Speak civilized know etiquette to be civilized students

Civilized etiquette is the need to inherit civilization is also the need for the development of the times. Nowadays, the world has undergone great changes, human society is a civilization, peace, development as the mainstream of the information society, the interaction and cooperation between people is becoming more and more frequent and close. In the process of interaction and cooperation, whether people's etiquette is well thought out, not only shows its cultivation, quality of the image, but also directly affects the success of the cause, business. With the development of the times, people's spiritual requirements are increasingly developing, everyone is seeking a warm and harmonious living environment full of love, sincerity, understanding, mutual assistance, and seek a space full of civilization and friendliness, sincerity and tranquility. A forward-looking society calls for civilization, and a scientific future calls for civilization. At present, our country is carrying out the construction of two civilizations and is striving to be among the advanced nations of the world. Civilized etiquette is an important content of spiritual civilization, is the external manifestation of a person's moral quality, is a measure of a person's education, civilized etiquette education is not only the basic education for the formation of individual morals, qualities and personalities, but also the basic education for the improvement of the moral quality of the whole nation, the revitalization of the spirit of the nation and the construction of the socialist spiritual civilization. Therefore, the school must grasp the students' civilized etiquette education, which is the need of the times, the need to improve the quality of the whole nation, and the need for the construction of socialist spiritual civilization. At present, most of the students in the school for the only child, parents look forward to the pursuit of scores, instead of being diluted or even give up the education of the upbringing. With the progress of the times, the development of society, the establishment of a market economy, the inner quality, the external quality of the good or bad, will be directly related to the development of human beings in society and success, to strengthen the civilized behavior of the formation of education is not only the need to promote the traditional virtues, but also the inevitable physical and mental development of students. Civilized behavior must start from the students. In this paper, from three aspects: create a good atmosphere, take appropriate measures and persistent education through etiquette education, students' physical and mental health development, establish self-confidence, establish good interpersonal relationships and improve learning initiative, conscientiousness and so on have a positive impact.

First of all, teachers set an example of learning. China's great ancient thinker, educator Confucius emphasized the need for teachers to set an example, he said, "his body is correct, do not order; his body is not correct, although the order does not follow." "If you can't correct your body, how can you correct people?" Mr. Tao Xingzhi has been abiding by his own motto of "teaching others to teach themselves" and has always been strict with himself. Throughout the ancient and modern times, but all the famous educators, none of his noble strength of character and set up a monument in the world, become the "teacher of the world". Students are highly malleable and susceptible to external influences. Teachers are the object of students' direct imitation, and also the main implementer of civilized etiquette education. Teachers' words and behavior greatly influence students, therefore, it is crucial for teachers to set a good example and be a role model. In their usual work and life, teachers should set a good example. The power of role models is infinite! When a student sees a teacher and greets him or her, the teacher should also nod his or her head or wave hello to the student; and when the teacher does something wrong, he or she dares to apologize to the student. Such a small section, reflecting the respect for students, so that students are educated in the subtle, creating a good educational atmosphere.

Secondly, learn some civilized etiquette knowledge. As the saying goes: "No rules, no circle". The necessary knowledge of civilized etiquette is the basis for people to form good civilized etiquette habits. People's knowledge of books and manners is not innate, but is acquired through acquired education and practice. At present, students have a weak understanding of this knowledge. To change this phenomenon, we have to start from popularizing the knowledge of civilized etiquette. Time changes, things change, etiquette norms also change with the constant change. Summarized, there are no more than these aspects: in family life, manifested in respect for the elderly and love for children, husband and wife, unity in the neighborhood; in interpersonal interactions, manifested in humility and courtesy, understanding and tolerance, and goodwill to others, especially in foreign relations, the image of the importance of etiquette; in social life, manifested in the observance of the rules, the maintenance of public morality, sympathy for the weak and the poor and needy, caring for the environment and treating nature well. In addition, we should let students "know what it is, and more importantly, know why it is". Saying "I'm sorry" is one of the most commonly used etiquette, it seems to have a magical power, can make the tension between people and contradictory relationship relax, help us get along with others, can make others believe you, accept you, more can make themselves close to others.

