What are your experiences and gains in understanding etiquette, learning etiquette and performing etiquette?

First, let's learn manners. For a person, etiquette is the external expression of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural literacy and communicative competence. It is the minimum moral standard that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain normal social life. It is gradually formed in people's long-term life and communication and is fixed by customs and traditions. Therefore, learning etiquette can not only strengthen personal quality internally, but also shape units (small families, enterprises and institutions, communities, big cities and countries) and lubricate and improve interpersonal relationships. With the development and progress of society, the continuous improvement of civilization and the increasing communication with people, civilized etiquette has become an indispensable part of people's life and business in modern society. Therefore, it is of great practical significance to learn etiquette knowledge and use etiquette norms to improve their comprehensive quality.

Civilized etiquette is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. China is called "the state of etiquette". Since ancient times, Chinese people have always placed civilization and etiquette in a very important position. Nowadays, with the acceleration of reform, opening up and modernization, civilized etiquette is particularly important. Its content and scope are all-encompassing and ubiquitous. A person's manners, expressions, talks and handling of people and things can show a person's quality cultivation and the overall image of a unit.

Second, uncivilized behavior is also a national shame.

In a country, the individual is the subject. What is the most important thing for an individual? I think the first thing is to have a civilized quality. Only when everyone has the quality of civilization can the overall quality of this country be improved. In real life, we all regret to find that in today's highly developed material civilization, there are some problems in the civilized quality of our citizens. Let's look at a news: On the second day of the "Eleventh" Golden Week, more than 80 Korean tourists, including more than 30 children, collectively picked up garbage in Nanshan Scenic Area in Urumqi, Xinjiang. These guests from afar saw the garbage everywhere in the scenic spot during the tour, and they spontaneously organized to clean up the garbage. In just 20 minutes, nearly 1 km of garbage in Fiona Fang was cleaned up. Let's look at the children. Today's children are all only children who grew up under superior material living conditions. There are many uncivilized words and deeds in manners and manners. In the family, the elders attach importance to knowledge learning and neglect moral education, thinking that children only need to study hard and neglect the education of children's etiquette, which leads to their indifference and selfishness to the family, self-centeredness, failure to communicate with their parents, failure to understand their parents' hardships, failure to cherish their parents' money and failure to share the burden of the family. These behaviors directly affect the healthy growth of children and the image of the school.

Third, civilized etiquette starts from me and starts from bit by bit.

Social etiquette is everywhere.

In daily life, people are inseparable from social etiquette all the time. So I think we should really pay attention to details, pursue perfection and try to do everything well in our daily work. I believe that if each of us can start from me and establish a good image of ourselves and the company from now on, then our life will be more colorful and our society will be more warm and harmonious. We are in a society, and our identities and roles are constantly changing. We hate others one moment, and often become the object that others don't like the next. These are all caused by "irregular" behavior.

Exterior civilization is the reflection of inner civilization. To cultivate good manners, we must have inherent civilized qualities. Therefore, we should all learn the basic knowledge of social etiquette, strengthen our self-cultivation and cultivate noble sentiments and good habits. Pay attention to your appearance, speak civilized words, do civilized things, dress dignified and tidy, behave politely, and maintain a good image of internal quality and external civilization.

2. Pay attention to etiquette and details.

Good etiquette quality and civilized behavior can't be improved and cultivated overnight, but we should start from usual times and start from little by little. If you answer the phone, you should say, "Hello! Please say ... "This kind of kind words will give people a kind and warm feeling. Therefore, in our daily work, we should always pay attention to etiquette and professional etiquette, but also pay attention to the cultivation of family etiquette and family virtues, and consciously respect the old and love the young, respect each other, be polite, behave harmoniously and live harmoniously. As long as we persist in paying attention to practical results, we should start from peacetime and start from dribs and drabs.

As tourists, we always spit, spit gum, trample on the lawn and scribble on cultural relics according to our own interests; When we were citizens, we hated spitting and doodling. When we are pedestrians, we tend to walk as close as possible, no matter whether he runs a red light or not, we hate those who don't drive according to the rules. When we are driving, we always grab the driveway, get stuck in traffic jams, occupy non-motor vehicle lanes, and hate pedestrians who drive on the road without authorization. As consumers, we often vent our personal grievances on the service staff and always say that they have a bad attitude; As service personnel, we always bring personal emotions to our work, but we always complain that our customers are too picky. When we get along with colleagues, we always complain about their "informality", whether it is talking about money or borrowing things at work or in life; And we are often too lazy to pay attention to those "sections". When we take the bus, we are always complacent about getting a seat. When we squeeze into or step on others, we never bother to say sorry. When we are squeezed or trampled, we always feel sorry for each other instead of saying sorry, and even add our fists and feet; When we are old and standing on a rickety car, we are always eager for someone to give us our seats.

