment, to be honest, really a little bit of treachery ah! To the day we are parents, to truly understand this feeling, but often regret it is too late, hey ...

Many of the so-called generation gap that exists in our lives is due to the disjointed education of the generations, which is not well connected, and nowadays too many people are too eager to make quick profits, and only care about their own enjoyment, while not caring about other people's feelings.

We must know that all education should start from the root, just like a tree has to have roots to grow trunks and branches and leaves, in order to flourish ah, if we discard the fundamental education of virtues, the other is just a castle in the air. Here, we recommend that you have a friend, whether you have seen or have not seen it, please try to take more time to watch the large-scale traditional Chinese culture and education of the excellent forum program: "Sage Education Changing Destiny" (you can search for playback in the network video or Youku Tudou), I hope to have seen the people are able to get from the benefits of the real and not false and continue to benefit others, so let's work together to * * * together to create The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

I hope that my answer to your help and enlightenment.

I wish you all the best!