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My boyfriend broke up with me because I was conservative.

Introversion is only the appearance, and the essence behind it is that they lack self-confidence, courage, poor communication and too thin-skinned. Introversion is just the externalized form of these problems, and its core is inferiority. Therefore, only introverts who lack self-confidence will have a negative attitude towards their introversion. In other words, their denial of their introverted personality is essentially a denial of themselves. If introverts can accept their own personality first, make clear their own advantages in life, work hard with a down-to-earth and steady attitude, find their own direction of success in life, constantly improve their own strength in life and enrich their lives, then you will gradually stop caring about whether you are introverted or not, because you have real confidence in yourself, including your own personality. At that time, you will naturally associate with people and express yourself freely. Why bother about "introversion"? As soon as the thinking changes, introverts can find many advantages of introversion, for example, introverts can observe and think more calmly, be good at observing other people's minds, let themselves have more time to study without too much socializing, be less influenced by popular ideas but be more creative, have fewer friends but be more solid, and so on.