What are the effects on the child of the parents' incessant lecturing in home education?

With their own thinking, let the child to see do not like things, used to talk about moral, intellectual and physical all-round development, as if the child is the parents, obedience tool, no choice , the child grew up with a particularly high level of stress, affecting his physical health, hurt the child. The child is doubting life, which is a very irresponsible thing.

Always want the child to listen to the approval of the parents. Parents satisfy their own desire for control, but ignore the feelings of the child, the child needs respect and may have different views.

As a parent, you need to give your child autonomy, to let go, to be the string of the kite, so that the child is free to soar in the sky, as long as the line that goes astray is pulled back in time.

Law on the child to inculcate will also have a direct impact on their own children's outlook on the three, may be correct and positive, may also be one-sided narrow

primary motivation, so that the child understands why I do this thing, this thing is my own thing, not a parent's thing. Every child is great, just parents did not find their flash, parents of the wrong educational methods killed also can not raise great children!

So, I think, must be in accordance with the child's character to education, not a lecture, timely sermon, according to the child's character, hobbies and interests, life planning to **** with the forward, and they do also teacher and friend of the relationship, to do according to the material teaching, step by step. Look at their own children's strengths, play his strengths to make up for his shortcomings, encouragement and education is far more important than the comparison between each other! Everyone **** encouragement!

In the program, Yuan Jingyi, a freshman girl, went on stage and complained that her mother always compares her with her best friend, who is "the first in her class, the first in her grade, the first in her school, and even the first in the whole league".

Honestly, in that atmosphere, I was slightly embarrassed. After all, my coworker's youngest son is 6 years old, and he knows how to pick up on the implications of his mom's tone.

The next time I held the boy for a while because his mother had to go to the bathroom, my son told me, "Mommy, don't you love me anymore?