I am a traditional girl, and I just want to save my first time for my wedding night. Is this idea silly and naive?

Moderator: Do you think girls should save their first time for their wedding night?

He Jiong: I don't think it's a question of whether or not. I think this matter should go with the flow today. I told you it should be okay. Why? Because I think it will be a wonderful persistence. It's not a bad thing, but I think it's difficult at this age. Because everyone has a kind of psychology, that is to say, this chapter is regarded as a very important factor whether two people can live in harmony.

Many people worry that if they get married, their sexual life will be disharmonious. If there is a problem, it is wrong to divorce or go again. And now people will look at this part more and more with an open and positive attitude, unlike before. This is actually a normal physiological need of people and a very, very important source of happiness.

Therefore, more choices are that we have to communicate every detail before, which is also part of it. I'll play this deal once, or try it and feel it. It's really good, and then we're going to get married. Because I think marriage is still a sacred contract. I think it should be, but it's hard to do.

He Laoshi is absolutely right, which is also the view that most netizens agree with. Since ancient times, there have been four happy events, a long drought and rain, an old friend in another country, when to be the first, and a wedding night. If we can harvest these four happy events, it will be glad you came.

1, girls should save their first time for their wedding night, but this beautiful persistence may only apply to ancient times. That is, ancient times, just like the costume drama that most people like to watch today. At that time, men and women adhered to such beautiful promises, and such pure and reserved love was beautiful, charming and inviolable.

This kind of love, like a beautiful and moving lotus, emerges from the mud without being stained, clear without being demon. I'm afraid this kind of love story has been experienced by grandparents, or parents in some places will have such customs and habits. It is actually very, very rare to stick to such a beautiful life.

2. Knowledgeable He Laoshi not only has high emotional intelligence, but also has his own sacred love view. Open-minded, positive, pure and noble, it can be said that it is one of the few Bai Lianhua in the world. Not only did he keep a pure friendship with Nana, but they also kept in touch and occasionally made fun of each other. In private, they also talk about everything like brother and sister. I also maintain a very good relationship with other friends in the circle. This is not only his personal charm, but also an influence of his poetic spirit, which is also loved by many fans. Just like Jimmy Lin, he is an immortal myth and male god in our audience's mind;

Whether you think it should or not, there are different reasons. Of course, for both men and women, it is a good thing for girls to stay on their wedding night for the first time, which is good for everyone. For girls, leaving for the first time on their wedding night can ensure that their chastity archway will not be hurt; For boys, it is great luck and happiness to find such a woman who sticks to her virginity until her wedding night, and won't make him feel that this girl is very casual. It is great luck and happiness to sleep with others casually. Everyone should lead an honest and clean life and be reserved if there are no girls in their hearts.

So, if you can, conditions permit, and both sides have no objection, then do your best. If not, take protective measures before starting. Especially for girls, if you don't take protective measures against such things, you will eventually lose yourself.

Don't neglect this part of the protective measures for convenience. If the boy really loves her, please take precautions before doing it. Doing so is not only responsible for yourself, but also for her, which is also one of the manifestations of loving someone.

Do you think girls should save their first time for their wedding night? Should I agree with He Laoshi?