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Essays on Family Style and Family Instructions
Essay on Family Style and Family Training 1 My wife is over 60, and she still does odd jobs from morning till night every day. Everyone who sees her blames me for "having the right to expire". I would be so happy if I had turned my wife into a full member and now retired and earned thousands of dollars a month.
This has to start with 1977.
At that time, I was the principal of the school and my wife was a substitute teacher. At this time, the substitute teacher has the last chance to become a private teacher. Should I transfer my wife? My ideological struggle is fierce. After several sleepless nights, my father appeared in front of me. My father is very strict with our four brothers and often teaches us to be "upright". He not only said so, but also did it himself. During the three-year natural disaster, there was no food at home, and he never went to the production team warehouse to ask for more food. Eight people in the family lived in four huts, next to their private plots in the west, and were arranged by the village group to make homesteads for others. We four brothers disagree. When the village group asked his father for advice, he resolutely obeyed the village group's decision and did not leave this vacant lot to his four sons who were about to get married. I remember that my second brother couldn't get a wife when he was almost 30 years old because he didn't have a job. My father knows that he can arrange a job as long as he finds an acquaintance, but he just doesn't want to ... all these scenes come to my mind. I decided to learn from my father, "be an upright person" and give my share of private education to other substitute teachers. I asked my lover if she would hate me in the future. My wife asked me, who told me that I was the daughter-in-law of the Zhou family? This is the Zhou family style!
Yes, a good family style is passed down from generation to generation. My daughter was assigned to a middle school as an English teacher after graduating from normal university. Last summer vacation, nearly half a month. Six students in the class go home to make up lessons every day, and the daughter is still busy serving tea and handing water. There is always a bad feeling in my heart. I think my daughter is a jerk. Now the Education Bureau has banned paid tutoring. How could she do that? My daughter read my mind and proudly said that the six students' academic performance was not satisfactory. They will be in Grade Three next semester. I use the summer vacation to make up lessons for them, and I don't charge a penny. Even the things I sent were returned one by one. I learned it from you. I want to be an upright person. After a few words, I was elated: my daughter is really mature and can be an upright person! I am very happy.
Essay 2 on the theme of family style and family instruction: Push open the door of our house, and you will find that everything here is very tidy. But our family rarely does large-scale sorting, and there are few things that can't be found. Do you want to know why? Today, I will introduce you to this good family style in our family. However, the words have to start from kindergarten.
When I was five years old, I formed a bad habit: I put things away and didn't put them back. Once, my good friend Wang came to my house to play. We took a lot of toys from the toy shelf to play with, and threw them on the ground when we didn't want to play. We had a good time. After the game, I found that the ground was full of toys, and there was no place to stand-every time I moved, I stepped on many toys! In order not to be trapped in the toy pile, I have to do some serious sorting: pile the toys together first, and then put them back in the toy rack in different categories. Although it looks like only two steps, with the help of my parents, it took me a whole hour! After finishing the "work", I was exhausted and said to myself, "Oh, I'm exhausted. I won't take out so many toys next time. " My father said mysteriously, "I have a secret that will make you have a good time, so hurry up and collect it." "What method?" I asked eagerly. "It's what you take out every time, and then put it back in its original place after you play well, so although it was a bit troublesome at that time, you don't have to spend so much time sorting it out when you finally clean it up." Father explained slowly. "Oh, I see. This is a good idea. " I can't help but suddenly realize. I remember playing in my father's office before, and I saw that his office was neat and beautiful, so it was a good way to make use of it.
So, my parents and I made an agreement: after we use things, we will put them back in time, and everyone will supervise each other and remind each other.
Since then, our home has become clean and tidy, and the number of large-scale tidying has obviously decreased, from once a week to once a month. In this way, we have formed a good family style-whatever we take at hand is put back in its original place, so as to "return things to their original owners."
Essay on the theme of family style and family instruction 3 I began to learn about family style at the age of three. Because my parents went to work, I lived with my grandparents since I was a child, so my family style was learned from my grandparents.
There are three principles for grandparents to be human, and I also learn and abide by them:
The milkman never cheats, takes advantage of others, or takes other people's things.
