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Falling in love is a matter for two people. As long as you love each other, you can hit it off anytime and anywhere. However, marriage is a matter for two families, and it is very important to marry a good husband. But if you meet an unreasonable mother-in-law, it will be painful for a lifetime. Especially when a man is a mother-in-law and can't carry it clearly. That kind of small family will make trouble every minute, even if it doesn't get divorced, it's just a chicken feather. Especially the following four kinds of mother-in-law, although some look good, are actually the chief culprit in destroying family harmony. Unfortunately, please try to stay away!

The five most annoying mother-in-law

1, gossip mother-in-law

Some mothers-in-law, perhaps jealous that their daughter-in-law robbed her son, always love to sow discord in front of her son. Many times, it is clear that the daughter-in-law is just a kind reminder, but in her eyes, it has become a dislike. She cried and cried to find her son and said that she was wronged. She couldn't wait for her son to beat her daughter-in-law. Get along with such a mother-in-law, no matter how sensible the daughter-in-law can satisfy her. The relationship between her and her husband will be destroyed by her mother-in-law sooner or later.

2. Strong mother-in-law

A strong mother-in-law controls everything in the family and has a say in everything. Maybe she has been like this since she was a child. Until now, she has formed a habit. If you marry her son, you will be under her control. Every family has different living habits. When you first come to their home, you will have many habits that you don't like each other, from the posture of cutting vegetables to various details of life. This is also because there are small families and women in the family, and they are not used to decentralization. If you struggle with these parents all day, both sides will become more and more angry and it will be difficult to be quiet at home.

3, interfere with too many mother-in-law.

A mother-in-law who interferes too much treats her son as a child even if she is married, and his son may be used to his mother's decision and leadership. She often interferes with your communication with your husband, because in her eyes, everything her son does is right, and she will ask you if you two have any questions first. When you meet such a mother-in-law, first of all, you should be careful not to educate your husband in front of her, give him enough face outside, and then deal with the problem by various means in your own small home.

4. nagging mother-in-law

A fly is buzzing in my ear. I believe no one can stand it. I hope I can't shoot it right away. But when a mother-in-law with a broken mouth keeps complaining in her ear, as a daughter-in-law, she can only bear it. However, to say the least, you won't get a broad vision. On the contrary, your mother-in-law will intensify, and she will start talking nonsense at a little thing, just like "Tang Priest chanting", which will keep you from being clean.

5. Mother-in-law with too traditional ideas

A mother-in-law who is too traditional in thinking will have requirements for many things, and she will feel that she can't accept them. In the eyes of the daughter-in-law, she will think of romantic actions to enhance her feelings for a long time. For example, men can't go to the kitchen, can't bring foot washing water to their wives, can't massage their wives, and so on. The most serious view is that boys are preferred to girls, which requires you to have a son secretly.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a big problem for thousands of years since ancient times. In fact, as a woman, it is not easy for everyone to keep a family and have children. We hope that the mother-in-law can be tolerant and generous, the daughter-in-law can be obedient and filial, and * * * can run a harmonious and warm family together!