Collect family instructions widely circulated in China traditional culture.

It's hard to be moved without a poem.

There is nothing to say if you don't learn Poetry.

If you don't learn "courtesy", you can't stand.

Confucius said, "The 300 Poems of the Book of Songs can be summed up in one sentence, which can be called: all of them are out of sincere feelings." He also said: "Why don't students learn poetry? When learning poetry, we can arouse sincere thoughts, cultivate personal integrity, communicate the feelings of the public, and resolve grievances and resentment. Recently, I know how to serve my parents. In the long run, I know how to serve the monarch. In addition, you can also know the names of plants, animals and birds widely. "

The book of songs can cultivate temperament, enlighten people, learn the way of life, and even play the role of natural history. Rites, in today's words, are rules, including tangible national laws, folk rules, rules and regulations of enterprises and institutions, intangible customs and habits, etc. If you don't know them, it's really hard to move.

2. Sima Tan's A Child's Life

Filial piety is the foundation of virtue and the source of education.

Filial piety, however, begins with relatives, serves you, and finally stands;

Leave a name for parents in later generations, who is the greatest filial piety.

This statement comes from the book of filial piety. In ancient China, individuals were closely linked with their families and countries. They were people in the collective, unlike people in western Christian civilization who were atomic individuals.

Confucianism believes that man is the blood of his ancestors. Therefore, Confucian culture emphasizes filial piety, loyalty to the monarch and patriotism, and advocates that individuals gain fame by serving the society and the country to show their parents.

3. Han Yu's family instructions

Eight sentences, warning future generations how to become useful talents.

Someone asked me about worldly affairs and shook my head and said I didn't know.

You must be close to a knowledgeable person, but it is a heartless friend to thank you early.

Taking a step back is natural and elegant, and it is even more leisurely.

Endure a few carefree words and be happy for a while.

If you are poor, you can't boast that you are rich, but you can't see that you are rich for long.

It is better to pick tea from the deep mountains than to drink wine from Huajie.

It is easy for a gentleman to get married, but it is not difficult for seven gentlemen to make up their minds.

Eating vegetable roots is light and tasty, so it's not surprising to observe the king's law.

Be honest, tolerant and progressive; You must make honest and kind friends, not heartless friends; Do not envy glory, do not dislike poverty; Resist temper and gossip; Diligent housekeeping, not debauchery; You should be firm, don't indulge in loving children, obey the law, and don't take risks for selfish desires ... This is probably the way that Han Yu wants to tell future generations to be healthy.

4. Lu You Family Training

Never be smart, or you will ruin your future.

Those who are sharp after life are most likely to do bad things.

If there is, my father and brother should be worried, not happy.

Always add a simple bundle to familiarize yourself with Confucian classics.

Be generous and respectful in training, and don't let people swim with humble people.

From then on, for ten years, my interests became self-contained.

Otherwise, it is not the only thing to worry about.

I said this, the medical stone of later generations,

Everyone must be careful not to regret.

Being a man is most afraid of being clever. Kong Rong's cleverness killed the whole family, and the story of Wang Anshi's business had to be alerted. The more intelligent people show from childhood, the more they should study, cultivate their temperament, enrich their moral character and raise their ambitions.

5. Ji Xiaolan's Under the Temptation and Silk Clothes.

Nothing is difficult in the world.

Under the temptation: get up late; Second, quit being lazy;

The three precepts are luxurious and gorgeous; Under the temptation is pride.

Four appropriate: one appropriate: study hard; Second: respect teachers;

Three meanings: love all beings; Sisi Lee: Pay attention to your diet.

Nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it; Luxurious life, failure, pride and willfulness, the source of disaster. Reading makes people understand, respecting teachers and teaching. ......

6. Yan Jiaxun

Teaching women is new, so is teaching babies.

("Yan's family precepts godson")?

As soon as the new wife has just passed the door, she must make rules, and the education of her children should start from infancy. It means to educate a person in time and early.

Life is young and the spirit is patented. When you grow up, you should think about it and relax. Be sure to teach early and don't miss the opportunity.

("Yan's Family Training Mianxue")?

When people are young, they are sharp in concentration. When they grow up, their thoughts are easily scattered and difficult to concentrate. So we should educate people from an early age. Don't miss this great opportunity.

Parents are dignified and kind, and children are timid and filial.

("Yan's family precepts godson")?

Parents have dignity in front of their children and can care for them, and children will be awed, cautious and filial to their parents. This article can be used as a reference when talking about parents' attitude towards their children.

The husband who is corrupt, from top to bottom, also applies to the latter from the beginning. Therefore, the father is unkind, the son is unfilial, the brother is not a friend, the brother is disrespectful, the husband is unjust, and the woman is unhappy.

("Yan's family precepts and family management articles")?

Education and influence are carried out from top to bottom, and predecessors have influenced future generations. Therefore, the father is unkind, the son is unfilial, the younger brother is unfriendly, the younger brother is disrespectful, the husband is unkind, and the woman does not obey.