I remember once, my grandmother took me shopping and bought eggplant from a vendor, but when we were about to leave, the vendor stopped us and said that we forgot to take eggplant, but we already had a bag of eggplant, so I was sure that the bag of eggplant was not ours, but I thought it would be more profitable to take another bag of eggplant. But grandma told the truth, that bag of eggplant is not ours. I am puzzled: why didn't grandma say the eggplant was ours? When I got home, my grandmother saw my incomprehension and said, "We take advantage of others and others suffer. If this cycle continues, one day we will also suffer big losses. " Since then, I have never taken advantage of others.
You can't break your word, you must do what you promised others.
On Sunday, grandma saw my report card and said that your grandfather and I would take you to buy toys next Sunday. What's going on here? This starts with the conversation on Wednesday night.
That night, I said to my grandmother, "I had an exam today." If I get more than 95 points, will you and grandpa take me to buy toys? " "Well, as long as you get more than 95 points, Grandpa and I will take you to buy toys."
Today, I got my grades. I got 97 points. So grandma said she would take me to buy toys next Sunday. Grandma also said: In the future, as long as I score above 90 in every exam, I will take me to Beijing to play at the end of the year. Although this is only a small promise, it makes me understand that what I promise others must be done.
It is our traditional virtue to respect the old and love the young.
Once, when I came home from school, my grandmother came to pick me up and saw an old man older than my grandmother crossing the road. At this time, grandma immediately ran to help them cross the road. Since then, grandma has asked me to help grandparents or children younger than myself when they are in trouble.
Family style is a life truth that every family understands, which has benefited me a lot in my life.
Family Style Family Training Theme Essay 4 Good family style plays a vital role in a person's growth, and family training is naturally essential.
Filial piety/mourning
As the saying goes, "filial piety is the first virtue" tells us to be filial to our parents and elders, which can be found in every little thing in life. For example, this little thing can let us see the performance of filial piety, and parents also set an example for us to know what to do and what is "filial piety", which also reflects the children's concern for their parents. Seeing the bright smiles on grandparents' faces, I feel warm in my heart and know that I should honor my parents.
Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which we should inherit and carry forward.
diligent
As the saying goes: "Nothing is difficult in the world, but if you put your mind to it", diligence can make up for it. Any success is the fruit that grows on the root of diligence, so diligence is very important. In my family, my father can set a good example for me: he can get up early, which has become a habit, which makes me get up involuntarily, because I know I have to learn from my father and form a good habit of diligence: I don't stay up late in the morning, and I have a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early; In learning, we should be willing to work hard and form a good habit of diligence.
Heaven rewards diligence, and we should form a good habit of diligence.
economical
Civilized society advocates thrift, and each of us should do it. Water resources are not inexhaustible, but some people waste it: when washing your face with soap, the tap is not turned off, so a lot of water is lost in vain. These phenomena should not appear. Our family advocates frugality, saving water and not wasting a drop of water; Save electricity, do not waste one degree of electricity. It is my family style to lead by example and be thrifty.
I also call on more people to establish this sense of thrift, protect the earth's resources and protect our homeland!
A good family style will drive a good social atmosphere, and a good family style will convey positive energy. We should start from every family, let every family have a good family style and cultivate civilized people. As long as we adhere to social integrity, it will be carried forward and the civilization of the Chinese nation will be improved.
A good family style is a kind of strength and a kind of moral strength. A good family style needs to be passed down from generation to generation. If every family can have a good family style and establish a good sense of family style, then the bad behavior of society can be curbed and the society will become more harmonious and beautiful.
Family Style Family Instruction Theme Essay Five Family Styles are the ethos, style and fashion of a family. Family life style and cultural atmosphere constitute family style. Roland, a famous French writer, once said: "Life is not an individual who can grow up in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the way. It is also like a sensitive camera, recording what you see and hear along the way. Every minute and inch of daily life is a fiber that weaves individuality. Everyone's words and deeds in the environment are building materials that are integrated into the growth process, infecting this person's thoughts, feelings and behaviors and affecting this person's attitude towards life. The influence of the environment on a person is more important than tangible imitation. " This also shows the importance of family style.