3, be a model, be a model.

As we all know, teacher etiquette runs through all aspects of life and work. Developing good teachers' etiquette habits requires everyone's joint efforts. Paying attention to etiquette education and improving teachers' quality is the call of the times and the requirement of society. As teachers, we are the messengers of educating people, shouldering the important responsibility of promoting the civilization and progress of the whole society, and shouldering the glorious responsibility of teaching and educating people and being a teacher. Teachers' appearance, expression, manners, clothing, speech and treatment of people have all become role models for students and society. Language is a tool for teachers to impart knowledge and communicate with students, and it is also a means for teachers to teach students by example. I think as a teacher, we should treat every child equally with an equal heart, put down the teacher's airs, treat students sincerely, be their friends, respect them, care for them and cherish them. Appreciate the bright spots in children, thus promoting their development. Therefore, in a sense, teachers' etiquette cultivation will directly affect the next generation and the future of the motherland. Etiquette is a detail, and etiquette is also a business card. As a teacher, we should pay great attention to the impression we leave on our children, so as to become an excellent example that children can follow in all aspects and truly be a teacher.

In a word, being a teacher means that our whole life journey will face a personality challenge. We must summon up courage and climb to a new height of personality development without hesitation. Every people's teacher should strengthen self-cultivation, keep learning, improve ideological understanding and moral consciousness, be strict with himself at ordinary times, set an example for students with a good image of teachers' morality, and make contributions to the creation of a harmonious society.

Fourth, experiments have proved that.

From the moment he came to this world, each of us needed the caress, comfort, consideration, care and mutual help of others, and we all longed for sincere friendship and mutual help. When we are happy, we need to share with others. When we are in pain and trouble, we need to talk to others. When you are in trouble, you need others' help. In dealing with people, we also need tolerance, openness, tolerance of different opinions, friendliness, understanding, no complaining, no jealousy and no doubt. Be reasonable, apologize for being unreasonable, get along with others sincerely, be kind to others, respect each other and trust each other. Sometimes a "hello" will bring good mood to others, a "thank you" will bring people closer, a "sorry" can resolve tense conflicts, and a "never mind" is equivalent to blowing away the warm spring breeze. Let's all take action and make "please, hello, thank you, sorry, never mind, goodbye" our daily language. Let each of us treat others with a friendly and sincere attitude, bring happiness and harmony to others with warm and generous actions, make the society full of love and warmth, and let the flowers of civilization and courtesy bloom in our society!

From practice, it can be proved that neat appearance, dignified manners, civilized speech and attention to social etiquette are also effective means to do a good job. If you receive visitors and the masses come to you to reflect your problems, but you behave inappropriately, speak rudely and are absent-minded, you will lack trust, arouse the resentment of visitors, and even turn against each other and break up in discord. And if you are polite, warmly received and patiently listened when the tourists report the situation, it will give people a sense of trust, make people complain and leave satisfied and happy. Similarly, receiving visitors, paying attention to social etiquette and manners and manners will have two completely different effects.

Fifth, experience.

Through studying and carrying out polite activities, I realize that there are many things I can't do in my usual work. It seems that we have neglected too much from the small bow and scrape to the civilized language. For example, we don't seem to pay much attention to some common problems in our daily work, such as irregular bow and scrape, low voice of civilized language, deadpan and so on. The overall progress of society is not only reflected in material sufficiency and technological progress, but also needs to cultivate a perfect spirit and noble personality. To promote the construction of healthy personality of members of the whole society, it is necessary to rebuild etiquette, so that people can get in touch with each other and live in harmony in a harmonious social life, and get spiritual pleasure and satisfaction. This requires us to rebuild new civilized etiquette that reflects the requirements of the times on the basis of carrying forward the excellent traditional etiquette of the Chinese nation, so as to make China an economic power and a "etiquette state" in the new century!

Life is short, and only virtue can spread it to the distant afterlife. Let's act! Carve the civilized etiquette deeply in your heart, and strive to be a qualified civilized person and a citizen in the new century. Create a beautiful society with your short life.