We also need to lay a good foundation and form an atmosphere of civilized etiquette. Whenever a new semester begins, I first civilized etiquette education for students, on the first etiquette class, laying a good foundation, forming an atmosphere. Specific practices: first of all, the students put forward the requirements of clear, specific, detailed civilized etiquette routines, so that each student has a clear idea in mind. Then pay attention to the first civilized etiquette training. At the beginning of the importance of etiquette training, laying a good foundation, etiquette education for students. Not only to make students understand the "reason", but also to train the "ritual", learning and practicing combination, practice-oriented. Demonstration, teaching performance, so that students know how to do. Let the students form the correct action stereotypes, and gradually develop good habits. For example, to strengthen the students' basic standing posture. Some students did not stand straight, hands moving back and forth, small voice, I went to his side to encourage him to do it again for the second time, the third time, I guided and demonstrated to the student until he stood up straight and raised his head, his voice is loud. Finally the whole class training, everyone passes. The teacher demonstrated seriously and increased the training, and the students also drew attention to it. Every student practiced very seriously, forming a good etiquette atmosphere. Passing on the right side of the corridor, not running and jumping, etc.. Standardized education and training in the minds of the students to hit a civilized etiquette brand.　 But also a variety of methods to do live work. Effectively strengthen the civilized etiquette of students into education, guiding students from a young age to master the basic knowledge of campus, family and public **** places of etiquette, and gradually develop good personal habits, establish a correct moral concepts, guiding students to learn to be a person, so that the students become a good student in school, at home is a good child, a good citizen in the community. First of all, increase publicity. Play the blackboard newspaper cultural propaganda position, vigorously publicize the content of modern civic education. Insist on every Monday after the flag-raising ceremony, the teacher according to the actual situation of the school, write a diary, can really play a citation will be, and constantly improve the level of ideology and morality, and guide the students to establish a correct outlook on life, the world view, values. Secondly, pay close attention to the formation of education. Adhere to hold class meetings, the use of classroom lessons, character and life lessons for students to carry out daily behavior education, combined with the "Code for Primary and Secondary School Students", "Code of Conduct for Secondary School Students", the implementation of the ideological and moral guidance and civilized education for students at different levels and in a targeted manner, to start with the education of daily behavioral norms, so that the students from the "I want me to do this" to change to "I should do this", so that good behavioral habits internalized into the students' conscious behavior, and gradually let the students develop good moral sentiments, behavioral habits.

One famous quote a day to inspire students to set up lofty ideals and aspire to success; through the study of school spirit and school motto, guide students to learn to be, learn to learn, learn to survive, learn to learn to aesthetics, and educate students should be united and love and help each other; through the landscaping, purification, and greening of the campus, so that the students are placed in a neat, fresh and beautiful and cultural atmosphere of the environment, and be subject to the influence of the culture of the subconscious, so as to achieve the purpose of purifying the mind, so as to achieve the purpose of the campus. So as to achieve the purpose of purifying the soul. Can also develop the formation of educational synergy. Home-school interaction, the formation of synergy. Through home visits, hold parent-teacher conferences and other forms, effectively strengthen the organization and management of teachers' home visits, teachers should communicate with parents more, more communication, pay special attention to contact with the parents of students who have not progressed, to obtain parental support and understanding, so as to fully mobilize the parents to participate in the school management, the enthusiasm of school education, and to improve the level of parental education of their children, and really make the school family to form a synergy, effectively educate the students.

Carrying out social practice activities. Schools in due course to contact with the village committee, to seek their care and support, tapping the resources outside the school to educate students. Such as: organizing students to carry out respect for the elderly and young, green social practice activities, guiding students out of the campus, into the countryside to participate in social practice, in practice, students can broaden their horizons to grow insights, but also by a good education and exercise. And persistent, to the end. Civilized etiquette education, is a form of education. Through education and training, perseverance, so that students gradually form a good habit of civilization and etiquette. Repeatedly, this is a normal phenomenon, should be full of confidence in students, grasp repeatedly, repeatedly grasp, solid, unremitting. Whenever students leave school, I remind them to see the teacher initiative to greet; if the teacher walks past you, it is natural to greet the teacher. Now the students in my class have developed good etiquette habits, whether in the hallway, on the way to school, or outside the campus, they can take the initiative to greet the teacher when they see him or her, and improve the conscientiousness and initiative to be civilized and polite. Since the civilized etiquette education has been carried out in the class, the more the students are brought up, the better they behave, and even at the end of the period, their behavior is stable. Gradually formed a collection of queuing in and out, civilized rest between classes.

The civilized manners education is to let the students in the cycle of knowledge and practice from passive to active, and finally internalized into their own a quality. As long as persistent, a grasp of the end, will certainly develop self-management, the formation of a good civilized etiquette atmosphere of good habits. Through etiquette education, the development of students' physical and mental health, establish self-confidence, establish good interpersonal relationships and improve learning initiative, self-consciousness and so on have a positive impact, forming a virtuous circle. Through etiquette education, the formation of a good classroom style, but also to promote the overall improvement of the quality of education and teaching.

Civilized etiquette is the foundation of our learning and life, and is the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization, there is no basic moral bottom line. Thousands of learning to learn to be a real person, that is, learning to learn to be a person, learning to be civilized, learning to be a social person, clean environment, civilized campus, starting from me, starting from every little thing, so that the flower of civilization and etiquette blossomed everywhere in the campus.