My family style is "promoting democracy and consultation on an equal footing". The important foundation of a good family style is unity, equality and harmonious family relations. If the family relationship is not normal, blame each other, complain and fight, children will feel cold, cold and hostile, leaving a painful scar in their hearts. Therefore, family members should respect and understand each other, live in harmony, care for each other and love each other. Parents should be good at adjusting and controlling their emotions and try not to quarrel in front of their children; We should carry forward democracy, actively listen to children's opinions and negotiate on an equal footing; Under the correct guidance of adults, let children grow up freely; Cheerful and optimistic play with children makes the family full of fun. Create a harmonious family environment for children and let them grow up healthily in harmonious, warm and caring interpersonal relationships.
Family style is the main theme of a family, and it is also the concrete embodiment of family members' personality, cultural accomplishment, moral sentiment and interpersonal relationship. Family style is like spring rain, moistening things silently. To form a good family style, parents have to start from themselves. I think what I have done better is to practice swimming and calligraphy with my children when they are in primary school, constantly improve their parents' quality, and strive to turn their home into a successful school.
Family style and school spirit * * * all affect us, let us move towards our goals and have a good character. We also influence others with our own good character. Family style and school spirit, let's ride the wind and waves and grow up in the wind.
Family Style Family Training Theme Composition 6 Elders don't bring chopsticks, and children can't bring them; Say hello when you see your elders; Give your seat to your elders, and there are many more. These are different family styles handed down from different families, and they have been handed down from generation to generation. My family is no exception, that is frugality! Thrift includes thrift, and I suddenly remembered what happened in my family:
It was still a cold winter, and grandpa bought a book from Xinhua Bookstore against the biting wind-The Complete Works of Mo Yan. When he got home, grandpa didn't even take off his coat, so he went into the study and read a book page by page. I secretly stood by and looked at grandpa, vaguely hearing that he could still read the voice, but how serious he was! In fact, grandpa admires Mo Yan, just like his fans! As long as it is a book written by Mo Yan, Grandpa will read it several times. As soon as I meet something I don't understand, I will look it up in the computer or dictionary. When I find it, I will write it down on a piece of paper and keep it.
Once again, when I came home from school, it was getting dark. As soon as I entered the room, I saw grandpa holding the complete works of Mo Yan in his hand, sitting motionless on the sofa and reading quietly, almost becoming an old bookworm! Then I found a piece of paper full of words. The words are black, just like countless ants crawling around on the paper. Let me have a closer look. Oh! It turned out that grandpa wrote the note! But I'm a little confused. The paper is full. Why doesn't he change a new piece of paper? So I asked grandpa, and grandpa told me, "This is called thrift!" " "
A week later, grandpa finally finished reading the book. Grandpa still has the paper full of notes, which seems to have a lot of words. Grandpa called me to his side and said to me, "Do you know, son?" Our family has a family style, which was handed down a long time ago! Now I tell you; That is-frugal housekeeping! Diligence and thrift in the dormitory. I did this because your great-grandfather taught me this method before! You should learn these four words, and tell your next generation, let them know that our family has such a family style, let them know that diligence and thrift! "From now on, I also do as my grandfather said. Until now, this has almost become a habit.
"Beautiful youth, brilliant life"-basking in family style. I introduce my family style to everyone! What about your family style?
Family Style Family Training Theme Composition 7 "Honesty, Upward, Respect for the Old and Love for the Young; Diligence, harmony, family and everything "entered the home of Zhang Longxing, a villager in Maanshan, and this special" family training card "in the case corner was very obvious. In recent years, inspired by the villagers in Wang Yang village, the practice of "practicing family training" and "cultivating family style" has become a common practice in Fengxian.
With the media publicity and reports, the word family style inadvertently broke into everyone's field of vision. Although everyone is no stranger to family style, what is family style? I'm afraid different people will have different answers. Some people say that family style is clean, and some people say that family style is to respect the old and love the young; Some people say that family style is hard-working and kind, while others say that family style is to save civilization. Although there is a literal definition of family style, in everyone's mind, family style actually has a different internal.
From the historical origin, the rise of family originated from the ancient civilization of farming society and is an important part of traditional culture. In ancient China, family style was still an important energy core of a family or clan, and it was a code of conduct and moral standard that all family members must follow. The ancients said, "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world." "Managing your family" here means managing your family, and managing your family requires a good family style, so the importance of family style is obvious.
