Who should take care of traditional confinement?

After giving birth, pregnant women need to sit on the moon. The traditional confinement is all taken care of by housewives. However, due to the development of the times, many pregnant women are either cared for by their mothers or by their husbands. In fact, mother-in-law, mother, new moon and husband take care of different months. Let's learn about their advantages and disadvantages.

mother-in-law

Traditionally, the person who takes care of the second month is a housewife, and it is a very extensive situation for a housewife to take care of her daughter-in-law. As an experienced person, a housewife will have a lot of work experience in taking care of pregnant women or newborns, so even today, many families will let her mother-in-law take care of the second month. At the same time, however, due to the outdated concept of parenting and the awareness of taking care of the next month, it is easy to have disputes with the daughter-in-law, which is easy to aggravate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is not conducive to family happiness.

mother

Many women like to let their mothers take care of themselves after giving birth. I think that's good too. As experienced people, mothers had better know how to take care of pregnant women. They also have a lot of experience in taking care of newborns. Even if there is any contradiction, after all, mother and daughter are easy to discuss, which is conducive to the recovery of pregnant women and the growth of newborn babies. However, the mother has been at her daughter's house for a long time, and the number of meetings with her uncle has increased. After a long time, it is very easy for her mother-in-law to be dissatisfied with her uncle, and her bad habits are exposed to her mother-in-law, so it is very easy for her mother-in-law to see her uncle's shortcomings, thus disdaining her uncle.

Delivery nurse

Nowadays, many families with better economic strength will choose the new moon to take care of the moon. After all, Yueyue is licensed and technically professional, which can help pregnant women to recuperate and take good care of their newborns. Taking care of the next month can release the mother-in-law and mother, which will not cause the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, nor will it make the mother and husband feel dissatisfied. It can be said that it is a three-pronged approach. However, if the family's economic strength is not very good, it is relatively difficult to ask for a new moon. Whether confinement is confinement or not, pregnant women still depend on their family economic situation.

husband

At present, more and more women tend to let their husbands take care of the confinement. Husband's care for the next month can make him know more about pregnant women, can join the team to take care of children, is not easy to have conflicts, can enhance the feelings of husband and wife and promote parent-child communication. This method is undoubtedly the happiest one. If Bao's mother's month is taken care of by her husband, it is really a blessing for Bao's mother.