The Characteristics of Marriage in China

The Characteristics of Marriage in China

First, everything is for the children.

Many couples have gradually lived like strangers, and their passion has long been transformed into love for their children. In order to give their children a complete family, they insisted on not getting divorced. Husband and wife around children, what family activities, large expenses are also for children. If it weren't for the children, many people would want to end such a marriage.

Second, responsibility is more important than feelings.

Many marriages begin because of love, but the continuation of marriage is not because of love, but because of responsibility. In fact, there is no love in my heart for a long time, but both sides have the responsibility of family, the responsibility of taking care of children and the responsibility of taking care of the elderly, so they choose to maintain this marriage. Sometimes I feel that marriage without love is very tired, but I can't help it. The older a person is, the heavier the responsibility is, and it is difficult to get rid of it.

Third, husband and wife play games separately and are too lazy to communicate.

Couples have more and more different hobbies. One plays mahjong every day, and the other can't finish it. Anyway, everyone plays their own games, and nobody cares. I'm too lazy to talk when I get home. Even sitting on the same sofa watching TV, I like to play with my mobile phone, as if this person is just a stranger living under the same roof.

Fourth, lead a asexual life, even if there is, there is no pleasure.

Love in marriage gradually disappears, without love, there is no sex, and it becomes a "cage" marriage without love and asexuality. Even if there is, it is often hasty. Without the original happiness, unlike that lingering love, I don't want to go back to that time.