With the development of the 1980s, the internal family style has been constantly rewritten, becoming richer and richer, with more modern elements and less feudal colors, which is also the progress of previous history. However, we can probably see that in the era of product economy, people's values are increasingly diversified. In addition, due to the influence of bad atmosphere, some people ignore morality, do not stress honesty, or forcibly enter Liangshan for their own self-interest, or do whatever it takes for their own purposes. Although these are only legal or moral appearances, they are essentially the result of damaged family style and lack of family education.
On the surface, family style is just a family matter, which has nothing to do with society and the country, but it is not. In the process of human growth, the influence of family style on oneself can not be ignored. As a quiet moral force, family style purifies the hearts of every family member all the time. Families with good family style can cultivate good citizens for the society, and officials with good family style can become good public servants of citizens.
If we want to be a useful person, we should seize our life card now. Only by playing our own cards well can you have a bright future. The essence of "playing your own cards well" is the expression of self-courage, self-confidence and self-esteem, and it is also an opportunity to surpass and challenge yourself.
My life card is my family motto-be strong, be tolerant of others and be strict with yourself. This is the theme that my father taught me since I was a child.
"How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain!" Pursuing the perfection of life is a good wish of life, but how difficult it is to really realize this wish! The long road of life, lack and tilt have always been there.
"People have joys and sorrows, and the moon is full of rain and shine." Happiness and suffering, like twin brothers, are precious wealth in your long life. The key is how to straighten your mind when you encounter hardships and tests. Strong, this is what we should have in this situation. We are not afraid of pain, but we are afraid of losing our strength; We are not afraid of suffering, but we are afraid of losing hope. Being strong will treat every big storm as an attempt of life and turn it into a halo of life; Treat every impact you encounter as a new topic in your life, and every impact will make you stronger. Every difficulty you overcome is your success.
I love my family's family style and family precepts, and I will hold on to them-my life card.
Be lenient with others and be strict with yourself. My understanding of this sentence is, look at others with a telescope and look at yourself with a magnifying glass. Everyone has two sides, each with its own advantages and disadvantages. It is wise to see the advantages of others, and it is an open-minded life realm to look at the advantages and disadvantages of yourself and others objectively. Looking at yourself with a magnifying glass is to really know yourself, be strict with yourself, consciously do self-criticism and self-review, and correct yourself in a targeted manner.
Looking at others through a telescope means not resenting all kinds of misunderstandings and grievances, but asking others to allow them to have shortcomings; Give others enough time to go.
Correct your own shortcomings, so that you can get along with others with a tolerant, peaceful and humble attitude.
I love my family's family style and family precepts, and I will hold on to them-my life card.
Although my family style and instructions are simple, they contain certain philosophy. I will catch them and help me grow!
Family style and family training theme sketch 9 sneaked into the night with the wind, moistening things silently. Some good habits are formed imperceptibly, and the source of good habits comes from our family's family style and family instructions.
I have a sister and a brother. My mother told us three brothers and sisters since childhood that you must love each other and help each other. The elder sister should give way to her younger sister, and the younger brother should respect and protect her. Although we sometimes quarrel, it will not affect our feelings at all, because I always remember that my mother said that the family should love each other. This is my mother's family motto-love each other.
Dad is often away from home. As soon as he got home, he liked to call our three brothers and sisters together and ask us about our recent situation, such as how was our study, did we fight, etc., and then he began to instill his thoughts in us. You must study hard. Although study can't determine everything, if you can't control your study well, how can you control your future work and life? I glanced at my sister and brother. My sister seems to be listening carefully. My brother has been looking at my dad, and I seem to only remember what my dad said at that time. What I really hear is to study hard. This is my father's family motto-study hard.
There are national laws and family rules. Every time grandma starts to reason with us, this is her opening remarks. Every time we hear this, our family will smile, quietly find a small bench to sit down and listen to grandma's family rules. Yesterday, I specially put some coins on the table to see if you children would take them to buy food, but fortunately, I saw that all three of you saw the money on the table but no one touched it, so this is commendable. You should be a man and don't do trivial things. Even if the money is in your house, it doesn't belong to you. You can't take it, understand? We replied with one voice: Yes! Then grandma went on to say that being a man is a conscience. If there is no conscience, this person's life is meaningless, you know? Once again, we answered with one voice: Yes! Then class was over. Grandma got up and left happily. We breathed a sigh of relief and it was all over. This is the family style that our family has always adhered to-honesty and kindness.
