How to deal with parents who value traditional paternalism, are undemocratic, unreasonable and don't respect their children?

Let's face it, my dad just, no matter what others say, always calls what others hurt bad things to show his ability. . Sometimes he doesn't pay attention to what he says, and if it doesn't conform, he will say, I'm your father and say what's wrong with you. It's been 33 years. It's always been like this. I can only face it helplessly. In his original words, it's your father. What can you do?