Examples of communication to resolve the crisis in history

Lian Po, the general of Zhao, was jealous of Lin Xiangru, who was highly valued by the prince of Zhao, and threatened to embarrass him, but Lin Xiangru avoided conflicts with him everywhere. Everyone is confused. Lin Xiangru's phrase "national emergency first, personal revenge later" revealed his intention.

This sentence also instantly eliminated Lian Po's prejudice against Lin Xiangru. He offered a humble apology and finally became best friends with Lin Xiangru.

Lin Xiangru's words on the floor turned into a bridge, which enabled the two ministers to communicate and made Lian Po understand Lin Xiangru's noble personality.

It can be seen that language is the carrier of information. Through language, many misunderstandings can be eliminated and many spiritual barriers can be broken.

1. Emperor Qianlong visited Jiangnan incognito and took Ji Xiaolan, a great scholar.

One day, when they were thirsty, Ji Xiaolan saw a pear tree by the road, so he picked a pear and ate it by himself.

Emperor Qianlong was very angry and asked,' Kong Rong can get pears at the age of four, so why not let Ai Qing get them? At this time, Ji Xiaolan realized that he had lost his manners, and quickly said, "Pear lovers, leave! I was ordered to accompany me, and I dare not let pear.

"Emperor Qianlong said," Can't you give me a pear? " Ji Xiaolan went on to say, "I will serve the emperor all my life. I don't have two ambitions. How dare I separate the pear from your majesty? " Ganlong had to swallow saliva.

2. The title of "old man" is related to Emperor Qianlong of Qing Dynasty.

According to legend, during the Qianlong period, Ji Xiaolan compiled the Siku Quanshu in imperial academy.

One day, Ji Xiaolan and his colleagues jokingly called the emperor an "old man", which happened to be heard by Emperor Qianlong.

GanLong angrily asked Ji Xiaolan, "what do you mean by the word' old man'? If you can tell the truth, you will be saved from death.

"Ji Xiaolan unhurriedly replied," the whole city calls you that.

You see, longevity is called old age, indomitable spirit is called head, and parents call children, which is why people call you' old man'.

"After hearing this, Emperor Qianlong laughed and pardoned Ji Xiaolan's death.

From then on, the title of "old man" spread, not only the minister can be called jun, the wife can be called husband, and the young can be called dragon, without any disrespect.