The family style of our family is like a breeze blowing slowly, which subtly makes you recite these family styles and family instructions and really do it.
Family Style Family Instruction Theme Composition 10 As the saying goes, "State-owned laws." A country has its own laws, a family has its own rules, and our family also has its own family style and family training.
My parents taught me from an early age that I should be punctual in everything, whether at school or at class parties. My parents told me about punctuality before, but I didn't understand it, but one thing when I was a child made me really understand the importance of punctuality.
During the summer vacation, my friends and I participated in the mountain climbing activities in the summer camp. Before leaving, the teacher told us to get back to the bus before 1 1: 00. I set off with my classmates. Everyone had a good time because of the rare good weather. I talked and laughed with my classmates. From time to time, I took out my camera and pressed the shutter, taking pictures of everyone's smiling faces with this beautiful scenery. Just as we were having fun, I don't know who said, "It's getting late!" " "I saw the table below, and it is true that there are only 40 minutes left before the assembly time. We had a good time and were attracted by the beautiful scenery here. We really couldn't bear to leave. At this time, I remembered what my parents repeatedly told me before going out: go with the big troops, listen to the teacher's requirements and return to the assembly place on time. If a person is not punctual, it will affect the later trip. At this time, two students are still taking pictures. I shouted to them, "It's time to go back. "I tried to convince them for a long time, but they didn't want it back. I have to go back with other friends.
When we returned to the meeting place, the teachers were counting the number of people: "Two students were missing. Which one of you saw it? " "When I went down the mountain, they were still taking pictures." I said. The teacher had to pick up the phone and call them, but I couldn't get through. Teachers are also a little anxious, because driving late means that the next activities can't be carried out normally. Two teachers went to look for them, so we had to sit in the car and wait anxiously. I don't know how long it took, and everyone was unhappy.
Only then did I really understand what my parents often told me: "Be punctual in everything." I didn't think it was very important before, but today I really realized the importance of punctuality.
Punctuality is the motto of our family. My parents taught me to be an honest and punctual boy, and I will pass it on.
Family Style Family Training Theme Essay 1 1 Family style is the practice and ethos of family members, the internal characteristics and moral norms of the family, and also the personality characteristics of a family. However, with the development of social economy, family style has been forgotten and diluted by us. Today, it is necessary to restart the discussion.
China people have attached importance to the cultivation of family style since ancient times. From Yan Jiaxun to Zeng Guofan's letters, there are more than 100 recorded and published family styles, which fully shows the extremely important position of family in China's traditional culture. There are many well-known family precepts, such as "a father is kind and filial", "a husband is righteous and a woman is obedient", "the heart of an official follows the king" and "the five permanent virtues" (five permanent principles: courtesy, kindness, faithfulness and harmony). These family precepts have become an important part of China's traditional culture and have a positive impact on the education and social development of future generations.
Nowadays, it is often heard in society that a child is unreasonable and uneducated. In the final analysis, there is something wrong with his family education. Pay attention to material pursuit, ignore learning, and lack the carrier of moral guidance and inheritance of family style; Population mobility is large, relatives get together less, families are miniaturized, and it is more difficult to inherit family traditions; The change from acquaintance socialization to stranger socialization has also brought external difficulties to the inheritance of family style. All kinds of phenomena make the family style gradually forgotten and diluted.
To regain family style, we must not only rely on social moral construction, but also rely on correcting some bad phenomena in society. The cultivation of family style and the creation of social atmosphere also depend on the generation-to-generation transmission of each family member, and more importantly, the words and deeds of parents. The example of parents is the most direct and important way for children to receive family education. Parents' emotions, likes and dislikes, thrift and dignity will exert a subtle influence on the next generation. To rebuild family style, we must start with family and attach importance to family concept. Every family member should have a sense of family style and put family in a more important position.
A typical family style is an important factor to urge people to be good, improve their character and be self-motivated. Good home wind energy makes people self-disciplined in words and deeds. For society, a good family style is the power of morality and the belief in rules. If every family can inherit the fine family style, the moral decline will stagnate and the truth, goodness and beauty on earth will spread in the family style.
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