A person does not enter the temple, two people do not look at the well, three people do not embrace the tree, sitting alone do not rely on the fence.

China's traditional culture is profound, especially a lot of ancient proverbs, the vast majority of ancient people's life experience, even today, there is still a deeper significance of reality. Then, "a person does not enter the temple, two people do not look at the well, three people do not hug the tree, sitting alone, not by the fence," this ancient saying, how we should understand, and what to learn from it?

"One person does not enter the temple", is that the temple is enshrined in the place of Buddha, mostly solemn, empty and gloomy, in the past, but also often is to hide the dirt or the place where criminals hang out, so if a person alone in the face of the solemn Buddha, not inevitably a little bit afraid, and may even be attacked by the bad guys, met with untoward events. Now is also the case, a person had better not go to strange, desolate places, especially deserted temples, etc., especially single women, in the middle of nowhere, the cell phone signal is no longer good, such as in danger, even the opportunity to call for help are not.

"Two people do not look at the well", said the ancient two to Beijing to catch the examination of the Xiucai, together in company, on the way, when one of them looked down at the well, the other out of some kind of motivation, he pushed him into the well and drowned. This story tells us that we should not trust others lightly, especially the drinking friends we just met, even if there is a so-called longer friendship, you will never be able to read each other's inner world.

"Three people do not hold the tree", also known as "three people do not lift the tree", three people *** with the trunk of a large tree, two people on both sides, a person in the middle, if you are unfortunate to be in the front, the middle of the person once the bad, move back, the other two are easy! The other two are easy, your burden is bound to be aggravated, carry to the end, tired to vomit blood, tired out of internal injuries can only be you. The reality of this sentence is that, if three people colleagues get along, to try to guard against, the other two people ganged up on you, hurt you.

"Sitting alone, not by the fence", also said that in ancient times, there are two brothers, because of jealousy of the eldest brother's talent, designed to saw the railing, so that the eldest brother can not swim by the fence, fell into the water and drowned in the story. Now although it is unlikely that such things happen, but, sitting alone on the fence, most of them have sad and desperate things, the mood is often very painful, this situation on the fence looking at the water, lamenting life, think about it okay, in case you can't think about it, it is easy to make a fool of themselves, jumping into the water to commit suicide.

In summary, "a person does not enter the temple, two people do not look at the well, three people do not hold the tree, sitting alone on the fence," are warning the world, human life is the most valuable, can not easily trust anyone, the so-called "harm can not be there, the prevention of people can not be absent! "The precautionary consciousness of each of us, we must have, nothing to prevent something, careful not for more than one, so that we can be able to spend a lifetime in peace and security.